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Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 2 December 2011: "Boris, there is a third option: find a girl with values and morals towards intimacy that are the same as yours. They are rare, but to me, they are worth looking for." Well, I'm that kind of girl... my sexual history is so low, that I can tell ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 23 January 2011: OCD and obsession... but you speak as if you have no choices. The thoughts come and you decide to allow the "horror" movie to play in your mind and drive you insane.
I know it's not as easy as it sounds, but thoughts can be controlled through ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 January 2011: Somewhatdamaged,
Tisha is right, it sounds like you badly need professional help and counselling. Your situation is slightly different from the usual RJ cases we here, and I suspect there is anger, hatred and guilt, over wrong choices that have... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 15 December 2010: Hi babes, Glad to hear you still working hard on making yourself a better person. Doesn't sound like this marriage is working for either of you, and from what you say, I don't see much reason for you to stay. Doing what is right for you is a gre... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 30 August 2010: This interesting post has come up again.. I'd like to repost something pyroshadow said which I thought was very helpful.
"You should be trying to help him. Trying to tell him that its not his fault he loves someone who has done such awful things. ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 21 August 2010: "when I get into these debates my ratings on this site go WAY down (from above 8 to usually around 7.5)" (anon)
So that's how it's done... good thing that I aint really worried about my ratings, cause I would have left a long time ago.. but it s... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 16 August 2010: Actually, picking up the morality part... many guys with this retrograde jealousy make a point of pointing out that the values of the woman who sleeps around disgusts them very much...
This is the point that Odds and Pyroshadow were trying t... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: Men and women BOTH, encourage the idea of the promiscuous male super stud lover.. :)... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "But as you admit sometimes you speak too soon rather than taking the time to reflect on what has been said. I think this has happened here."
@ Yos....
I hate that word Slut.... grrrrr
But yes, I was wrong... :)... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "The only people who seem to approve of man-sluts are women themselves (evidenced by the fact that they, by definition, continue to date and sleep with man-sluts), and not even all of those by a long shot."
You have a very strange view of the worl... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 15 August 2010: "Since when is it "OK" for a man to be promiscuous?"
Men are called studs and applauded by other men when they ;have sex with many women. Men and boys boast about the amount of women they have slept with and always lie and say the number is high.... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 August 2010: Ah.. thank you Yos.. finally I understand the feelings people get through Retrograde jealousy. I have clinical depression and in the past I have felt bad enough to try to end my life... It wasn't rational, and it wasn't controlable and ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 14 August 2010: Yes, anon, I asked Pyroshadow the same question, but it hasn't come through, so I'll ask it again, and no judgement is meant.....
Is the feelings of jealousy really as strong as the complete devastation and worthlessness people feel when they hav... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 12 August 2010: Oh dear, Pyroshadow, your one of the people I'm talking about who is helping me learn to understand this jealousy thing...
As I said, I'm still pondering hard about the last question you set... ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 10 August 2010: I'm one of the "shut up and get over it brigade.. the past is the past", but with the help from you men brave enough to tell their stories, I'm learning my advice is not helpful at all...
I'm learning...
But, I speak to a lot of women who suf... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 7 August 2010: "The most intense pleasure comes from the head of the penis, therefore deep throating is nothing more than an image created for porn and it is more about control and power than actual pleasure" (female anon 3rd august)
Excuse me, but 99% of sex h... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 7 August 2010: Reader anonymous (4th august)
Your latest post is very interesting.. yes you are right.. a lot of our current pornography is bad.. yes, a lot of pornography shows women "taking it all and still smiling", but there is a hell of a lot of porn... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 7 August 2010: "Miamine, it is clear you don't know how to give a bj from your statement.."
lol.. no point arguing with a fool, that will only make me look as silly as you...
