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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend kept this woman a secret from me for a year!

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20 February 2010 (F) - my so called boyfriend has kept his other woman secret and this went of for almost a year. he swears that they are over but how do i trust that he is telling the truth?? ...

He has hit me and his ex told me he was abusive...how do I approach it with him?

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20 February 2010 (F) - I just found out that my current boyfriend who has been suffering from depression and unemployment hit an exgirlfriend (a few years ago) of his multiple times, 'for no reason'. I've asked him if he's ever raised his hand to another woman an...

A few to get your teeth into...

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hello guys. I've been with my boyfriend for a year, it's all been well and good so far apart from two factors which are really getting to me. My boyfrined has a real issue with family. He just can't grasp it because he never really had one....

I feel like I'm using her a bit but my friends say just have fun...advice from the older aunt please..

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20 February 2010 (M) - Hi. I don't really think that my situation is special, but I'm really just unsure of what to do. For starters, I'm 17 years old. I started seeing this girl around December of last year and she says she really likes me. We had an official ...

I need help to get over this relationship

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20 February 2010 (F) - Well,mi ex and I had been together for 2 years but still talked for 2 years after.He had a girlfriend but me being dumb and in love,didnt care.He was emotinally abusive towards me and i didnt realize until it was too late.I decided to cut him off ...

The more money I give the more she wants

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hi, everyone. I started dating my now-fiancee in April 2009. Things were great up until about May. She started asking me for money. It was small amounts at first. $50 here, $80 here, and so on. I have to be honest with myself. I never felt right ...

Does money guarantee happiness

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20 February 2010 (M) - Do you think finical situation will cause happiness or unhappiness? Are well off couples are happier than poor couples? Do their marriage will have less troubles? Are rich families kids happier than poor families kids? Do they get in trouble less,...

Although I have a boyfriend I find women attractive

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20 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this dude for a while now and he got a girlfriend. I do love him but I find myself attracted to females. When we go out I never look at other dudes, but always look at females from head to toes. To him, he is the only one I am ...

15 and pregnant to my adopted cousin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Well When i Was 14, i Was havin trouble with my mum and eventually left home and went to stay with my uncle miles away...anyways my uncle had an adopted son which was 15 at that moment (lets just call him bob) and was originate from colombia he ...

My sister is feeling down, I need names of celebrities to boost her morale

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20 February 2010 (F) - Anyone know any Celebrities who dont have their drivers licence or cant drive?? Odd question i know but my sister failed her driving test today again....she is very down ast the moment.She is 32 and because of her age she feels more of a failiu...

My boyfriend always looks at women online.

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20 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend always looks at other women online and it hurts me so bad. I feel like i'm not good enough he watches porn a lot and i feel very insecure i can't even enjoy sex together anymore and its making me very depressed. I asked why he watches ...

I want to initiate sex but I don't want my b/f to think I am slutty

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20 February 2010 (F) - Im scared my bf with think Im a slut. so Im seeing anew guy and I like him alot he likes me to but. I guess Im a diffrent type of girl compared to alot my age. I have had sex with one person. I dont really party. I dont hookup etc. My bf loves ...

I feel the need to cheat...

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20 February 2010 (F) - Recently I have come across a huge temptation to cheat. I am not married to the man I am with and am only 19 so the feeling that I should be able to do whatever I want is strongly in my mind, however I know that, that is never the case in life. Me ...

I made an "extra flirty" comment to a boy I like, now he has gone cold

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20 February 2010 (F) - So I was flirting with my friend (a guy) via text messaging, and he made a silly comment which lead me to agree with it and adding a remark of my own that was a little more forward. If he was dense about my feelings for him before, I think my ...

My bf mistreats me..should I take my son and leave him?

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20 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Poster, we combined your 2 postings as they were both of the same content and topic area) 1) ok well i have a boyfrind ive been with for about six months when we first got together we were so in love. my first husband commited suicide ...

I am living with a friend who said he like me, but for the past two weeks he has been hitting me and swearing

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20 February 2010 (M) - me and my friend are staying for about 2years together,he said that he likes me but we never had sex.The last two weeks he just want to hit me and swear to me.How can i win him back?...

This man makes me feel useless! Help!

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20 February 2010 (F) - Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...

Does it matter if a guy is shorter than a girl?

