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writes:ok.. so the story goes... im really good friends with this lad.. have been for quite a wile..he has tried kissin me a few times..each time ive sed no. however he tried last night wen i was really drunk, n i kissed him bak but then stopped. also last night he said he will always be here for me no matter what happens. this morning he text me saying we need to pick up were we have left off... two hours later (hearing nothing from him) he texts me and says i want nothing more to do with you sory, i asked him why and he said just leave it, our friendship is over.. he has now blokd and deleted me from msn, myspace, facebook and everything????
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): that is really confusing sweetie. i think you just have to give it some time and see what happens. dont talk to him, avoid him fullly
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 Then you have no choice but to sit out for awhile and see if you bump into him at some later time. If you did respond then I think he is scared or who knows. It doesn't sound like he'll be real dependable as he doesn't seem to know what he wants either.
Let it go for awhile and think about something else.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (27 April 2008):
 hi,
i dont know whats going on with him - did you get with any other guys last night? did anything happen that someone might have told him about which has pissed him off? if not then he might just be confused and thinking you're messing with his head. I would give him a couple of days to calm down and have a think about things then text him asking what you've done wrong.
Brooke
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): There is really no way to tell why he had a change of heart. It sounds to me though, that you have consistently rejected his kisses, his try for something more than friendship, and he kissed you, but you only let him because you were really drunk (not an attractive quality in a girl by the way---stoned drunk) so he made the concious decision to think you are a bit hard to read, and hard to be close to....
I would leave him completely alone and see if he doesn't cool off after some time...and if you still want to be friends later, tell him so. Young people at this age change their minds about as often as they do their socks.
So time is on your side.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 Since you did not response quickly to his text,
he took it to mean that you were not interested to continue where you left off .
He was piqued and hence that response from him.
Quite a fickle minded fella , childish and too quick on the trigger.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks for advice. i didnt put it in my question but i did reply to it.. i sed yeah that could be nice :P and there is no way he will let me see him face to face :S
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (27 April 2008):
It sounds to me like when you didn't respond to his text asking to pick up where you left off he felt like he couldn't deal with the friendship because he has feelings for you? Why didn't you respond to his text? Do you know what you want with him? It sounds like you've been hot and cold with this guy and he is confused and has now taken the stand to retreat.
The thing to do here is to go and talk to him face to face and work out what you want. But be sure and be clear. I think if you tell him you only want to be friends he will not want that. He wants a relationship with you, I think.
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