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Archived questions from: 13 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Something is surely wrong in the relationship. Correct?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Okay so to me this is does mean somethings wrong in a relationship but i want to get opinions from the rest of the unique world. when a boyfriend looks at club websites that show, you know the nightly pictures of the people (mostly women of cours...

Feeling Neglected: Should I confront him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend LDR use to enjoy to each other's company. School started and well we both got busy which I knew was bound to happen. Last week, we got into a huge fight because he has a tendency to hide his problems from me or anyone. He has been ...

Am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy through a mutual friend. i always knew the guy from high school. For about 2 months i was told that the guy was interested in me.from past dating experiences i was just more comfortable being by myself,so i really didn't pursue the guy. ...

Is my girlfriend cheating? if so, how do I get her to admit it? Then what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years and recently I've become very suspisious that something is going on behind my back. I have come home from two trips out of state to find her not wearing her necklace I gave her that she swor...

Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...

Why is my boyfriend becoming so controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 9 months now. Hes 20, and i'm 18. We've been through so much and its been really difficult but we've made through it. Hes always been the jealous type, but recently its been starting to get out of ...

I still love him despite the hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: Original Post contained vast amounts of song lyrics and bible passages, these have been deleted in order to shorten the post and highlight the actual question] Hey so I have been lost for a while now. I was dating someone who i wa...

On one hand its like back off, but on the other its like don't go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - Well could do with some advice again, ive been seeing a girl now for a couple of months. Things have been going great, just casually dating once a week to start. The last couple of dates we have been on have gotten fairly intimate, didnt go all t...

How can I stop worrying all the time and learn to trust him and have fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - hey there, i need some help i think i could be the worst possible girlfriend ever, alls i do is worry about my bf hurting me, by keeping things from me or cheating on me...he has an ex girlfriend who lives 2 hours away, where he use to live, an...

What does it mean when a guy says "lets just be friends"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

13 February 2010 (?) - Ok so i'm so depressed right now. i keep trying to end a relationship, well it was never really a relationship more seeing eachother. And every time i do it ends up starting agen not llong after,i can't let him go. But the other day he ended it...

Our sex drives have gone down the drain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8months now and we have a strong relationship. when we first met our sex relationship was great... but now it seems boring we have tried to spice it up a little by having sex in other places as well ...

Does the problem lie with him or should I be taking anti-depressants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Im kinda confused about my relationship right now with the guy I've been dating off and on for 4 years now. When we are together everything seems perfect, but when we are apart its like war world 3. we fight all the time, and when i try talking to ...

Am I dealing with a commitment-phobe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - Have been with my girlfriend for about 9 months now and things in the beginning seemed to be great..we had similar values, family, ect..I thought we had fun , we went on 2 vacations, ect ect..We have somewhat of a long distance relationship and only ...

Should I continue loving him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hello there So there's this guy that I really like.. he claims to like me back. but he's stuck in a relationship with a girl who basically forced her love on him. She threatens to harm herself or something if he breaks up with her. Thing is, we'v...

I should want to be with my wife, but I really want to be with the woman I am having an affair with. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - I am 41 years old married 15 years with 3 kids under 12. I met someone 9 months ago and have been having an affair since. I told her I was married when we met. I told my wife that I was in love with someone else and i did not love her. I filed ...

We have been together for 9 years but he is taking another woman out for Valentines Day!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hi AUnts and Uncles. I'm really distraught because my boyfriend told me a few days ago, after an argument, that he is going out with another woman (from work) tomorrow for Valentine Night and that he is going to 'stay over' at her place. We ...

I get jealous of the special way he treats his wife but I am very dependent on him! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - i have a lover who is married for over 20 years. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now. I am 32, he is 50 now. i love him so much and he loves me also but he loves his wife and children. most of the time, i get jealous and hurt because of the ...

He used me as a substitute girl! How do I teach him a lesson?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - we've been relationship for 6months.before relationship he told me he has a gf 3yrs ago,she cheated him and went to overseas with her new bf. i comforted him and later we're in love. then later i found out that he still keep in touch with his e...

I love her and miss her so much but if I get back with her she will hurt me again

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - Hi, When I meet my GF she was became the girl of my life, yeah not only she is the first girl in my life but also my first love. You know it was a kind of loving someone without EXPECTATION. She pretended to be a very simple girl and v...

How can I work out our relationship around his pot smoking?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - For starters, my boyfriend smokes weed and I don't. He's 22, lives with his best friend of 10 years and I'm his first girlfriend. I'm 19, live with my mom, and he is my first serious relationship. He only smokes with his best friend, which is every ...

I want her back so badly but her friends and family are standing in the way of us being together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - please help me for god's sake....i am going crazy and dont believe i am writing this....long story short,she was my soulmate...we were together for 2 years and were committed...we hanged out at many places and had become most important part of life ...

He said he doesn't know if he still has feelings for me any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - after 5 and a half years my bf told me he doesnt know if he still has the feeling for me anymore. when we first got togtehr we started going out in the first copuple of days and we have been together since. we work togther and have been living ...

I had sex with a bodybuilder!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone ..thanks for reading , Im in a spot here and I really dont know what to do ! I had always wanted to go to bed with one of those really BIG body builder guys at the gym , just watching them always got me aroused . Then one...

I don't know if I should date him or not as he's practically family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - I'm honestly not sure how to go about my situation. I've been hanging out with a guy that I've fallen in love with over the past year.. I haven't told him, because I simply don't want to weird him out. Why? Well, he's not technically famil...