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20 February 2010 (M) - Just a quick question for the ladies especially. Would you be put off a guy if he was smaller than you, height-wise? There is a girl in my class at school, who i get on with really well, talk a lot, and sometimes have a bit of a flirt, but inam ...

I feel I don't have friends anymore

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 28 and I just realised that I don't really have any friends anymore. I have lived in my hometown all my life and had loads of great friends there. One best friend in particular, moved 200 miles away and he was like a brother to me. H...

I was locked out of my house, and my friends are not supportive

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20 February 2010 (F) - okkayy to begin i met this guy a while ago and the more time i was with him and talked to him i continued to fall for him. but throught that time we had our ups and downs with his ex's getting in the way. But I was willing to deal with that because ...

I want to make sure our first time is enjoyable for my girlfriend

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20 February 2010 (M) - How many times does a woman orgasm on average in the time it takes for the guy to climax? Me and my girlfriend are going to have sex, and i want to make sure she gets satisfied. I have a lot of stamina, i just want to make her happy....

He tells me about his beautiful girlfriend but never talks about his wife, could he be interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I just want to know whether this married man loves me or not.. We've been good friends for sometime now.. we have shared almost everything.. he had a child few months back .. we both like each other.. more than friends.. to be frank i look good ...

I got drunk and made out with another guy, and now feel guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. Right now were doing long distance and i see him every month and a half or so. i was basically with him all the time for the first month, then left for uni, came back and had a solid month with him, we ...

I bought a sex aid but my wife doesn't seem interested

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20 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I have question about something in relationship ,trust and marriage. I had shown my wife a orange spanish fly liquid coupled with kamasutra gel after few weeks of marriage. more to show as trust builder since before marriage we had som...

I have a boyfriend but I am jealous of my male best friend's girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I was in love with my best friend for 2 years or more, but then i just realized that he didn't actually love me as a more than a sister. So i tried to get over him and i did for a while and fell in love one of my friends and he asked me out one ...

He rushed into an engagement, rushed into a mortgage now he is having second thoughts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I apologize if this will be long, but there's alot to say here.... Recently, my fiance (who I've been with for 5 years and have been engaged to for almost a year next month) asked me if we were rushing things. I asked why he thought that, an...

By accepting my wifes affair am I just prolonging the inevitable?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - Hi , i have been married for 12 years but this year i found out that my wife was having an affair . We are trying to work things out but she still wants to keep seeing the other man . I am not happy about this and at the moment it has been left that ...

I read my boyfriends texts and now my world has come crashing down

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend now for neally 6 months, and I've trusted him untill now. Yesterday I was bored and I know it was wrong of me but I had the urge to see his texts. In saved messages I saw a text saying 'well you can see...

The married man I love pretends to be busy and wont talk to me

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20 February 2010 (F) - Im in love with a married man who is 10 years elder than i do. I had recently broke up with a guy.. soon after my break up this man came in my life ( we knew each other even before my break up but we got close to each other after my break up) This ...

Since he cheated my life has never been the same

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20 February 2010 (F) - I'm at breaking point and so is my partner. I don't know what to do anymore. He cheated at the begining of our relationship and I have obviously not dealt with it. My anger has grown to such a point that I don't know if it will ever get better....

Work and study gives me no time to party with my girl

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20 February 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girl for 3 months now. I love her so much and she loves me too.Am a post graduate student trying to put my life in the right path, by concetrating on my education while working part time.I am still living with my Parents. ...

I focus on the negatives but want to make my relationship work

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20 February 2010 (F) - The story (I'll try to be brief)... My boyfriend who I loved and was crazy about, broke up with me around April 2009 after being together for several months. We had been dating long distance for a few months prior to the break up, as he was away o...

I want my ex back, she loves me but has married the father of her first child

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20 February 2010 (M) - I am in love with my ex, who is the mother of my daughter, and who is also married. I am at a complete loss as to what to do. She tells me that she still loves me and wants to be with me, but I dont know if I should believe it. We split because I ...

Can I ask her to wait 18 months until I return?

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20 February 2010 (F) - Okay so this is kind of weird. I'm a architect, lesbian and from manchester. 7 months ago I got talking to a girl on facebook (i didnt know her she's from london) she's gorgeous, we really clicked, and was talking every day for hours. I had a ...

After doing some research I've discovered my ex was a narcissist

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Hi all I'm looking to hear from people who either have had a personal experience with a narcissist or have some psychological experience and can give me their opinions. So I've spent the majority of my adult life with, from what I've read, is ...

