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| Latest articles: Being Happy In a Relationship
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11 August 2010: It's great being in a relationship. It can be fun and the companship is really satisfying. However, in staying happy it's important to:- (1) Both have some time to yourselves to pursue hobbies, interests. Just once a week or twice a week...
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Did I try to do too much? I love her but maybe I need to move on? She wants to break up
Q. I greatly appreciate any advice. A little background info first: We've been in a long-distance relationship for 15 months (I had to move after our one month anniversary). Also, we haven’t talked properly since February. My girlfriend lives in ...
A. 8 September 2011: Hi. It sounds like you have a pretty good handle on things now.
As difficult as it will be keeping your distance, it really is a very important part of her healing, most definitely.
And especially as you have said she mentioned someth... (read in full...)
Did I try to do too much? I love her but maybe I need to move on? She wants to break up
Q. I greatly appreciate any advice. A little background info first: We've been in a long-distance relationship for 15 months (I had to move after our one month anniversary). Also, we haven’t talked properly since February. My girlfriend lives in ...
A. 5 September 2011: Hi. Another point I just thought of is, the more you try to be there for her - to help her - the more dependent on you, she is likely to become.
Like being an emotional support system for her.
So what I am really saying here, is she might not... (read in full...)
Did I try to do too much? I love her but maybe I need to move on? She wants to break up
Q. I greatly appreciate any advice. A little background info first: We've been in a long-distance relationship for 15 months (I had to move after our one month anniversary). Also, we haven’t talked properly since February. My girlfriend lives in ...
A. 4 September 2011: Hi. It depends now, on how much she is influenced by her family.
Unfortunately, as far as her gaining some self confidence is concerned, you can't help her with that.
This is going to be journey for her, alone.
I guess it's going to come... (read in full...)
I am miserable being married to my husband.
Q. I have been married for 29 years.All these years were very tough I feel like I am in prison.We are like day and night. I got depressed. I had a break down before and i Can feel one coming soon. Ijust want to dissapear and never come back.I hate him ...
A. 30 August 2011: Hello again. Your life can be whatever you want it to be, and that's the truth.
We are each responsible for our own happiness. It is up to us.
The more effort you put into making your life happy and fulfilling, the more enjoyment you ge... (read in full...)
How can I make my LDR boyfriend be madly in love with me again?
Q. So i'm in a recent LDR and my boyfriend will be going away for only a total of 6 months (and he'll be visiting for 3 weeks at christmas) and we have an amazing connection and want to make things work. We've had to be LDR before (we actually met...
A. 29 August 2011: Hello again. Well, that puts a different slant on things, for sure.
So you've told me that it's short term, so that's a whole different ball game.
Teacher's College, and it ends in March of next year. I assume that after March, he starts... (read in full...)
I let him in, and now I'm wondering if he's run away
Q. I've been reflecting upon past relationships after things with my current interest seem to be going awry. I'm completely confused. I've been told that I give myself too easily and quickly and let's face it once sex comes into the equation, it's easy ...
A. 29 August 2011: Hello again. This actually sounds pretty positive, what you have said in your next comment.
As we talk, I am now getting more information from you, which clarifies things for me.
Yes, he does sound like a decent young man.
I believe it's ... (read in full...)
He says I'm taking him for granted
Q. My husband and I have been married for 4 years; we dated for 4 years before he asked me to marry him ... and that was mainly because I'd told him that I wanted a husband and had no intentions of staying in the relationship any longer. Anyway, he's ...
A. 29 August 2011: Hi there. Feeling like he's being taken for granted, could mean that he feels misunderstood.
After four years, the newness of the relationship has no doubt worn off a bit. That usually takes about 2 to possibly 3 years to get to that stage.
... (read in full...)
I let him in, and now I'm wondering if he's run away
Q. I've been reflecting upon past relationships after things with my current interest seem to be going awry. I'm completely confused. I've been told that I give myself too easily and quickly and let's face it once sex comes into the equation, it's easy ...
A. 29 August 2011: Hi there. Is it possible that he says those 3 little words - "I Love You" - just to keep you saying yes, to having sex with him?
