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Dating: Help and advice

He won't talk to me unless we are sitting next to one another

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2 May 2011 (F) - I have an enormous crush on the boy who I sit next to in a class. We change seats every 6 weeks. I sat next to him and we used to talk to each other and tease and flirt. Today we changed seats and are no longer sitting at the same table. I know form ...

It looks like flirting to me. how can I stop him flirting with all these girls who come up to talk to him?

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2 May 2011 (F) - what can i do with a boy friend who is flirting with this girl? he is 17 and he is just so cute. he tells me i am the only one. but when we are out in the mall all these girls come up to talk to him and he knows their names and they know him. some ...

We get along great, but his abusive ex is still in the picture

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - dear cupid: i have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month, he was married for 25 years and divorced for 1 year. boyfriend is still in contact with his ex even though she treated him horrible. she was diagnosis with an eye problem that left her b...

Her family is putting pressure on me to propose marriage

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2 May 2011 (M) - I am very stressed over my current engagement situation. I am recently divorced after a 2 year long separation to my wife of many years. During that time, I met someone very special and have lived with her now for a little over a year. I love her ...

I love him..but I'm not sure how to say it, or what to do.

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2 May 2011 (F) - Here we go again... I just got out of a two year relationship, with 1 year olds father, he was very mean, and treated me like i was his property instead of a person, he doesnt treat me like a women, and i finally have had enough!! So as of two week...

I'm angry towards my FWB, but the sex is great. Should I end it?

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2 May 2011 (F) - Hi All. Please can I have some thoughts on the following!! thanks. I am in a FWB situation, and the sex is great. It makes me feel relaxed, happy and good. I am very highly sexed, and this guy is giving me exactly what I need. However, I am not ...

I suspect my BF is cheating and need some advice as to handling the situation.

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2 May 2011 (F) - This is kind of a long one but i need to tell the whole story in order to get advice. A bit of history first. My boyfriend and i and been going out for 3 years. We are looking for a house to rent in June and this will be our first real home togeth...

I have two questions about my impending breakup.

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2 May 2011 (F) - two unrelated questions. I am probably breaking up with my bf of five yr, each other's firsts, lived together for a yr. I expect it to be devastating and I'm terrified to do it but I feel like I have to (don't really want to get into it here). H...

Am I wrong to ask my BF to hang out with me more often?

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2 May 2011 (F) - So well its almost summer time, we have 4 more days until school is out. My boyfriend lives three hours from me when were at our homes - he says we will most likely only see each other once this whole summer (3 months!). I don't really like that ...

Am I being too jealous?

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2 May 2011 (F) - Why do i get jealous so easily?. I must admit, i am an insecure person. Recently, this woman came up to my boyfriend, and, without saying anything to him, she gave him a hug and he hugged her back, but then she went away from him. I don't know how ...

Should I be worried about what my BF will do when I am on vacation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I dreamt of my boyfriend that he was having sex with some girl I know, only I don't know who that girl is. Do you think this indicates anything in reality? I am supposed to go on a vacation at the end of May and I will be gone for 3 weeks. We spok...

BF wants orgasm denial. I don't know how to do it.

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2 May 2011 (F) - I wanted to know my bf's biggest fantasy and he said he'd love cum denial/ ruined orgasms but no one's ever done it to him. I don't have a clue about how this should work. I'd love to do it for him, but I don't want to make him explain everythi...

My close friend is falling for me but she has a boyfriend

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2 May 2011 (?) - One of my closest friends is falling for me. We’ve known each other for 2 years now and she has been with the same guy for 6 years, half of which was a LDR. I know her boyfriend well and he has no passion and no drive what so ever. He just stays ...

BF has been collecting nude pictures of girls off Facebook. What should I do?

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2 May 2011 (F) - I have just found out that my boyfriend of 10 months has been collecting naked pictures from girls off his facebook the whole time we have been together. He says he doesn't understand why he did it and he has promised me to stop. He has deleted a...

He says he is accepting the baby, not both of them. Is this true?