Most guys say that I'm "proffessional".. aint had no complaints... me best techniqu... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 31 July 2010: lol..thanks dirtball, aint had no complaints,but learnt me techiques through pornography and books...seems to me selfish Jonny Penis is the most important things to guys.... treat Johnny Penis right, and give kisses to the boyfriend, then everything ... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 30 July 2010: Mrs Pussy Cat is wet and dark.. but so is your mouth... lol... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 30 July 2010: Johnny Penis is also as impatient as he is arrogant, so most of the time he likes it quick and fast... but this hurts your hands and your mouth... this is when you take a break and start introducing suprises to him.. :P... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 30 July 2010: When you are giving a blow job, please remember there is 4 people in the room.. there is you, and your Mrs Pussy cat, boyfriend bring his friend Johnny penis along so things will be equal..
Now Mr Johnny Penis likes anything. You can kiss him... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 30 July 2010: mmmm.. I'm taking notes... needs to go in the DC manual.. Advice note 400... "Be carefull, loving kisses can break bones and leave you toothless"... lol... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 30 July 2010: yep, me too... if you like it, then it'll make you hotter and more attractive than ever...
I'm crossing my feet now and wishing you both joy... :)... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 30 July 2010: Indeed... :D ... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 29 July 2010: Me again...
If you two are having sex, then try to masturbate him only using your foot.... this drives most men wild, even if they don't have a foot fetish.. and it's absolutely brilliant excersise for your inside thighs and keeps you flexible... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 29 July 2010: Sorry.. no hitting.. patience works best.. just keep acting like eve and tempt him to be naughty with you...
It would be so much easier if he would only follow your lead.. sigh..... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 29 July 2010: Ok.. he's damn slow... mmmmmm....
Tell him you get really hot and sexy when a man sucks your toes... ahahahaha.. men with hangups..
Maybe hit him in the head with the shoe and he will start to think sensibly... :D... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Remember I mentioned before, he has sadness and worries which have nothing to do with you... I bet he's the kind of guy who if he loves you today, he'll love you tomorrow, that's why he's been able to try to forgive you and come back... as you said, ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: "monotone and just emotionless"....
that's what being a solider does to people.. it's not you, it's the job he's doing, he's seen too much unhappiness and therefore needs a lot of loving kindness..... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 29 July 2010: Cerberus... nice guy too...
When will us foolish women learn that there are guys that love us, all of us, just the way we are..
Dear caller, please change your attitude and start loving yourself too..... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 29 July 2010: Hahaha... dirtball.. you like and respect women, and are a very nice man.. lol... (read in full...)
Why do guys like performing oral sex?
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 19 and a sophomore in college as well as my boyfriend. We have done everything we could think of besides sex which is something we are wanting to do very badly every we see each other. I seriously feel like everytime that f...
A. 29 July 2010: They love the smell... a man who likes the taste of a woman is a man who loves and respects women a lot..
He seems to love and accept your body much more than you do.
Keep trim, and don't go overboard trying to disinfect yourself so you ... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 29 July 2010: Nearly missed your question...
What did I learn durring watching porn...
Well, I learnt how to deep throat and give brilliant blow jobs..
I also learnt that women can enjoy sex and it's not always a case of rape...
Is it so hard to believ... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 29 July 2010: Sorry, that's feet in lap, not the shoes.. lol... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 29 July 2010: Also get sexy shoes, all men like that...
If you are doing the sex thing, then take off shoes and put them in his lap, feet massaging penis is a nice feeling.. ... (read in full...)
Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...
A. 29 July 2010: Best not to say anything if it embarrasses him. But there is no harm on you spending more time on your feet.... wash them in front of him, put on nail vanish in a sexy way, blow to dry, put on cream and massage them in...
Wow, you are so lucky...... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: http://www.militaryonesource.com/MOS/About/Announcements.aspx#622... (read in full...)
Two days after anal sex and I'm still bleeding. Is this normal?
Q. I tried anal sex for the first time with my bf, and it hurt so I told him too pull it out even before it got all the way in. When I got home, and used the restroom -number2- I realized my anus was bleeding. This is the second day that it's been ...
A. 29 July 2010: Go to the doctor... ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: opps.. he don't like the sexy stuff... ok, some men don't, that's ok... he probably likes women to pretend to be pure.. so do it romantic like instead....