Men often say what they know you want to hear, so be aware of that.
It can sometimes be that way with some men. ... (read in full...)
How can I help my bf?
Q. my boyfriend has been really stressed out and has a lot on his plate to handle and lately he has been abusing prescription meds and marijuana to help him feel better. I'm not okay with it, but i cant make him stop, he has to want to stop.and i want ...
A. 29 August 2011: Hi there. Prescription meds and marijuana addiction, can be a problem and quite often, people don't realize that they are addicted. They become oblivious.
And yes, as you said, the choice to stop does need to come from him and no-one else.
... (read in full...)
How can I make my LDR boyfriend be madly in love with me again?
Q. So i'm in a recent LDR and my boyfriend will be going away for only a total of 6 months (and he'll be visiting for 3 weeks at christmas) and we have an amazing connection and want to make things work. We've had to be LDR before (we actually met...
A. 29 August 2011: Hi there. So do you both live in Canada?
And you say he's gone away now, for a while. What does he do for a living? Does he go away on a regular basis?
It's not possible to make someone fall madly in love with you, life doesn't work tha... (read in full...)
I am miserable being married to my husband.
Q. I have been married for 29 years.All these years were very tough I feel like I am in prison.We are like day and night. I got depressed. I had a break down before and i Can feel one coming soon. Ijust want to dissapear and never come back.I hate him ...
A. 29 August 2011: Hi there. When you say a nervous breakdown, you are probably referring to feeling very very bored, and totally uninspired with life. That's basically what depression is - or "nervous breakdown", as it is sometimes called.
The way you are desc... (read in full...)
How to I deal with turning down this girl who asked me to homecoming?
Q. I got asked to homecoming by one of my friends today. I haven't really known her that long and I feel like she might have a crush on me, the problem is though, that I don't have a crush on her in return. She asked if I wanted to go, and I told her I ...
A. 29 August 2011: Hi there. Because I am Australian, I don't know what "Homecoming" actually is. Would you explain it to me please?
Is it to do with school? Is it an occasion where you celebrate and have a party and a meal? And the whole school goes, or at le... (read in full...)
How can I tell my parents? I don't know what to say. I feel depressed and I'm scared about not getting the grades to get into University.
Q. My feels have taken a nosedive over my grades. I've just sat my A level exams this summer. I didn't quite get the grades I was hoping for nor did I get my predicted grades... I got BDD. I know, I'm stupid right? When I do study it will mean I a...
A. 27 August 2011: Hi there. I recommend you start by telling your parents the complete truth. They are going to find out one way or another anyway, aren't they?
To try and keep the truth from them, serves no purpose whatsoever.
Do you honestly think you could ... (read in full...)
Married is better
Q. Years ago before my wife and I were married, I sat at a restaurant with her and gazed into her eyes as she gazed into mine and we knew we loved each other. Not much later we got married. I have had many crushes, some flings and other adventures...
A. 27 August 2011: Hi there. Yes, marriage is a great institution, that's for sure.
I have been married now for almost 26 years, and I wouldn't ever swap it for being single again.
As long as you keep the lines of communication open all the time, so you can... (read in full...)
How do I start a relationship online?
Q. I want to have a partner via the internet, but I don't know how. I've seen alot of matches on the internet, but I don't know how to do to contact or make relation with them. I've been interested in some of them, I want to see them at their hometown, ...
A. 22 August 2011: Hi there. It might be wise to try to be friends first, then over time see if you build some kind of rapport with them.
You still have to get to know each other fairly well first, before you decide whether you want to take it a step further.... (read in full...)
I'm really horny during my monthly. Does that happen to other women?
Q. this might be an odd question, and sort of graphic, but here goes... i've found lately, that anything me and my bf do sexually while i have my monthly (short of having sex) feels REALLY good; i actually tend to be quite a bit more horny during thi...
A. 19 August 2011: Hi there. From about ovulation (day 14) or half way through your monthly cycle, the oestrogen levels are fairly high, preparing for possible fertilization, so as a result of this you do feel a lot more like sex than at other times of the cycle - ... (read in full...)
My wife won't have sex with me because of past sexual abuse. How can we heal?
