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Archived questions from: 14 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I go ahead with my plans to study abroad or give them up for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Basically i just need advise on whether to go ahead with my past plans on studying abroad or whether to leave them behind at the risk of regretting them for my boyfriend. It would be for a period of 4months. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 ...

I adore him as a friend but his lies are making me feel uneasy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - ive known this guy 6 months and we've become very close friends very quickly. ive been a rock to him since his wife left him 7 months ago but i have a major problem he lies to me. i know this because he tells me lots of things which dont add up eg ...

Should I be concerned that he has not told me he loves me yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my BF for 6 months. He cares about me, respects me and is concerned for my well-being. I've met his family and friends and I'm a big part of his life. He's told me that he can see spending the rest of his life with me, that he feel...

I could accept that she just doesn't like me but why was she so interested in me the night before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - hey guys, i met a girl that i really liked at a bar the other night, and we just had a great conversation. i wasnt drinking, she wasnt drinking, i was just being myself and the reason i didnt ask for her number is that i dont really pick up girls at ...

I spent Valentines Day spent alone while my bf preferred to be with his friends!! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - well today is Valentines day. I've seen my boyfriend once before he has left the house for church. I didn't want him to leave this morninq but its church so i feel as thouqh i cant qet mad. My problem is that he's been home [the apt upstairs] for ...

Is he pulling away because of the grief/stress in his life...or has he lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Is it grief, or lack of interest? My bf recently lost of a loved a while ago and has been having a very difficult past few months. I have been by his side trying to be supportive and helpful. We live together. The past few months have been ...

We have a baby, I'm pregnant again and we have age difference problems... Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I am 28, my partner is 17 years older than me. We've been living together for 7 years now, relationship was always up and down, but generally alright. I have never cheated on him and don't have anybody in mind now) Now we have a 2 y.o daughter and...

Why do guys only see me as sex object?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Im 20 and i've never had a guy on valentines day. I'm always single and lonely on v days:( All guys thinks Im cute and sexy and they only come to me cos of sex. Been single for 14 months now (no sex) and all the guys that have come my way just...

Making out with my bf for the first time--just didn't feel right! Is this a bad sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I have been with this guy for 5 month and he is my first boyfriend and he was my first kiss but a few days ago he made out with me for the first time but it didnt feel right...is this just because it was my first time or am i scared...im really ...

I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...

I don't feel special to him... Am I being childish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Well,I'm with a man who doesn't say "I love you too" when I say "I love you" because he feels he should say it when he wants to, and not because I feel like he should. He says he loves me, just very rarely. Now, it's Valentines Day and my man ...

Will she still be thinking of me and treasure my gifts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - Ok I've been waiting for this girl for 2 years. She is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus. She has on and off feelings towards me. She says her bf is possessive and controlling. If she were to initiate to break up, he wouldn't allow and ...

Boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - i am in a commited and long distance relationship.my bf has gone crazy.he says he wants to study and won't allow nebody to interfare,not even me. :( he has started ignoring me.even on valentines day,he didn't msged me much,and when i wanted to talk ...

Help me! I don't know what to do any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I have a friend who I will call Holly in this post. Holly and I have known each other for about seven years now. Holly is married to my husband's brother. Before I even met my husband seven years ago (I was a senior in high school), I had a ...

Am I being blind or just paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I just wanted to know if I'm being paraniod. My bf and I have been going out for 6 months now, we have a age gap of 10 years, he's 21 and I'm 31. I've got 3 kids and he has none. He cheated on me in our third month, told me the truth about it. ...

Opinions needed!!! How do you know when your relationship is coming to an end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - hi, I'm 24 and been with my partner 3 years. I do love him but I'm not sure if i am in love with him. After 3 years we only now started going out places because I basically have to keep on at him because he doesn't take me out anywhere. Well ...

Our relationship is going down the drain... help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Aunts and Uncles: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Our relationship is going down the drain and I'm trying desperately to save it, but I'm in need of advice as I don't know how to deal with this. I consider myself to be a s...

Sad from hubby's silent treatment

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Two days ago I went to my husband crying and told him I was feeling emotional over some deceased pets and wanted his support. He was hugging me and telling me everything was going to be fine and while looking over my right shoulder he blurted out ...

I am thinking of waiting until the baby is born to break the news that I want a divorce.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, Thank you for taking the time to read and respond to my question. I am 25 and have been married for about 7 months now. since getting married, my wife and I have been fighting non stop. Also, she got pregnant (4 months now) and ...

I was wondering why a guy would leave someone like me for someone like this?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Guys, I need your opinion here. I am (what people say is) an attractive, tall slim brunette. I have only been with the one guy in my life and I put everything into our relationship. I was open, honest, trusting, always cheerful and fun to be ar...

A man is obsessed with me, please help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

14 February 2010 (?) - Hi, I am trying to end a relationship with a man who is obsessed with me and intent on marrying me. He is a good man and he truly loves me and wants to protect me. But he is controlling, and even though I love him, I can't take the control. I k...

He tends to give off mix signals...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I am a 17 year old in high school -- high school is a tough time in a girl's life. So this boy and i have been talking forever since summer 2009 ... i asked him how he felt about me but i don't think he fully understood the question. he answer "...

How to get the girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - Hi About 4 months ago I asked this girl i really liked to go out with me , she said yes :). but soon after she told me she didnt want to anymore even though she had told her freinds that she really liked me. We have started to connect again bu...