I'm crossing my fingers babes, but whatever happens, this stuff is doing you good, I can se... (read in full...)
My husband found out I am not a virgin! What can I do?
Q. sir,,i got a mistake,my problem is that my husband got on first night that i am not virgin girl.what can i do....
A. 29 July 2010: What did your husband say? Is he very angry, does he want a divorce?... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Sorry... last point from me.. promise.. hahahaha...
If he gets sexy letters everyday from his wife at home, he will make the other soliders jealous.. they will tell him how wonderfull and special his wife is, and they will work to help him fall... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Yep.. like this letter writing thing... people can be honest in letters, people can fall in love with letters...
A guy used to write my mother letters everyday, and she fell in love with him... when she found out who he was, she didn't notice h... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: PS: Ask him to speak to the army chaplin about problems in his marriage... the army can offer help and counselling.. just because he's going away dosen't mean there isn't resources to help both him and you...
Keep on trying babes untill you have... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: Oh yea.. the aunts are right.. people that are in the army learn to ignore the normal emotions and can react like stone walls.. they have to protect themselves, they see death, destruction and murder every day... a woman who is healthy, in a safe ... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 29 July 2010: It's easy for other people to talk about divorce, they don't have to sign the papers, they aren't the people who will end up single with regrets... Marriage is supposed to be for life, not something you dump because you hit a couple of hard ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to demand she only speak with me?
Q. Hello All, I am 26 years , I will marrying soon withing couple of months . I have a porblem i love very much my financy , before marriage we are now speaking all things on phone , she told all things about her and she said that she is having a ...
A. 28 July 2010: "i always think that her whole love should come to me..."
You are not ready for marriage.. You are controlling and suffocating this poor woman. If she has a child, you will hate the child because it means she has to share her love arround.... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: And this unloved and unappreciated feeling? Has he always treated you this way? Was he distant before you did the cheating thing?... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: How good are you at letter writing? Are you any good at telling stories and fairy tales?... (read in full...)
So confused and don't know where to go from here. I'm tired of putting in all the effort!
Q. So you get an idea of what's going on without having to go back and read my other posts, my husband is in the army and deployed for 15 months less than a year ago. He was really cold and distant from me and I couldn't handle it. I had a guy friend ...
A. 28 July 2010: Congratulations Babymonkey, I can hear the change in you and I'm very impressed.
Of course you got to fight for your guy, of course you got to do your best to save your marriage, you love him and I think he probably loves you.
He could have... (read in full...)
Her parents want us to take a test to see if we had sex
Q. MOD NOTE: All signs point to the fact that the poster cannot be 33. okay i had sex with this girl and her parents kinda know so now they want us to go take a test to see if we did and i never cum in her would they still find out?...
A. 26 July 2010: If the girl is under age and still her parents responsibility then they can ask a doctor to see if she still has her hymen, but many girls don't, many hymen's are broken with vigorous exercise..
If your not 33, then I hope you and the girl are... (read in full...)
Is my partner correct to want me to ask for his permission to answer the phone late at night?
Q. 22.15hrs I was having a talk with my partner about an important matter to us both. My mobile phone rang in the room next door, and he got up first to fetch it and brought it to me for me to answer which I did. It was a short message from a friend. ...
A. 26 July 2010: Miss Manners guide to 21st Century says that the person in front of you should be more important than any phone call. The correct etiquite is to turn the phone off and continue the conversation. If the call is important and cannot wait, then a ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: "Virginity is just one of the many attributes that an individual wants in a person." (shoccs)
This is something that I don't understand. Are all virgin's nice, kind and thoughtfull.. Are there no virgin criminals in jail? (apart from kids tha... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: Buddhist way is the best.. jealousy is a mind poison, it's the worst possessive side of us trying to destory our lives..
Either use Buddhist meditation techniques, to realise the mind has many thoughts, not all of them pleasant, but most of them ... (read in full...)
Retrograde jealousy
Q. DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...
A. 26 July 2010: Brilliant MissManners, some of them angry anon's got a fantastic post closed with their own worries and woes..
