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Archived questions from: 15 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I thought he was committed to me... but seems not from his answer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hello, Apologies in advance, this is quite a long question/conundrum but I will deeply appreciate answers. I asked a question about 6 months ago relating to my disappointment that my boyfriend, of what is now nearly 2 years, won't tell me he...

I need to know how to be a real man!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-has-stopped-having-sex-with-me.html#provide_answer I need to know how to be a real man. Liked your response to Charles999 last year just read it today your right. I'm going through the same thing and I'm ...

Is it wrong to assume she's playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - So basically I have a friend/ friend with benefits and we have been hanging out messing around about twice a week for the last few weeks now. Though when we first met about 3 months ago apparently I got too serious for her and we went on hiatus for ...

Does he have a drinking problem or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I have been with my bf for 4 yrs now. I am worried about his drinking. It didnt bother me before now it is because I am thinking about our feature. He always did drink, once I moved in with him I notice just how much. He used to b...

He's lost in the past it seems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years now. For the past 8 or 9 months it seems he has been trying to get in touch with a bunch of his exes. I understood 8 months ago when it was near his birthday and he needed some ...

He makes me feel like a criminal because of my past. Help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm at my wits end. I'm hopelessly in love with my boyfriend. The problem is he is obsessed with my past. I have been completely faithful to him. In the beginning of the relationship he said he didn't want to know anything about my past, he ...

I'd like him to show me 'public' appreciation...

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15 February 2010 (F) - My other half often comments on other girls pictures or 'likes' them on social networking sites, particulary from a alternative modelling groups fan page. Although I don't mind as such as i know its only pictures its not cheating he shows no signs ...

Please help me, should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - So i am in a relationshio with this guy and i am unsure if i should stay... So here's the thing iwe have dated for two years now and have had a child who is only 6 months old. We have had many of fights and been through alot and i am unsure if i a...

Am I a fool to stay with this guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I'm feeling very confused and unsure about what to do in my relationship. We have been together on and off for 5 years in may. We live together and had a wedding booked for last may but it never happened as i left him due to us arguing so much abou...

I'm so confused, is he interested or is he confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Right where to start met a minute on the internet 6 months ago haven't met him yet as he live quite far away from me. I must admit I have trust issue because of previous relationship one being my son's dad. Anyway thought this man wanted space so ...

What should I do if I give my boyfriend his Valentines gift but he does not have one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - i want to know if my boyfriend was sick and on valentines day and so he did not get me a gift but i have a gift for him if i give it out and he does not give me one what should i do....

Why is this happening to us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm kinda frustrated and so my Gf, when she gives me a handjob and a blowjob, and after I Cum, I got frustrated and Mad and I sooo need a space from her, and I'm kinda about to leave her, and she starts crying and etc and the next day, we'...

She had a one night stand before I asked her out and its really getting to me! Should I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - My new girlfriend broke up with her then boyfriend because she wanted to get with me, she told me she had liked me for 5 years and I had felt the same but neither of us had thought to say anything. The problem is the night before I asked her out she ...

Does the hurt and pain EVER go away or at least ease?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - It's me again, Well we went out for valentines dinner on Saturday night and it had to happen. I mentioned I suppose I'd be getting a poxy bunch of flowers as usual rather than a heart necklace (like he bought 9 years ago for some woman he got clo...

I think I'm turning into a monster! Does my ex like my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - i feel really insecure, it doesnt help when my ex and best friend are together i get so jealous its with other girls as well, i no its bad and annoying i would invite her out feeling happy, then when i see them together i just would stay away. He ...

Why do I miss her when I finally gathered the courage to end the relationship after 2 years of emotional abuse?

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15 February 2010 (M) - Hey everyone..i really need your help! My relationship with my girlfriend (more like a fiance to me) for 2 + years now (we both were 17 when we started off)..ended 6 weeks back!!this is why! she was my first girlfriend and i wanted her to b...

My parents want me to stay away from him after his drunken outburst, but he wants us to get back together! I really don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - hi! i'll try 2 keep this as short as i can, i've been seeing a guy for about a year and a half now were not anything official but we dont see other people sounds complicated i know! anyways we have been finished a while but last night we had a drunk ...

Any way to make him come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - My ex asked me a week ago if I wanted to try again. He said that his feelings for me havent changed over 2 years and he really cant lose me from his life. And I'm the best thing thats happened to him and he cant wait to tell people we are back ...