Q. My wife of 20 years and I have always had a poor sex life except for probably the first sex months that we dated, but she abruptly stopped having sex with me a decade ago. She says it creeps her out and she feels like she's being raped. She has ...
A. 19 August 2011: Hi there. It's clear certainly, that something needs to be done for her to feel like having sex again in her life.
You also need to tell her exactly how you feel about it. She does need to know.
She might not realize how much it affects you. ... (read in full...)
I've masturbated for years but can't get there having sex with my boyfriend
Q. I'm having a bit of a sex problem ... Okay so I have been masterbating since I was 4 but with a book so when I started having sex I was surpriesed I couldn't get there i have been have sex for years now and I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong I ...
A. 19 August 2011: Hi there. When you say you masturbated with a book, are you saying that you used the book to stimulate yourself with - instead of your hand?
If this is the case, then try masturbating by using your hand and forget the book.
By masturbating wit... (read in full...)
I'm looking for love, not just sex! What am I doing wrong?
Q. Hey guys. I will be really honest with you. I am a 30 yr old female. I have asked myself this question several times and it's about time I get your thoughts. I seem to attract wrong guys all the time, but because I am not crazy, I never do anything ...
A. 16 August 2011: Hi there. If guys you meet only want sex but nothing more, well then they are probably not worth dating in the first place.
I guess most guys will try it with most women they date, but you should never feel coerced into having sex with a guy just... (read in full...)
Do I take a risk and go for the lad I met on holiday? Or find someone closer to home?
Q. I met this lad and totally fell for him. He's exceptionally good looking, makes me laugh and I just loved being with him. We met on holiday and he literally saved my life when I was nearly kidnapped, I know it sounds like some fairytale. He was...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi there. The distance between you and the guy who gives you butterflies, is going to be a barrier for you both.
There's a lot of anxiety in LDR's, and not being able to see each other would definitely become a problem in a very short time. Y... (read in full...)
I can't ask my Mother. I need to ask my Doctor. How can I get the courage to do this, And also get my Mother to listen to me without judging me?
Q. Please Help. I dont feel like i can go to my mum with any problems i have, in the past, told her stuff. One time i told her something. i never told anyone, i trusted her not to tell anyone. so I told her. Then i found out she had told her best frie...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi there. You haven't said what the medical problem actually is.
Whatever it is, you do need to go and see your doctor, because he is the only one who can do tests on you to properly diagnose what the problem is.
Don't worry about being shy ... (read in full...)
He keeps looking for me when we break up. Why is it so difficult to leave an abusive relationship?
Q. Why is it so difficult to leave an abusive relationship... I wuz married for 10 yrs to my high school sweetheart.. he staret to physically abuse me... when he would get drunk or b high on drugs... I put up with it cuz I thought I could b the one to ...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi there. You have gone from one abusive relationship to another abusive relationship.
Why?
Don't you think you deserve better than that?
Somehow you are enabling this type of treatment of you, by staying.
As soon as someone shows sign... (read in full...)
I turned down his proposal and now I'm worried about how he's handling it
Q. long story short ....my partner of 7 years asked me to marry him..problem is im not ready to get married to anyone and I declind his proposal. I feel really awful about the situation..I didn't say no because I don't love him it's just I'm not rea...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi there. If you aren't ready for marriage, you're not ready.
You probably need to sit down and talk about it more with him, so he fully understands it. In other words, talk in more detail.
At the moment, he seems to be taking it as a r... (read in full...)
Is it a sign of vanity to take the time to look good or is it a good thing to do this?
Q. This is not strictly a relationship question, although it has caused countless arguments with my friends and family, and I'm sure other people must have heard this before... but would you consider it a good thing for a person to take care of thei...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi there. It's quite ok to be a bit fussy with your appearance. We all want to like what we see in the mirror before going out, don't we?
It would only become a problem for you, if it was all you ever thought about, and to the exclusion of virtu... (read in full...)
I need a time frame. Is he stalling or being honest about marrying me?
