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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend told me I would be a terrible person to have around during childbirth! Why does she have something against me?

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23 February 2010 (M) - Just a quick one cos i am completely clueless... My gf and I were watching a delivery program tonight following various women through their labours and births. During the show she remarked that I would be a terrible person to have around and i pro...

A guy took advantage of my girlfriend at a party, I don't know what I should do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Recently at a party my girlfriend of nearly 3 years had too much to drink and says she blacked out and when she came to she was being taken advantage of and got the guy to stop and she left immediately. I know she's not to blame completely but i do ...

I know he loves me but I just don't know why he behaves like this

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23 February 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend were going out for 3 years and now he left me because supposedly he didnt deserve me but u heard from a friend that he said that he did love me but he was barely going to start going out, and he wont reply to my texts and he ...

Should I take Him Back One Last Time?

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23 February 2010 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I dated for about a full year, on-and-off. Our breakups were always stupid, sometimes because of rumours/misunderstandings, and once because he lied to me about himself. Afterwards, though, he explained it was only because he ...

I had a deeper level of understanding with my ex, I want the same with my current girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years and we both love each other but we may have personality conflicts. She has a lot of trouble understanding me and a lot of the time we're not on the same page. This is frustrating especially since in my ...

My mother says my hanging out with a 19 year old is the same as statutory rape!

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23 February 2010 (F) - My mom says that I shouldn't be able to hang out with my guy friend whos 19 and im 14. She says its " stagetory rape" but I looked it up and its only if you do sexual intercourse things. I wanna hang out with him but she says its just " bad news" ...

Need the adult kids to move out as I'm stressed out with their lack of respect!

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23 February 2010 (?) - I am deeply bothered by something. My ex husband and I are no longer married, because when we were married years ago, he had absolutely no respect for me. I felt I didn't deserve this. I worked hard at being a good wife and Mother. I had always ...

My fiancee wants to go see her ex bf..without me!

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23 February 2010 (M) - Okay, Never done this before but I need some advice and really want to do the RIGHT thing here. My fiance and I are due to get married this May, we love each other, care about each other, but we don't always see things in the same light. Things ...

How can I deal with an emotionally hurt girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - So please let me set the sence- My Gfs mother died 2 years ago, in her sleep, which obviously mortifiyed her! than 2 weeks later her than current BF hung himself! fast forward to today! the other night she was telling me what a terrible day she...

Should I be leery of my boyfriend after all he's done?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now with a break. the break was caused because i had been told he was talking to girls online seductively, so i went online on a fake account and he then did things on webcam etc. thi...

Dating 5 years and he never has invited me to his house to meet his roomies!

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23 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. A year ago he moved into a house with 3 girls and 1 guy. He never once asked me what I thought about this arrangment. A year later it still bothers me and we fight about it at least once every 2 ...

I like having nights to myself, but my girlfriend wants to be with me, all the time! Advice?

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23 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my girlfriend... I can't remember the last time I went a night without seeing her. It was probably about 8 days ago now. I'm the kind of guy who likes time alone, or in the company of guys (this is common, right...

Devastated...my gf is flirting online! Help!

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23 February 2010 (M) - Girlfriend is flirting online Today i found out an email by my gf sent to another man. asking him to visit her. and how much she is sorry for not talking to him. i was devastated because the date and the time showed was the time i am sleepin...

The man I had an affair with has called me 8 months after it ended, should I call him back?

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23 February 2010 (F) - I need help! the guy i was having an affair wtih for the pass 3 years called me last night. We haven't spoken in almost 8 months. I don't know if I should call him back! What to do what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Can anyone give me some advice about how to handle my friend? I'm sick of her attention seeking ways...

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23 February 2010 (F) - Ok, I am writing this for advice about a friendship. I had a few relationship problems with my boyfriend over the last year. However we seemed to have overcome this and are now very close and very happy. My advice is about a friend. When i...

I just hate the fact that my ex saw I was unhappy with my new man!

