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writes:I need advice about this guy i still really really like.We have gone out off and on 3 or 4 times. He has dated my friend first but i ask permission to date him him she said yes, so we went out and now he has went out with 5 of my most best friends and he is dating my best friend he went out with in the beginning but i still really really like him and i cant get him out of my head. Its hard too. He makes me laugh when i really want to cry or when i am down he has been there when i had fghts with my best friends so lease give me some advice about this. What should i do just forget about him or should i tell him the truth and talk to my best friend about it? And i am really scared to tell her about this cause i am scared to lose my best friend. I am so scared that i lost my chance to be with him and i am scared to lose my best friend what should i do?
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reader, BriBri +, writes (2 February 2011):
BriBri is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe ask me out before that gott together i called her and asked what should i say she told me that dont give him an answer i found out a hour later that she called him and asked him out and i had to find out from him.So this sucks!
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (1 February 2011):
 I'm sorry you are hurting right now. Here's a good piece of advice... never date your best friend's ex boyfriend. In most cases, there will be hurt feelings involved. Your friend may have given you permission to date him, but obviously she wasn't over him yet. Otherwise, she never would have gotten back together with him. He has dated 5 of your best friends? Surely there are other great guys around to date. Why is this one so special.
Now that your best friend is back together with him, you are feeling hurt. That's to be expected, but I imagine she felt the same way when you began dating him. Try to see things from her viewpoint as well.
I wouldn't suggest talking to him behind your best friend's back. If she were to find out, she wouldn't be too happy with you. If you want to talk to her about your feelings, I don't see anything wrong with that. However, if you think it might ruin your friendship, then it's best to keep your feelings to yourself.
Breaking up is hard, and I know your heart is aching. Try to stay away from this guy, and keep yourself busy. It will help you get over him faster. Please let us know what happens! Good luck!
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reader, BriBri +, writes (1 February 2011):
BriBri is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello no answers or advice for me hurtful.
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