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Archived questions from: 18 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I lay back and keep seeing him or forget about him and stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I've been going out with a guy for almost 6 months now. He is a very nice person. We are friends with benefits. I have a daughter and it's just very hard for me to find a guy that I want to be in a serious relationship with, and a...

My girlfriend is pregnant and I'm out the door!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - Hey, i've been dating this 31 year old women with a kid already, im 25 no kids and on the track of geting a IT degree. I been dating this girl for 7months, then she tells me she is pregnant AND she tells me she dont want it and wants to have an ...

I have no idea what to do about my troubled relationship without anyone getting hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I don't know if I should break up. It's been a year and a half now and until last October, I could see myself marrying "A" and having kids with him. We both wanted it. I still do want it but its definitely not possible the way things are right...

Why do I miss her even if she has give me sooo much pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - Hey everyone..My relationship of 2 yrs with my gf(more like a fiance to me) ended 2 months back!She was my first and i wanted her to be last too!ive always wanted to be with just one girl for the rest of my life..but i broke up with her! Its a ...

I just bought my girlfriend a car, but lost both her and my job days later.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - hello my name *name omitted for privacy* i been wit h this girl for 5 years on valentines day 2010 i decided id buy her a new car a 2005 pntiac gto ls6 well just so happens on feubuary 18 2010 she leaves me i lost my job and i just broke down what ...

Is he intentionally being cruel to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I'm so upset right now. My ex was brn premature, like i was, and he was born with one leg shorter than the other, and he also has scoliosis in his back, so he has a lot of pain. He found out this week that its so bad now that he might need a ...

Is it wrong for a boyfriend of 5 years to refuse to go to my Aunts funeral?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - My aunt just died yesterday. I'm just wondering if it's wrong for my boyfriend of 5 years to not want to go to her funeral with me? This is pretty much all new to me. I have never been to a funeral or known someone close to me that has died. I am 27 ...

Should I send her flowers and a poem?

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18 February 2010 (M) - Now iam not much of a writer if fact i havent writen anything from when i left school, put i felt the need the other day and this is what a wrote, i thought that i should sent it to her with her favourite flowers 'liles' should i? Iam sorry, ive...

I'm white, my BF is black, and I find ebony porn on my computer every so often.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - *OPs own title* First of all, my boyfriend tries to deny that he watches porn for the purpose of sexual excitement--as Myself, I have no problem with porn. I'll be the first to admit that I watched plenty of it when I was single, and I wouldn't mind...

Sweet girl with secrets, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - *OPs own title* I have been with my girlfriend for nearly four years. We were very exclusive, very quickly. Early on in the relationship I found out that she had been talking to her ex on the phone regularly, and even that he had tried to talk her ...

I can't understand why I don't like her more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over two months now, but before we were friends. I was also told that before I asked her out she liked me for a while, yet i was still very confused and a little scared to be honest when she told me ...

Why would she stick around with a guy who she knows is attached? And why would my boyfriend keep seeing both of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Hi, This is a question I'm sure has been asked a million times.. but I'm sitting here distraught right now and I have to know. I'm a first-class girlfriend.. one of those extremely open, honest, caring and loving girls. One of those girls that ...

I think he doesn't want me because I am not pretty enough

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I think he doesnt want me to be his gf bcz i m not pretty enough! dont i deserve to be loved too? i cry every morning once i wake, i cry to sleep every night. i know i sound foolish but i feel extremely down. fine, i m ugly but dont i deserve t...

My LDR has changes and I think he doesn't love me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - i am extremely disappointed with my bf.we r in a comitted relationship and yeah its a ldr.its now 7.5 months.i am upset because he watches a lot of porn movies which irritates me.and if i say i don't like it he says so what,its so normal.this breaks ...

Does he love me, I wanna know, how can I tell if he loves me so .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - hi, i was wondering how to really know if a guy i met last week likes me. i want a males prospective please. i met him last Thu. and the next day we went on the same mission trip. he sat next to me the whole time on the 7-8 hour rode trip. he kind ...

He's out of my league, but he says I am his "favourite".

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I met this nice boy who I think is millions of miles out of my league but he insists it's the other way around. I'm just a plain jane who's been told that she's pretty and kind, sorta like a mother. He's one of the very popular types; he's smart, ...

I worry a 9 year age difference might be too much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - i'll be 18 soon, and my boyfriend is 27. I don't know what to do, because my friends call him a pedophile for dating someone as young as I am, but the reason we're dating is because we love each other. In the long run, will this seem like a big ...

How can I tell her I want to be alone for a while

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - If things didn't work out with a girl and ended badly. Then you guys end up seeing each other in class a month later and he clearly doesn't want to talk to her. She still does. He knows he can't have her so what's the point of being friends? ...

I'm in love with my same sex teacher

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I am a 13 year old girl and im in love with my female karate teacher weve known eachother for almost 3 years, she is married and has 2 children with her husband ( my other karate teacher) 1 child is 2 1/2 and the other is 8 months, when i dont see ...

We have set a wedding date and I am on probation for beating up a woman he had sex with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Me and Alex have been together for 2 yrs in the second month dating i kissed another guy then around the 6 month i sent some (pics) to a different guy then we went to a club and i danced with sum1 he claims the guy was grabbing me but he wasnt ...