Q. Is he stalling or being honest? He says he wants to marry me sometimes, but he hasn't asked. I'm afraid if I never bring it up he won't know its important to me and will forget about it for a few more years (been together a few already). But I am ...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi there. Perhaps you feel a little taken for granted, because you feel the relationship hasn't progressed any further.
You really have to look at how good you feel your relationship is. Is it good?
Does he take you to nice places, spend mo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had sex with a girl when we broke up for only 2 days!
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend went and had sex with a girl once when we broke up for only 2 days. Technically he didn't cheat but it feels like it. He never told me, I had to find out from another person months later. He told me he regretted it ...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi there. When this sex happened, you weren't even together - you were broken up. You had no control over his life at that point in time.
He wasn't to know then, that it was going to be on with you again at all, did he? He probably thought ... (read in full...)
Should I bring our relationship up a level or forget about it?
Q. There is a female co-worker that i like. she is 17 and i am 19. we used to talk fairly regularly, but as i stopped putting as much effort into our friendship she has backed off and stopped talking to me altogether. she doesnt seem to miss ...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi. Another thing you could do, is to ask her out for coffee one day, and you need to make it clear to her that you are just friends.
The idea is to not scare her off.... (read in full...)
Did I try to do too much? I love her but maybe I need to move on? She wants to break up
Q. I greatly appreciate any advice. A little background info first: We've been in a long-distance relationship for 15 months (I had to move after our one month anniversary). Also, we haven’t talked properly since February. My girlfriend lives in ...
A. 12 August 2011: Hello again. Perhaps if you contact her only once a week - not every day. Otherwise, it could disrupt her and the treatment she is having there.
Maybe twice a week at the most. About 3 or 4 days apart.
This way you won't be so preoccupied w... (read in full...)
Are girls jealous that I hook up with guys that they can't get with?
Q. im single and when i get drunk i like to have fun every now and then ive hooked up with a few guys that i know and like from school. are these girls jealous of me for hooking up with a few guys from school that they couldnt get with?...
A. 12 August 2011: Hello again. I think a really wise piece of advice here, would be to stay aware of how much you drink. After a while, switch to soft drinks - coca cola, lemonade or lemon squash, so you are not inclined to just go off and have sex with any guy who ... (read in full...)
Every time we have sex now it hurts. Why is that?
Q. So. A few weeks ago me and my bf were havin sex and it hurt. And it has never hurt before it was lower abdominal pain. An almost everytime we have sex it hurts idk what it could be. Any suggestions...
A. 12 August 2011: Hi. So what you are saying now is that it only hurts you during actual sex, would that be right?
So therefore, it does seem like either constipation, a full bladder, too deep a sexual position, or else a urinary tract infection, or possibly... (read in full...)
I want to leave him but so much is at stake!
Q. Hi everyone just want some advice. I've been with this guy for 3yrs now. We live together but there is alot of problems. I have notice that he doesn't treat me as nice as he treats others around him. He is always grumpy with me. Never smiles or says ...
A. 8 August 2011: Hi there. Has he suddenly changed, or has it happened gradually over the 3 years?
Is he happy at his place of work? Perhaps he hates his job or his job security is in jeopardy.
There could be many different things.
Perhaps it's somethin... (read in full...)
Every time we have sex now it hurts. Why is that?
Q. So. A few weeks ago me and my bf were havin sex and it hurt. And it has never hurt before it was lower abdominal pain. An almost everytime we have sex it hurts idk what it could be. Any suggestions...
A. 8 August 2011: Hi there. Is it possible that you might be constipated? That could certainly cause lower abdominal pain during intercourse. Especially if you don't go to the toilet every day. It's a possibility.
If you are very regular going to the toilet, ... (read in full...)
Are girls jealous that I hook up with guys that they can't get with?
Q. im single and when i get drunk i like to have fun every now and then ive hooked up with a few guys that i know and like from school. are these girls jealous of me for hooking up with a few guys from school that they couldnt get with?...
A. 8 August 2011: Hi there. Who are these girls that you think are jealous of you?
Are they your school friends?
You have given very little information here, so that makes it rather difficult to comment on.
For instance, what is it they are doing or saying... (read in full...)
Should I bring our relationship up a level or forget about it?