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23 February 2010 (F) - A few years ago I was in a serious relationship with a guy, I was in love with him and he made out he was in love with me and serious about me we were together for 3years. anyway things changed and he seemed distant from me I always asked what was ...

How can I put him past me if he is now coming to me in my dreams? I feel like I have lost my one true love...

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23 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for going on 19 yrs.. been together for 23 yrs. I had a horrible childhood. An abusive alcoholic father. When I got with my husband I was almost 18. Never had the feelings of "TRUE LOVE" with him.. thinking back.. I feel I ...

I am going insane and finding it very difficult to move on after the break up, please help?

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23 February 2010 (F) - I have just recently come out of a 1 and half year relationship.I am having problems dealing with this pain and I have done so much to try and forget this, but its clear that I am affected quiet a bit. My ex was a best friend of 2 years before we ...

I have concerns that he now has fears for our sexual compatibility

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23 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year. We have a perfectly loving relationship - emotionally I couldn't be more fulfilled in that respect. However, we seem to have a lot of troubles with our (non-existent) sex life. I am still a ...

Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye? If the man is so satisfied at home...why would he look at other women? Does it boost his ego or is it just a male testosterone...being a hot blooded male that he can't...

Should I continue with this marriage or just forget about it?

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23 February 2010 (M) - I am 22 years old, i left my country to another country for work, when i wish to return back to my country i called my friend ex-girl and plead her for a serious and decent girl like her. She gave me her friend number, i and her friend open comm...

I love her to pieces but she is losing all her friends over a guy!

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23 February 2010 (F) - Everyone knows that when a couple gets together at first they can't be separated right? Like as people call it " The HoneyMoon stage " Well My used to be best friend is going through that stage and is losing all her friends. She started seeing this ...

I am in love with two brothers and I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone please forgive me i am not good in English. l am in love with two brothers.l was actrated to Daniel since 2008 l use to tell my friend how l feel about Daniel so when Daniel asked my friend out she asked me if l was ok with her going o...

What does this comment mean from a random girl on my boyfriend's Facebook wall?

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23 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a distance relationship. This past weekend he went for some homecoming event and after the event he called me and we talked. Just recently a random girl who's on his friend's list leaves this comment on his wall "Just w...

At best a weak love triangle

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23 February 2010 (M) - Was with a girl for four months. Very passionate for the first two and then a drastic cooling off on her part. I had some problems of my own in the latter two months, and she had a lot of university stress - things eventually came to a close on ...

Think before you jump, because there might be a good reason

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Okay so this valentines was the first one for my bf and I. I've known him for years but we only got together 10 months ago and I was determined to make it special. So valentines week comes around and he's having serious money problems (as was I to...

I've realised I'm being played but I don't want him out of my life completely, how do I go about this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - hello guys, im back again for more advice.im the girl with the 35 year old that seems as if he has a curfew, but anyway i would like to know since i realized im being played and used how do i go about the situation? i know the smart thing to do is ...

Why does my ex stay in touch with me when he is in love with another girl? Is it possible for him to love both of us at the same time?

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23 February 2010 (F) - I have a question to all. Is it possible for someone to love 2 people at the same time? How do u know if he loves the other more than you or the opposite? I mean, i have nothing more to offer to this guy..nothing. I don't call him, he initiate...

Does my ex girlfriend still have feelings for me?

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23 February 2010 (M) - So me and my ex broke up 6 months ago and just recently during christmas break she came down(she lives in SF and I live in OC) and I went to her parents house to visit her within an hour she wanted me to leave because she couldn't be around me or ...

How do I handle this situation? I'm sure she does love me but then there is another side to her that I just don't understand

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23 February 2010 (M) - Ok.. need help.. ive turned into something i never thought imaginable. If its long ..sorry LOL. Ok almost 2 years ago i met this girl, well kinda near where i work, she was 40 ish, very attractive. Anyway prior to that i chatted to a guy who was ...