My best friend is my boyfriend whose ex is my friend and she wants to get back with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together for about four years, and he has always had a problem with how close I am to my best friend (boy). Everyone around us always thought that me and him would end up together but it never crossed our minds. His ex was my friend ...

Is my best friend bi, should I tell him I find him attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - I am 17 now and have had this best friend that im very close with. and resently my feelings for him have grown. so i ask him a few simple test questions to see if he might be bi or at least willing to try, and two questions i had asked were: 1. " ...

IT's our first date coming up, how will I tell if she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - I have an issue but it isn't an issue it's not bad haha I have a friend im starting to like her she always so nice I was at lunch and she ran up to me and triped and fell then knelled next to me at a table she didn't say anything but she was faci...

I broke his heart, he wont answer my texts and I just want to get over it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I don't know why I keep thinking about this guy. I'm over him but I just feel sorry that I broke his heart. I lied to him and I feel sorry I wanna tell him Look, I'm sorry for hurting you. I wasn't faithfull at all and I regret EVERYTHING. I wanna ...

I think he hates me, but please don't tell me to dump him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I honestly think my boyfriend either hates me, is embarrassed by me, or is disgusted by me. Here's our story (it's a little long, but I feel it's necessary to portray him appropriately): We met on an anime themed chat site kind of like Gaiaon...

I really like her, but am worried saying something might upset our future plans

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - I like a girl who I am good friends with, I live with her and we get on great, we chat for ages and joke with each other constantly. im not sure if she feels the same way. Im stuck as we have put money down and are going to be living in the same ...

Our parents got married, now they say we have to split!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I got enganged 1 year ago to "stepbrother" - well he wasnt till 2 mounth ago. both my parents and both his parents were devorsed, and my mam and his dad have been very good friends since we got together, and 2 months ago they went on a cruise and ...

My boyfriend seems to enjoy "taking care of business" by himself, even when I am there wanting sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Sorry, this is a little long-winded. My boyfriend and I have been together for a very short time. He lives very far away and we have been seeing each other for a few months. Every month and a half we get to spend a few days together at a ti...

My boyfriend is in jail, I send him money, he used to cheat, should I leave or wait for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend in jail for escape.he got one year for it but the thing is when he was home he show me and my kids no attention bt i love him but to set this whole question off i got locked up behind him treating me like cramp and he wrote me once and ...

I wish she could show me how much she loves me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - My fiance told me she doesn't want to be friends with me...if she wanted me as a friend then she wouldn't be with me. I can understand that to a point, but she treats and talks to her friends with more humanity then she gives to me. I know sh...

How can I approach these subjects without being yelled at?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I guess I'm here asking this question because I feel like I would be breaking the hearts of everyone else in my life if I asked them. I started dating a girl about 7 months ago and I'm not sure if we're right for each other. Sometime...

My best friend has a girlfriend...but I'm in love with him! Advice, anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I realized the other day that I'm in love. He's my closest best friend and we have been for about a year, I feel like myself the most when I'm around him. I tell him things I would never tell anyone else. He confessed to me the other night that he ...

YEAH we have great sex but is that enough? Does it compensate for the neglect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - After 6 years loving a "badboy", I am still left neglected and lonely. It seems every occasion or event meaningful to me, I end up alone. I am constantly disappointed and p.o'ed. After the steam cools, he always calls or shows up apologetic and ...

Should I just walk away or should I stand my ground as his bestfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Hey Ok so my ex and I stopped talking for about four months (after break up), got to the point where I truly thought I was over him. He contacted me out of the blue and wanted to be friends, after 3 weeks I acepted and we started chatting heaps a...

What to do when Porn destroys two relationships, and I'm fully detatched more than emotionally...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I have to start from the beginning so its understandable.. (prepare for a long one...) It starts with my ex "James", We had an okay relationship. It seems okay now, mainly because we are over everything that happened and can laugh about it. We bro...

I'm doing it by the book but how do I have a happy ending?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Ever since my ex broke up with me over 2 years ago, I have been looking for ways to get him back. AT FIRST I made the mistake of chasing him and pushing him farther away. Then when I backed off, he began to initiate contact by calling and texting ...

I don't want my four year relationship to end. I've worked so hard and I don't want it thrown away because of sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - I need help. I'm only 18 years old, but I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years. I'm not very interested in sex anymore, and I'm afraid he's going to end us over it. He complains that we never do anything, and I feel bad. Even ...

Genuine reason or mental block?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Hi I have a strange problem. I have been married for a year and I still cannot love my husband. To be honest, I was never in love with my husband...even before I decided to marry him. We didn't get a chance to date much but he seemed like a ni...

I don't want to leave her but to me it seems that if I do it wouldnt even matter to her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - ok me and my girlfriend just got back together after like 2 months of not being together and now shes tripping and pissing at me for things that i havent even done...i do evrything possible to be with her n i do anything for her and now all shes ...

Am I being treated like a door mat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - Hi peeps! I've been living with me bf now for 7 months now and I'm reallu concerned about the way my bf treats me. Our relationship used to be filled with affection for each other, now I find its very one sided. I'm always the one who instigat...

She constantly accuses me of cheating on her, yet she's the one who did the cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me a while ago and i forgave her and took her back, i love her, but our relationship is hard recently i don't know what to do. I lost a lot of trust in her when she did that, but i had enough to believe her and take her...