Q. There is a female co-worker that i like. she is 17 and i am 19. we used to talk fairly regularly, but as i stopped putting as much effort into our friendship she has backed off and stopped talking to me altogether. she doesnt seem to miss ...
A. 6 August 2011: Hi. Perhaps she's been in a recent relationship breakup and might be wary to get involved too soon.
All you can do in that case, is to be friendly towards her and see how things pan out over time.
It might be a fear of commitment on he... (read in full...)
I am now pregnant but haven't had a chance to grieve for my mother. I don't know how to handle this
Q. Hi, I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Although I am very happily married to my husband, We have just found out we are expecting our first baby. The dilemma is because although we are married almost 4 years, and pregnancy is more than acceptable at this ...
A. 5 August 2011: Hi there. There's no need to feel guilty that you are pregnant, simply because you lost your mother and haven't properly grieved for her as yet.
You have done nothing wrong.
The reason you do feel guilty, is because falling pregnant is a ve... (read in full...)
Why can't I forget about the one who treated me badly?
Q. It's 2 in the morning and I'm wide awake thinking about a guy I shouldn't be thinking about. The logical/rational part of me knows this is ridiculous so i can't figure out why I can't stop thinking of him. I met him online almost a year ago. We t...
A. 5 August 2011: Hi there. The first thing that comes to mind is - could he be married?
He wouldn't mention something like that over the internet to you, because he'd know you wouldn't get involved with him.
However, it would certainly explain why he makes pla... (read in full...)
Did I try to do too much? I love her but maybe I need to move on? She wants to break up
Q. I greatly appreciate any advice. A little background info first: We've been in a long-distance relationship for 15 months (I had to move after our one month anniversary). Also, we haven’t talked properly since February. My girlfriend lives in ...
A. 5 August 2011: Hi there. Unfortunately, while she's in this facility you are going to be restricted, as you have said yourself.
The reason for this, is because too much contact with the outside world could compromise the treatment she is having there.
... (read in full...)
Should I bring our relationship up a level or forget about it?
Q. There is a female co-worker that i like. she is 17 and i am 19. we used to talk fairly regularly, but as i stopped putting as much effort into our friendship she has backed off and stopped talking to me altogether. she doesnt seem to miss ...
A. 5 August 2011: Hi there. As you were only ever talking casually to her before, she probably thought you were just being friendly.
If you do have some intentions of dating her, you do need to start talking to her again, otherwise you won't be able to get to t... (read in full...)
How can I now stop sabotaging my relationships? I don't know why I do this.
Q. Hi, I’m 25 years old and currently in the early(ish) stages of a relationship. What’s my problem? It makes me feel nervous, uneasy… I wouldn’t say unhappy, but I certainly am not all up in the clouds. Having said that, I strongly think I need to ...
A. 5 August 2011: Hi there. It's not a good idea to be with someone just to avoid loneliness.
That's like saying anyone is better than no-one.
It's also possible that in both relationships, you have made both of these men your whole world.
When you do tha... (read in full...)
My guy will not talk to me. I'm devastated. Am I making mountains out of molehills?
Q. I feel like i'm losing everything in the last 24 hours it feels like i've lost everything. The guy i liked won't talk to me. My friends don't act like friends around me anymore and it makes me feel like crap. Like for the fella I think i may have...
A. 5 August 2011: Hi there. Have you had a fight with your boyfriend?
What has happened in the last 24 hours for you to feel this way?
You haven't really said. Something must have happened for it all to suddenly change so dramatically.
Your boyfriend wouldn... (read in full...)
Does he actually care or are we just using each other?
Q. There is something about my ex that I keep going back to him, this time im having more of a "I dont care" attitudude and I can see that he likes it. We keep doing this on and off thing. This time when he asked me if he can come back in my life I ...
A. 4 August 2011: Hello again. Is he already in the air force, or is he joining for the first time?
Either way, yes, he might be trying to avoid any commitment because he knows he's going to go away a lot and maybe stationed in another state, or another country.... (read in full...)
This relationship is starting to confuse me!