It's nice for them to have a space to express their anger in a healthy way, rather than destroying another person's chance at happines... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 23 July 2010: Me again.... Stuff it.. you ask me what I would do... well of course I would go.. but I would gatecrash with a ton of girlfriends and other wives... I would make sure the ladies go as well... for me that's the best solution.. dosen't bring up... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 23 July 2010: PS: If you know some of the other wives, why not let them know that this is how the husbands spend their time.. Maybe together you can work on getting invitations to see the entertainment for yourselves...... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 23 July 2010: ah, so these are two lapdancers.. the evenings entertainment... then yes, maybe your right... he shouldn't go... this dosen't sound like a work party where men get to know each other.. it sounds, from your description, like a bachelors party where ... (read in full...)
Addicted to lesbian porn, Please help me stop
Q. i masturbate to lesbian porn because i dont like the penis', and it feels sooooo good, but i wanna stop because it makes me feel reallly bad... can sumone please help me? ps. i started at 13... HELP...
A. 23 July 2010: mmmm.. sorry, but you have very bad gramma for someone who is their 30's, that must cause you problems when you are at work.
Anyway, you have no problems that I can see.. you like lesbian porn and don't like the penis... At the age of 30 and over... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 23 July 2010: I'm also a bit confused.. are these two whores who the guys have hired, or is the woman someone who is a work collegue and is there because she works in the same company?... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 23 July 2010: And there's no point asking what I would do.. I don't do jealousy....... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 23 July 2010: So do you believe that your husband and his friends are having a orgy gang bang with these two women?... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 23 July 2010: And no, you don't have to stay at home, if your going to torture yourself with ideas about your husband having fun without you. Hire a babysitter and call up some friends and go out for the evening and have fun yourself.... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 23 July 2010: I would trust my husband to behave appropriately.. you don't like this woman or her behaviour... but again, what does that have to do with your husband... A woman he knows behaves badly, but he's the one who has to give up golf and stay at home..
... (read in full...)
I would never date a man with 'baggage'
Q. I'm 21 and his son is 5 years old, we been seeing each other 5 months. He never told me he had a child till 3 months into our relationship as I had told him, a few times before that I would never date a man with 'baggage' he still decided to see me ...
A. 21 July 2010: This relationship can't work, he isn't in the situation you want and you will probably find it more difficult as time goes on. If you love him it's possible to work on and compromise so he can be a father and still have you by his side. However, ... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 21 July 2010: If you have problems with this woman, then send her a letter or something.. But please stop pushing your husband round and blaming him for this woman's actions.... (read in full...)
Crazy little thing called love!
Q. A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...
A. 21 July 2010: Am i crazy to think she wants him?
Do you think your husband is an animal, ruled by his penis, with no loyalty or brains..
So she wants him, so what? I want Richard Gere and Johnny Depp as well.
She can want what she wants, but that dose... (read in full...)
My cat is peeing on my couch!! HELP PLEASE!!
Q. My cat is 2 years old, and he is peeing on my couches.. I just moved so he is a little mad but I want him to stop... What can I do to get him to stop. (He is fixed) ...
A. 21 July 2010: Sell cat.. problem solved... :)
This advice thing is easy..... (read in full...)
I'm not into relationships so broke up with her. Why can't I get over her?
Q. Hi so I recently broke up with this girl who I was seeing for about two months, for several reason, mostly because I'm just not one for relationships. But the thing is, I'm still not over her. She's very shy, but she's also beautiful and smart, and ...
A. 21 July 2010: I'm a romantic, read to many fairy stories I think...
Your young, you'll get over "whatever this is", in time..... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 21 July 2010: However you are right ms anon when you say, there really needs to be more female friendly pornography... the current state of the selection out there is really pretty bad... I prefer the older pornographic material myself.. :)... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 21 July 2010: "Because until you've lived it and stopped, you don't realize what it actually did to your brain. It's not harmless. You won't realize how not harmless it is until you stop."