I am seeing a new guy but am totally paranoid that he might treat me as my ex did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Ok so recently I have been seeing this new guy and he is 5 years older then me. which I dont care about but we are doing long distance right now. Im totally happy and I know hes happy too. At the same time Im totally questioning everything..like why ...

Was she snogging for my benefit or did I over react?

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20 February 2010 (M) - Hi, just want an opinion on this one. I was out last night and my ex was there. We don't really talk much these days but she is the sister of one of my friends so we will occasionally bump into one another. I went to the toilet and she was s...

A question about sex

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20 February 2010 (M) - hi, well i just want to know that I am in a realtion and i am happy too, but the thing is when ever i sex with my partner she losses her power very fast , ( her water came out) i dont know what to do in this situation ,, can you suggest me wt ...

I am a touchy feely guy but sometimes she will turn her face away

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20 February 2010 (M) - Im 16 years old and i am in a relationship with my girlfriend, she is 17 years old. we have been going out for almost 6 months, and i love her to bits, we are both emotionaly happy and in tune with each other but whenever i go to slide my hand down ...

He is rude and mean and in love with somebody else

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20 February 2010 (F) - I have this friend.. And he is, well Just to get down to my point. Full on Emo. But I love him! (: I am the COMPLETE Opposite from him. But, we're like best friends:) -- I don't know wether my feelings for him, Are more then a friend. I want to fall ...

I really liked him but through shyness said I couldn't go with him

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20 February 2010 (F) - I just turned 16 this year and I’m troubled over my feelings. Since Sec1, I was attracted to K and we always hang out and he would write me some silly notes that made me laugh. He would walk me back home and carry my bag for me under the hot sun. At ...

Since my boyfriend cheated I don't feel anything during sex

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20 February 2010 (F) - l think l have a problem about my sex life cos every time when lam having sex l don't feel anything at all this thing is started about 3 months ago when l found my boyfreind sleeping with other woman...

I hate it that he has anger issues but I love him too. Love shouldnt hurt like this

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20 February 2010 (F) - How can i settle differences in my relationship without making an argument worse? My bf has anger issues and its never easy talking to him about anyhtin. It seems like everything gets him upset. He never thinks he's wrong and doesnt say sorry when ...

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for ...

I have just discovered my husband is cheating with escorts

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20 February 2010 (F) - Just found out my husband has been cheating on me with escorts. I still love him and want to work things out. Am I wrong for feeling this way?...

Doesn't he love me anymore?

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20 February 2010 (F) - My husband of 5 yrs (been together for 11 yrs) has become increasingly uninterested in me and our marriage over the last 7 yrs. I'm not really sure if he is having an affair, although a lot of the circumstances surrounding us appear that he could ...

He wants to come first, over my child

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20 February 2010 (F) - I am a single mom with a 4 year old son. My boyfriend has a small issue of me not putting my son to bed before 9pm, so that we could have sex. We don't live together, we live 15 minutes apart. The thing is that he sometimes gets tired at 8pm and he ...

I know I can't make him love me but it still hurts

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20 February 2010 (F) - I'm confused about my situation. I'm trying to give up but I can't What would you do? I'm a girl in love with her best friend. We have gone out before (On and off for about 4 years) But this stop last year and we became best friends. I dump him ...

He doesn't want love, he just wants sex!

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20 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We are both in our late 20's. One of my problems is that he wants to have sex all of the time but is not affectionate. His complaint is that our sex life has become boring. He wants to have ...

When she is in a mood there is no reasoning with her

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20 February 2010 (M) - Alright, im in bit of a situation... Well theres soo much to tell but ill try to keep it short. Well my and my gf have been dating for 2.5 years now and im 18 and shes 19. Things started out pretty well, but they were going in the wrong direction....

My boyfriend complains and accuses me of cheating

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20 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is STILL complaining about me being too loose down there and accusing me of cheating. I have tried desperately to no end to tighten my vaginal muscles; ben wa balls, smart balls, china shrink cream, tighten her uo sure grip gel, ...

I wonder if my ex would have loved me more if I had been beautiful

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I might not be doing myself a favor by dwelling on this, but dwell I will. My ex who I am still getting over, used to tell me out of all the girls (more than ten) he's ever been with, he only fell in love with two of them. He talked about them by ...