Q. i've been talking to this girl for a couple of months now. we both got out of really crappy relationships and things moved at a very rapid pace. it wasn't intentional or planned, it just kind of naturally happened that way. she even told me she ...
A. 4 August 2011: Hello again. It seems then like she is perhaps afraid of commitment so soon.
If the breakups of your past relationships were very recent, well then neither of you are probably ready for a new relationship just yet.
Maybe you could keep it at... (read in full...)
Threesome has affected friendship boundaries
Q. A couple of years ago, my good friend and his girlfriend came over to my place one night with the intent of having a 3-some; he thought it would be exciting watching me have sex with his girlfriend, and she was all for it too. Anyway, everything ...
A. 4 August 2011: Hello again. It's probably wiser for you to be respectful towards your mate's wife if she does approach you again, but politely say "No" to any more secret meetings for sex.
Just be honest with her, and say to her that you just don't feel rig... (read in full...)
Best way of coming out( I think I'm ready)
Q. I've Been Gay since I was 6, I use to hate it and it made me very depressed and an anti-social in school. Im comingto the realization that I will never be straight no matter what, and im kind of accepting my homosexuality....I wanna grow to love it ...
A. 4 August 2011: Hello again. Well, the ice is partly broken as some of your family already knows.
So there's a bit of a load off your mind.
Just wait for a time when you are with your friends - not in a crowded bar or any place like that. Leave it for whe... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my professor reply?
Q. So I wanted to remain friends with a former professor because she was a huge impact on my life. I asked her if we could remain in contact, she said yes, but every time I email her (the only form on contact we have) she doesn't reply. why would she ...
A. 4 August 2011: Hello again. Because you have made it clear that it was not more than being appreciative of her as your professor, well the reason she hadn't answered your email is probably because she is now on leave, as you have said here.
And because she is o... (read in full...)
Threesome has affected friendship boundaries
Q. A couple of years ago, my good friend and his girlfriend came over to my place one night with the intent of having a 3-some; he thought it would be exciting watching me have sex with his girlfriend, and she was all for it too. Anyway, everything ...
A. 2 August 2011: Hi there. You can't change history, so you do have to accept it.
You have to ask the question, can you live with yourself having sex with your mate's wife behind his back?
You are having issues with it, because you wouldn't have visited Dea... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my professor reply?
Q. So I wanted to remain friends with a former professor because she was a huge impact on my life. I asked her if we could remain in contact, she said yes, but every time I email her (the only form on contact we have) she doesn't reply. why would she ...
A. 2 August 2011: Hi there. Perhaps she is reading more into it than what is meant by you.
Perhaps she thinks you want to be in a relationship with her. It's possible.
That's probably what a lot of people might think. Especially if you didn't make it clear at... (read in full...)
Does he actually care or are we just using each other?
Q. There is something about my ex that I keep going back to him, this time im having more of a "I dont care" attitudude and I can see that he likes it. We keep doing this on and off thing. This time when he asked me if he can come back in my life I ...
A. 2 August 2011: Hi there. It seems clear that he still likes you, otherwise he wouldn't keep on texting you whenever you leave his house suddenly, without coming in. Then he practically chases you down the street. He says he doesn't want anyone else.
If th... (read in full...)
Best way of coming out( I think I'm ready)
Q. I've Been Gay since I was 6, I use to hate it and it made me very depressed and an anti-social in school. Im comingto the realization that I will never be straight no matter what, and im kind of accepting my homosexuality....I wanna grow to love it ...
A. 2 August 2011: Hi there. The very first thing for you to do, is to totally accept yourself for who you truly are.
Once you accept and respect yourself unconditionally, everyone else in the world will also.
The first people to tell ideally, would of course ... (read in full...)
This relationship is starting to confuse me!
Q. i've been talking to this girl for a couple of months now. we both got out of really crappy relationships and things moved at a very rapid pace. it wasn't intentional or planned, it just kind of naturally happened that way. she even told me she ...
A. 2 August 2011: Hi there. First off, when you said you both recently got out of really crappy relationships, are you referring to same sex relationships (for both of you) - or opposite sex relationships?
I ask this because you do not clearly mention it here. A... (read in full...)
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