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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:What should I do? Is he cheating? I love him so much:(I told my boyfriend to take a break from our relationship because I feel that he doesn't like the fact that we are always on the phone or texting. So yes I told him to take a break and he said yes he needs a break because I am all he thinks about and he needs to get his life back again.Also lately, whenever we try to have sex, he won't be hard just semi hard and obviously it got me worried so I asked if he's cheating on me and he says no and he's not stressed either, he's just tired. I just feel like he's not into me sexually anymore..we were a really hot couple. Last night he told me he's been chatting to this girl on facebook, helping her with her boyfriend problems and he asked if is ok.. and well I didn't really say anything.What should I do? Should I just ignore him for a week or what? Please help me. I am soo confused..I love him so much:( and he says he loves me a lot too:(Thanks..xx
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reader, just a female  +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Hey there, I think maybe you're thinking a bit much about this. You say your boyfriend says he's stressed? Well that might be the problem, don't just assume he's cheating on you because he cannot be with you and talking to you every second of the day. Don't ignore him, that's not a good idea, I think part of the problem here is he might feel you are pushing him away? He never said he wanted to leave you did he? As for not getting hard, I'm sure it's hard to do that if he's got alot on his mind, has he got an assessment or something due? Difficulties at work? Just relax and talk to him, that's the best you can do, i think. Maybe just cool it down a bit without totally cutting him off.hope this helps, xxx
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (31 January 2011):
 hi
no, if you love him and you want things to work out you shouldn't ignore him! you really need to be talking to him about this. from the way you worded your post, it looks to be full of warnings that he wants out BUT we have only got your account of things so i cannot judge the situation at all.
i mean, YOU are the one who suggested the break, not him, but he has agreed to it and is now in contact with a girl on facebook, could this be because HE thinks YOU don't want him any more??
you really need to talk to him
xx
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