Sometimes I wonder if she even wants to be with me ...

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20 February 2010 (M) - my girl and i are together and she says she has no patience for nobody and sometimes she gets mad at me and for me its like for no reason i dont like upsetting her but i also dont want her to act like that so much...and sometimes she dont even act ...

My boyfriend is sleeping with his sister in law

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20 February 2010 (F) - hi i just find out my boyfriend has been sleeping with sister in law i find out 4 weeks ago my sister in law told me on the computer she told me so many storys and they hid it from me for 6 to 3 years i get told they sleep together 2 times but i ...

I am considering dating while pregnant to someone else

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20 February 2010 (F) - I met a wonderful amazing guy early last year and we hit it off really well. I thought he might have been the one cos we clicked so much. He sadly had to call us quits fairly early on in the relationship because he had very serious issues he had to ...

We are constantly fighting and having pointless arguments

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20 February 2010 (F) - Recently, maybe the past month or so, I have no been able to stop fighting with my boyfriend even when I try to avoid arguments. We just got done having a fight about how I hurt his feelings and tried to "challenge" him last night when he was play ...

I told him I'd rung to break off, but he took it literally

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hello, About 2 months ago, I called my boyfriend of 7 years to break up with him because I'm having feelings for my ex, I took about 1 month to think about it prior to calling and realized I needed to listen to my heart. The bf and I had a very...

I want to rush this relationship along to make sure she is mine

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20 February 2010 (M) - There's a girl. We haven't known each other for that long, but we have been going out on dates. We have talked nearly every day since we met and have really hit it off. We are holding hands, hugging, etc. She has recently gotten out of a bad ...

I'm hooked on somebody who will never love me

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hi, Im hoping someone has some good advice to help me out! Im 26 and totally, head over heels, in love with one of my friends. He's 27 with 2 children and a ex gf who he's never denyed he'll always love. Problem is now Im the great friend...

I agreed to move town when married but now I have changed my mind

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hi can anyone give me some advice? I live in Wxxxxxm with my parents and my fiance lives in Wxxxxy which is an hour and a half away, we've always said that I will move in with him once we get married next year, but lately Ive change my mind and I ...

My ex wont talk to me anymore and I can't stand it!

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20 February 2010 (F) - Right here it goes.. I was going out with this lad for a really long time. We were so close and he is my first ever love. We broke up now just over a month and within that month there has been alot of big and small arguements. A then went out with ...

Trying to untangle friends and relationships

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20 February 2010 (F) - Let's call this guy Joe. So yesterday, Joe compliments my other friend right in front of me. He says she has a good serve and everything, but I'd see him kind of look at me. But i' brushed it off. Practice ended, everyone stayed. One of m...

My boyfriend wasn't surpised my best friend said he loved me

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20 February 2010 (F) - My best guy friend of about 8-9 years told me he loved me the other day. Im in a relationship of 7 years. I do NOT feel he same about him, hes just a friend. I dont want to lose my friend but i dont want him to love me! We agreed to not talk...

My boyfriend assumes I am sleeping around

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20 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this man for a while. Lately he's assuming I am sleeping with another man. I am not! However he said, "it's o.k. with me, believe me!" How am I suppose to take that? Confused and Frustrated?...

My family is out of control ...

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20 February 2010 (F) - Ok to be franc I'm peeved off with my entire family whom I do live with, my brother, dad and mother. Basicaly my father drinks way too much everynight and has really mad mood swings at times not physically but becomes nasty calling everyone...

We are both crushing on and stalking teachers

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I am a 15 yo girl. Me and my BFF (17 yo girl) both have teacher crushes. Hers is on a Middle School Spanish teacher. He is about 46 yo. Then i have a crush on my High School History teacher. He is 25 years old.(and blonde!!!) Neither of us ...

My boyfriend and his girlfriend and child are moving to another state, and he has asked me to move too

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20 February 2010 (F) - I have been with this guy for 1 year and 3 months now, we are both from the same country, he has a chinese gf that he's been with for a little over 3 years now, they live together and they have a daughter, he spends all his time with me, helping me ...

My friend and I both liked the same boy but he chose her!

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20 February 2010 (F) - my friend and i both like the same boy but he decided he likes her better than me. im very upset about this but he dosent want to hurt me and he wants to be friends. i tried getting over him but i just cant. everytime i see them together i go into ...