Should I give him some space seen as he is becoming increasingly passive in our relationship?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Hello Everyone, Im dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and everything was going well until the past few weeks. He doesnt call when he says he will and when I ask him why he tells me he fell asleep before he could. We have had a huge fight about...

Is silence the best thing here or should I just confront him?

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23 February 2010 (F) - My ex and I dated for about 3 years. In those 3 years we've had our ups and downs. Those downs and break ups largely in fact all to his part. He has cheated, broken up with me, treated me bad and all, then come back, beg do the same thing ...

She is always on my mind

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23 February 2010 (F) - During High school (10th grade to be specific 2003) I met a girl named Sara. She was the same exact height as me and had the same humor I did. We soon became best friends and I was sleeping over her house 24/7 and if I wasn't there she was sleeping ...

Is his flakey behaviour normal?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Known this guy for 4mo.we've hung out a handful of times - he msgs all the time to see what I'm doing/how I'm doing.the thing is he's incredibly flakey.he's invited me to see him at work 2x and canceled both times..because he claims he couldn't get ...

My boyfriend's stressful situation is making me stressed too, I don't know what to do anymore....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - Here is my story, my bf went to his country outside the Us for his granddad like 2 weeks.The reason why he went there with his family because of his granddad. He is so sick and about to die.. In His country he try to call me everyday for the 1st ...

I told her how I felt about her and things have become weird between us, will things ever improve?

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23 February 2010 (M) - I recently told feelings to my friend who is engaged (She lead me on, she is a very good friend of mine, and I have always been there for her when she needed me), after telling feelings to her she said that she does not want to talk to me, then ...

How can I cheer her up and show her I do trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - Hello well Me and my girlfriend been dating for 2 months and we're having a really great relationship right now, then one day I ask her will she ever cheat on me? She said no, but she said "what would you do if I do? never know right?" well then i ...

My brother will hook me up with the friend I like

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23 February 2010 (F) - I like one of my brother's closest friends. According to my brother, this guy would be over the moon if he knew I was interested in him. He's offered to make it happen if I let him say something to his friend. So my question is, should I let him? ...

How should I approach my girlfriend about changing her attitude?

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23 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm having this problem with my girlfriend of 7 months, she is really obstinate, or pigheaded any way you wanna call it. Although as pigheaded as she is, she is really good, and nice. She loves me a lot, I can really tell, even with my ...

How can I get him to trust me again after I lied to him?

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23 February 2010 (F) - So I've been going out with my boyfriend for seven months. We'd been acquaintances for four years, but had only seriously started talking and hanging out since the middle of June. He'd been in two other serious relationships before ours and I'd ...

Should I keep trying to call after the fight?

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23 February 2010 (M) - My GF and I (4 years, getting shaky) had a fight via Instant Messenger (don't ask) a few days ago. I called her immediately after with no response. I waited a couple of days and called her again, today--no response all night. What's the dea...

Why am I jealous of my ex being in a new relationship when I am dating someone?

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23 February 2010 (M) - hey i have a pretty common problem. I am in a great relationship right now but have just found out that my ex is now dating someone. now i am feeling kind of jealous. what am i supposeed to do?...

Can we ever get back what we had or am I just wishing?

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23 February 2010 (F) - i have this problem i have a kid with a man when i was 18 he didnt see the child again till he was 10 we slept together again now we are going to where he lives again for the first time in 7 years. to make the story short i cheated on him is why we ...

Should I give up on this guy who is so openly ready to commit to a relationship?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Ok this is a new one for me so any input is greatly appreciated. Met a guy online a few weeks ago, we email and chat once a day or every other day. He has my phone number but I don't have his. I do not ask or even mention anything about this but ...

Looking back and wondering .......

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23 February 2010 (F) - I'm curious to know what would be the best thing to do in this kind of situation. At Christmas last year, I'd been dating a guy for 4 or 5 months. We've since split up so this is just a hypothetic question. For weeks leading up to Christmas he was...

