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Archived questions from: 12 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can't get away from him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I've been with a guy for about a month, we got on really well and he helped me more than anyone else after what happened with my last boyfriend, I really like him and I think he's amazing but I just can't get away from him sometimes, I feel tra...

Is my girlfriend over her ex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Okay, I need a some different points of view on this to help me understand. As of 6 months ago I started dating my current girlfriend. She is a wonderful girl and I'm totally in love with her and she says she is totally in love with me. However,...

I feel really battered and bruised by my boyfriend's constant abuse...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm looking for advice re my boyfriend of ten years. I feel really battered and bruised by his abuse. He has called me names over the years, insulted my daughter (he is not her father) and he has even threatened to 'slash' my face open and ...

I don't want to be the cause of their break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - heyah guys a tough one!!!! im really close with this boy and he has a gf but i dont know what's going on. we went to football together tonight and well he and my other friend went off on one i was later informed that my close mate had been finished ...

I lied to her and now she won't talk to me. How can I make this right again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I need help... i lied to my girlfriend about this girl that i liked way before she came along and i just told her the truth and she says she hates me now and i need to fix this before valentines day, we've been going out for 10 months almost 11 and ...

Is there anything I can do to inject some life into this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I'm in an extremely boring relationship with a girl that I really like. She is very kind, considerate and giving. She takes exceptionally good care of me and takes care of a lot of my needs, like my laundry, helping me keep my place clean, ...

Was her reason for breaking up with me valid?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Hi guys, Recently, my girlfriend broke up with me for a reason I didn't understand. Here's what happened. We were talking about her past (dating, first kiss, making out, etc.) Then she asked me, "did I turn you off?". The reason she said that be...

Is it worth trying to fight for the relationship before he gets too close to this new woman???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hi, my long term BF and I have been arguing a lot mostly because of his problems and we have been kind of on/off over the last year but I still love him. I saw him a couple of weeks ago then he suddenly told me he had seen a woman at work he liked ...

What's wrong with him? He's like 2 people and it's making me super frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I'm currently a sophomore in college. My boyfriend and I have been dating since spring quarter of last year and since then, I have pretty much been staying in his dorm room (even though I have my own) apart from the summer when we both went home. ...

I'm mad at my boyfriend but is my anger justified?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Okay hi people.. basically ive been with my boyfriend 2 months today and we had been talking for long before that.. anyways on the 14th(yes valentines day) its his birthday and of course valentines day, i think thats kinda sexy lol, his a vlanetin...

He treats me really badly but I just can't seem to leave him... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Ok, so this will be a bit long. I am 15 years old and have been through a lot, I think.. Alcohol use and drug use. My mom drinks a lot and my dad isn't in the same country, he also drinks a lot. They both smoke. I'm saying this because I find it ...

To call or not to call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Hi all, I have a friend who is in some financial difficulty. she called me telling me that she has finally gotten a job but needs some money to buy the uniform or she could lose the job. She told me how much it would cost. I transferred the ...

I seem to get unfair treatment all the time from men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine. the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like dirt, belittled me,name called,even threatend me which is...

My girlfriend thinks I intentionally get erect when I see her naked! How can I stop myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I always erect when I see my girl naked, I want to stop it. Pliz help! She thinks I do it intentionally....

He says he is unsure about our relationship yet he still acts like normal, I am so confused!

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12 February 2010 (F) - Hey guys. First of all I'd like to say thank you for helping me out. Greatly appreciated it. Please be honest and speak your mind. I also like to see the perspectives from any guys who have been in a relationship for more than a year or anyone who ...

I know he loves me but why would he cheat on me and get her pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I've been dating him for 4 years. His cheated on me with the same person, but each time apologizes and says its over. Now I discover she's pregnant. He wants a child (I cannot have any), so I told him go make one (jokingly) but not with her. Low and ...

Why can't I forget my pig of an ex even though I'm with someone better now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - 2 years ago now my first love walked out on me to be with another girl. We had been together since the age of 16. It was a very troubled break up which was dragged out for around 9 months following the first time he walked out... he was coming back ...

Is there any way to make everyone happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - ok so I got a problem. there's this girl I think im in love with. she's been there for me countless of times. though she does have a boyfriend. she still treats me like a boyfriend and always hugging me. she will come to me sometimes just saying ...

Why is he not physically intimate with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. We still did not have sex yet. But we have fooled around a lot.. My problem is that we are doing well in our relationship. But.... when we met on Sunday we made out a lot and were physically ...

Why am I acting like I am single and looking for a man when I have a boyfriend? Is it wrong that I am still with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1 I'm a mother of a 4 month old girl, and am still with her father but only as bf/gf. Well he wants to get married, but I don't. He's madly in love with me, I'm...

She has reassured me time and time again that she is not cheating, but I still cant help think she is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - I think my girlfriend might be cheating on me. I can't get it out of my head, and I feel completely paranoid about it and am afraid I'm behaving like one of those obsessed boyfriends. I don't think my suspicions are completely unfounded though...

She wanted us to get married someday, but now she is saying she is unsure of what the future holds for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - This is an email from my girlfriend and I'm not sure why she says she is not sure what the future holds for us.She wanted a commitment and was the one that wanted to get married someday, now i get this. Not sure whats going on.Any insight would be ...

She has denied me sex until I pay for it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - Have been in a relationship for four years now with a lady i do love soo much and ready to marry, she is 32 am 27, But she is so controlling, she doe's not like to be forced on doing things she has become miss independent, i lost my job recently and ...

Should I tell my boyfriend what happened in bed with his best friend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - What should I do ? , my b/f was out of town at a business function and we had a party down here , It was all good fun , with drink , music and Dance . When I was getting ready for bed I put on my favorite skimpy nighty and jumped in bed , ...

My boyfriend lied to me about looking at porn, I feel like he has cheated on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for more than 2.5 years and everything has been going great. So, the last night I was on his computer and I saw that he had been looking at porn. When I asked him about it he said it wasn't his, and he didn't ...

I want to keep working as an exotic dancer but my boyfriend wants me to stop, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Hi all ..thanks for some help , Im working as an exotic dancer in a rather nice club , I love my job and really enjoy turning on the guys and feeling them wanting me so badly . But I began dating this guy I met there ( I know , I know ...

Trying to handle this time apart thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

12 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I been together for 2 years and last week we had another argument and she said that we needed time apart to get out stuff together, she said she still loves me and she sees a future with me but right now its to hard to keep going ...

He told me he prefers larger breasts, when I only have small ones! How do I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - Lame question... but I have small breasts, and my boyfriend prefers big ones. I know this because his celebrity crushes have big breasts and because I asked him and he straight out told me. During sex I'm not self conscious about them, although when ...

I feel like I am only staying with my partner because he is my best friend, how can I explain this to him without being too awful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my wonderful partner for near on 8 years now. As much as I love spending time with him, I don't think it is in the same way as it once was. What we have feels much more platonic than romantic to me, and not just in the 'we're ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5403 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, a few weeks ago he told me he wanted space because he felt that i was always on his back and that i was too clingy.. so i left him alone and 2 days later he came crawling back saying he missed me and ...