Over the last year our sex life has gone down-hill, how can I get my wife to open up to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - How can i get my wife to open up more to me. I have never had a boring sex life. For the past year its been real bad. I need advice please. ...

He called me his "casual friend" at the end of our date! How can I talk to him about this without appearing to be clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - A couple of weeks ago I met up with a guy I've been online friends with since last summer. I've had feelings for him for some time. We had a great day, typical date- cinema, meal, then to finish we went on a walk and got to know each other some more ...

I'll never be able to forget that my father always favoured my older sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a question about my father. We are four sisters and since we were small he used to compare us. He has always favoured my biggest sister. He has even confessed that he liked her most because he finds that she has more qualities than the...

How can I get her to love me as more than a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - IM A MALE/FRIENDS A FEMALE Ive been desperately in love with my best friend for a year now. We started the relationship terrible as i came to find out that she was my best friends ex girlfriend. Then out of the blue as soon as i start talking to...

I've dreamt of being in a relationship with her but now there is a chance of it happening I'm scared I might be a rebound or it might not be the right thing for her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I met this girl in my college biology class. I remember the first time we met like it was yesterday and yet I can't seem to understand how it has been only 5 months. We clicked it off immediately. We were suppose to be studying but we'd chat about ...

Why aren't we "Official"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I've been "seeing" this guy for a few months. There is a slight age gap -I am 20, he is 25- but we get along very well. We hung out very often before it reached this point. From what I've seen, he's kind of shy; I made the first move on him, and it ...

How do I get over my ex boyfriend when I am due to give birth soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I am currently 32 wks pregnant and alone. Father of baby is ignoring me and didn't even wish me a happy valentine's day yesterday. I bumped into him after 30 days of no contact and was doing well until the conversation turned ugly. I looked better ...

Is it wrong that my husband discusses our personal life with the mother of one of his children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Please could you tell me how you would feel about this. I am recently married and have found out that my new husband discusses our personal life and things about me personally with one of the mothers of his children, asking for advice and her view ...

I suppose I should let these friendships die but I am hesitant because my partner is still close to the men in the group. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hello all. Im a 32 year old woman. A year ago, I moved back to my home town after years of depression and a breakdown. My relationship was collapsing, I couldn't hold down a job, the town I lived in was crime riddled and grey and I just had to leave ...

What should I say to him now he has mentioned he wants to take things further?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hi :) me and my boyfriend have only been together for a month and half, and two days ago he kind of brought up the topic of taking things further. Whether or not he actually meant sex, I don't know. But as we only spoke about it briefly, last nig...

Does he like me or should I forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - i've been texting this guy none stop for about 3 months.i've known him but never talked to him.we never hung out and i dont know if he likes me.. he texts me none stop, always says what i'm doing but when it comes to hang out he always bails ...

Why don't girls put effort into relationships?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2957 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is just not putting forth effort into our relationship. She wants me doing all this shit and I get nothing back in return. I even tried telling her nice things all the time and loving on her but I got nothing back in return. I want to ...

I feel like he is my soulmate but he is moving away for a new job, is there any hope for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hey Yall thanks for answering; i'll try and only give you the important info so i posted an online personal ad, and the first thing i said was that i want a monogamous relationship.this guy responds, i totally don't think i am going to like hi...

We went on a break but never got back together, how can I get back into the relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I once went out with this girl a while ago, it ended last october, but not on a bad note, we just had a break and never got back into it and i kind of want to get back into the relationship with her soon, but i don't know how to go around it or that ...

He likes being sought after, but it frustrates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (?) - I had attention issues with my boyfriend from the time we started dating eight months ago. He was always too busy for me. I complained several times but he did nothing, and actually seemed to enjoy the chase. He would however treat me very well and ...

How can I get over him when its so hard because I work with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hey everybody. I've been talking to this guy from my job for two yrs. We are ten yrs apart. It was really Good at the beginning but not its not the same nomore. He saids he doesn't wanna be with me because he doesn't want Another family. But he's...

What does he really want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5361 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I was seeing a guy for about 6 weeks. I'm his first non one night stand since he and his long term girlfriend broke up a year ago. We were friends for quite a while before that. There were a couple times when I was drunk and had a bit of a freak out ...