To break up or not to break up? That is the question.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

23 February 2010 (M) - This article is inspired by two friends of mine who are together in a relationship and its for all those men and women who think that they want to end their realationship but don't quite know yet. All relationships hit rocky patches where you have...

Can a formerly emotionally abusive man change for the better?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Do you believe that a formerly emotionally abusive man can change for the better? A man who, at one time, raised his hand to his woman? Or do you think a tiger will never change his stripes? ...

We have been together 2 years but she wont give up her boyfriend because she wants kids of her own

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23 February 2010 (F) - ok i have a girlfriend who also has a boyfriend. me and her have been going out for just about 2 years now and now want her all to myself. i have tried to tell her that i dont want to share her with anyone anymore but she said that she wants k...

How do I stop myself from getting hurt? I love her and help her with money but she does not feel the same for me...

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23 February 2010 (M) - there is this girl i really like, i help her with money. without my help she cant live. i love her a lot but she does not love me. i understand the situation. now i want to be friends with her and help her and not love her. what must i do. i hav...

Torn because of my loyalties.....

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23 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. Unique situation. My best friend (girl) was dating this girl, and they just decided to be friends after a few months. Her stepfather and my friend have been in a relationship since August 2009. The complexities come into play because ...

How do I play it cool with him and wait patiently?

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23 February 2010 (F) - Hi! 4 weeks ago I left nyc and relocated to a new job in my hometown, there is a guy who works with me--- we knew each other casually through mutual friends, before this work thing. Well needless to say, since working with him I developed a majo...

Am I being unreasonable to want sex more than just on our days off?

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23 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and living together for almost 2 months. He's 34 and works in the daytime, 9-5, and I'm 24 and work in the evening, 3-11. He picks me up from work every night but when we get home he goes straight to ...

I feel so helpless, my boyfriend has had to leave to continue access with his daughter

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23 February 2010 (F) - This is a difficult one. Me and my partner have recently seperated but still love each other very much. We had been together for 6 years and lived together for four. I have 2 daughters and he has one that lives with his ex. His daughter had been ...

My boyfriend has changed and he wont talk to me about it

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23 February 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. We started off really close. He could even get up to go to the bathroom without kissing me first. He used to always cuddle with me, hug me, kiss me goodnight. and since he only works 4 days a week we'd ...

I have a boyfriend but want to find my old teacher to see if I still have strong feelings for him

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23 February 2010 (F) - wow man am i happy to find this , its funny finding that there are people who feel the same way about some teachers that i do,. in high school i thought it was wierd and sure i joked around with my friends about getting teachers but we never took it ...

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now she is pregnant

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23 February 2010 (F) - ok so my boyfriend of about 7 months cheated on my with his ex. they had sex and now she's pregnant . I can honestly say he was my first love so I can't hate him . but I'm mad at him . I can't get over the fact that he cheated . I need advice o...

How do I ease my feelings of guilt?

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23 February 2010 (F) - So,I did some bad things. i been dating my boyfriend for over a year now . .well for a few months i was seeing another guy.what i mean by that is that i would hang out with him. without my bf knowing. and just talk. i didnt think i was cheating bec...

Is my younger cousin flirting with me?

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23 February 2010 (M) - OK I need your advice i can't stop thinking about my younger female cousin because when were around each other she gives me these looks like she likes me more than a cousin should and when ever were with family she would rather stay by me than ...

We met online and are in love but he refuses to come and meet me

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23 February 2010 (F) - Well, I met this guy through a mutual friend. Well I wouldn't say met because we've never seen each other. In any case, we started talking and things became serious..we fell in love. The problem is that we've never seen each other, and every attempt ...

I accused my fiance of cheating and now she is thinking of not marrying me

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23 February 2010 (M) - This past week I accused my fiance of cheating. I really hurt her feelings wit dat, and now she is having seconds thoughts of marrying me. What can I do to fix it?...