This is your experience... I have used and enjoyed pornography in the p... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 20 July 2010: "Find me all the posts on this forum from all the men who are disappointed with their female partners for looking at too much porn. Here's a hint - there are none!" (male anon)
Actually male anon, there was one single post (in all the years I ... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 20 July 2010: When will people realise that... WOMEN WATCH PORNOGRAPHY TOO!!! Not all of us feel crushed and humilated, please speak for yourself only anon... ... (read in full...)
I'm not into relationships so broke up with her. Why can't I get over her?
Q. Hi so I recently broke up with this girl who I was seeing for about two months, for several reason, mostly because I'm just not one for relationships. But the thing is, I'm still not over her. She's very shy, but she's also beautiful and smart, and ...
A. 20 July 2010: :(... (read in full...)
I'm not into relationships so broke up with her. Why can't I get over her?
Q. Hi so I recently broke up with this girl who I was seeing for about two months, for several reason, mostly because I'm just not one for relationships. But the thing is, I'm still not over her. She's very shy, but she's also beautiful and smart, and ...
A. 18 July 2010: No it dosen't.. it means he's already in love with her, and he has a relationship with her in his heart but is thinking with his head....
That's what you mean Q by what you just said.... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 18 July 2010: mmm.. five or six times a day... yes I can see now why you and him believe he may have had an addiction.. that seems very excessive.... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 18 July 2010: I'm actually pro-pornography, but that's me.. You can't force a man to stop, but their is no reason why should like it. You control your life, and for you this is a deal breaker...
I am glad however that your willing to compromise and are also... (read in full...)
I'm not into relationships so broke up with her. Why can't I get over her?
Q. Hi so I recently broke up with this girl who I was seeing for about two months, for several reason, mostly because I'm just not one for relationships. But the thing is, I'm still not over her. She's very shy, but she's also beautiful and smart, and ...
A. 18 July 2010: "I care about her a lot but I see it as kind of pointless to date in high school because someone just ends up getting hurt anyways."
- Your solution hasn't worked because two people have already been hurt.
"So basically, is it normal that I'm ... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 18 July 2010: Exactly person12345 (no 6) that's what I was trying to say.. your way was much better though.... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 18 July 2010: Ok, more clarification and a very good compromise... you will allow pornography sometimes if it's something you do together..
He has agreed that he is too dependant on pornography.
Can you ask him to come to you when he feels randy and you ge... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 18 July 2010: Does your husband usually look at pornography at nights? It may be that he has trained himself to look at porn to be able to destress and relax and be able to go to sleep.
This is a habit that he will be able to break with your help.... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 18 July 2010: Ok, thanks for your clarification..
Now we are left with a woman who feels pornography shouldn't be a part of her marriage, and a husband who agrees that his pornography use is too frequent..
Dear Poster, is that something we can agree on and... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 17 July 2010: Back to you original poster..
You have been truthfull about the way you feel, for you pornography is the same as adultry.. That's the way you feel and it's as valid as any other opinion..
Here's a post where I outline some of the things that ... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 17 July 2010: The lady hates ALL PORNOGRAPHY, so any pornography use will look excessive to her.. Nowhere in her post does she mention the word addiction, and as far as I know he hasn't been seen by a doctor for pornography addiction, and it does not seem to ... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 17 July 2010: Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but surely a challenge is needed when people put words into the Original posters mouth.
The woman mentioned issues arround pornography.. She didn't say anything about disliking masturbation. Your projecti... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 16 July 2010: PS: He does not have an addiction, he is not suitable for mental therapy. He likes pornography, and even if he stops looking at it today, next week, next month, will he be able to keep it up for the next 30-50years?
If your child is a boy, you... (read in full...)
Husband addicted to porn. Wife on the verge of leaving.
Q. My husband and I have only been married a month, but porn has been an issue since the start of our relationship. Every time I leave, after I go to bed, or get in the shower, he immediately jumps on porn sites. It blows my mind. I addressed him about ...
A. 16 July 2010: He won't stop and you won't leave, there's no solution to this problem except for you to continue to cry and weep.
There is no way to FORCE a man to give up pornography. If this is so important to you, then it's impossible for you to compromi... (read in full...)
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