Valentines Day was such a disappointment, he never makes me feel special anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Two weeks ago when my b/f and I were having a fight he bought me an ipod and gave it to me, to get himself out of the doghouse. He said it was an early Valentine's gift. He didn't wrap it, he just handed it to me after we left the store. When ...

Why is she trying to make her boyfriend jealous by flirting with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I think a girl is trying to make her boyfriend, whom she recently broke up with, jealous by flirting with me. How would I know if she is?...

Can a change in blood pressure medication change somene's personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Can a change in blood pressure medication change someone's personality? My b/f used to take Diovan though it didn't control his blood pressure that well and his temperament was always combative and argumentative. Then he got switched to a new drug ...

Do you think he had a fling with her and only ended it when she went crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - What do you make of this? My b/f and I have been together only a year when this (single) gal starts working at his office. Suddenly they are going out in the field together a lot and he claims it's for "work". (Funny when her male counterparts ...

Why would my boyfriend not respond to this letter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - One day I was very angry at my boyfriend and told him to have a good life, after that I wrote him a letter explaining why I was upset, since then I have not heard anything from him :( Below is what I wrote, please help me explain why he would no...

Too hormone induced for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - It's kind of embarrassing but... lol Well, I had my virginity taken a few months back and now all I want/think about is sex mostly and my boyfriend is like 'We need to get you to calm down a bit' and then I get all pouty at him cause he's just ...

A little peeved on Valentines Day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Okay so, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We have a sort of long distance relationship going on... him being in North Carolina and me being in Maine. It's been kinda rough being away from each other but we do make a point in ...

I don't deserve love, this is what I feel now :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Dear all, These days, after having lots of problems, Suddenly I feel that I don't deserve any love and those people who have left me for someone else, I think they have done the right thing. It has been 4 times that I have been left by my ex-bo...

I have no love for him anymore, but I feel reluctant to ask him for divorce

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for almost 5 years. We both have two kinds, 2 year and half (twins). I am very frustrated about my marital relationship because day by day, I found myself and my husband becomes far away and away from each other despite we sleep ...

I saw my boyfriend cheating on me.....in a porn video!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over three years now. He's currently in his second semester of his freshman year of university and I'm in my second semester of my sophomore year of university. We go to different universities 6.5 hours away ...

Should I have a 6th abortion for the same guy I've been with for 12 years?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I am 7 weeks pregnant for a man I have been seeing for over 12 years with a two year gap in which I had a child for someone else and so did he. I have been pregnant 5 times for this guy and he has forced me to have abortions knowing I am the type ...

Mad over a hickey my boyfriend gave me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 5 and a half years. we used to give each other hickeys when we were young, as we grew older, I hate getting them and I've told him not. but recently he made 3 huge mark on my neck when we were making out. i got so mad at ...

Is this appropriate, and should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5399 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - My b/f and his ex wife text or call each other every single day. They do not have children together. She treated him poorly when she left him for another man, and even stole money from him. Recently they started talking because she convinced him ...

How can you say to your boyfriend that you're unhappy and want to leave sometimes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused about how I feel. Im in a long distance relationship with an older guy who I see about 6 months of the year. At first it was amazing. I got very close, very quickly and easily to this guy. I've never felt so much love for ...

My boyfriend kissed another girl when drunk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 11 months. last week he went out with his friends, got completely drunk and kissed another girl. I found out that night as he told me himself. he seemed really upset then (obviously i was devastated) the ...

Should I replace my ex-boyfriend's jacket?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - Should I replace my ex-boyfriend's a jacket that I distroyed? I had it in my possession when he broke up with me. I was angry at the time and damaged it. ...

What are my chances of making it work with this new guy? Or should I go back to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I am 19 and had been with my bf thats 21 for over a year. We are at college together. About three weeks ago I met this other guy. He is like the exact opposite of my bf and I was really attracted to him. My bf is basically quiet and dependable ...

How do I deal with this break-up? I want to stop crying and feeling so sad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend who I truly love for many reasons. i know it was the right thing to do yet I still feel so sad/depressed and i dont know what to do. he was very insecure and didnt trust me (altho ive never given him any reason not 2, ...

I'm not sure if I can call this a relationship anymore....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - I have a girlfriend. we live together though I'm not sure I can call it a relationship anymore. There is no physical contact whatsoever yet she still wants me to buy a place and for us to move to. She cries sometimes about getting older an...