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2 May 2011 (F) - A month before he met me, he met a girl and he started dating her. It was after sometime that he left the girl because of me not knowing the girl is pregnant for him, now that the girl is back into his life with an unborn baby, i dont know what to ...

When Does the Art of Compromise Become Compromising?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating my BF for about 9 months and our relationship is getting very serious. We are both 33 years old and have had our share of bad relationships and no luck in love until we met each other and are now looking at taking things to the ...

I miss him. Please can someone tell me how to get through this?

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2 May 2011 (F) - I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25, we have been together for seven years and he has been in the army for the last 5. We are really happy together and love each other so much that we are ready to take the next step and buy a house. I've never bee...

What bothers me is that I wasn't special enough. How can I forget him?

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2 May 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, same old tale... Fallen for a boy who doesn't want a relationship! Met, been seeing each other for few months, was totally honest about not wanting a relationship, which I respect him for and it's not even like I minded that he goes ...

It's been four years and I am still not over him. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a problem. Huge one. I will have to start from the beginning and for that I am sorry...It's a long story folks... It's been over 4 years since I broke up with the ex-bf in question. We have spoken now and then. I have had oth...

He knows I like him but hasn't said anything. Does this mean he doesn't like me?

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2 May 2011 (F) - Hello dear cupid, Ive got a question that is really bugging me at the moment: When a guy you like knows you like him, and hasn't said anything to you does it mean HE DOESNT LIKE you? My friend told the guy i like that i like him, as ...

Should I man up and "go for it" whatever that means?

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2 May 2011 (M) - I've been pubbing and at house parties recently and I feel incapable of doing anything beyond talking to women. I only have a single humble objective, I want to make out with a girl before I'm 19. For whatever reason, I mess it up and the girl ...

Is it normal for him to continue looking at girls on the Internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has a issue with porn and watching other women on the internet. we worked out the whole porn thing but for some reason he will not leave watching other girls alone. I've expressed my emotions to him about it but he just cant leave it ...

Is she playing hard to get? Cause seriously it's working if it is.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - hi kindly help me here please. i've been dating this girl i really like. we've known each other for almost 7 months. by the way she is korean and im chinese filiipno and we're on our 20's. we always text at each other everyday. she even calls me ...

Relationship advice......my BF can't forget about my past, plz help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Hey! Im just after a little bit of advice, so any would be appreciated :)! I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months, and he wanted to know everything about my past relationships etc, so I told him everything, how many people I had slept with, ...

Boyfriend needs relevant suggestions to gain my trust back.

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2 May 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend is trying to gain back my trust. basically read this first(without repeating myself) i posted a few weeks ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-deal-with-a-lying-boyfriend.html And well i have decided not to break up with...

He's chatting up another. What can I do to trust him?

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2 May 2011 (F) - I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I'd been going out for over a year now. Things are going so well. Lately, we have been fighting. We broke up a couple of times and we end up being together. Then as time went on we felt like new. We we're happy. ...

I fancy her, but she might be a lesbian. Any advice?

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2 May 2011 (M) - hi i fancy a girl and im 14 years old and the thing is the girl that i fancy has never had a boyfriend and shes a total babe and lots of boys have asked her out and shes said no and i've never asked her out and we are pretty good mates. i'm not ...

Is he seriously considering me to mother his child?

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2 May 2011 (F) - Here goes...I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost six years now. Its been to the point where we have spent all our time together, we've fought, went out of down, just plain out, yadda yadda. Recently though he's been talking about having a ...

Boyfriend is acting strangely

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2 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, things having been going well but we keep hitting points where it seems to go a little strange. For example for a few days at a time he will act quite cold with me and we won't communicate. Its like he ...

All my friends are getting happy together. How do I cope with my feelings for one of them?.

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2 May 2011 (F) - Im stuck in a tricky situation. I still like the boy I've liked for like a year now, and now his girlfriend has broken up with him. he's been left single which gives me more of a chance. But now his ex girlfriend has just started talking to me, and ...

What would be the reasons why my GF is unable to have satisfying sex?

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2 May 2011 (M) - This question is regarding my girlfriends inability to have sex; we are both well legal and have been dating for 2 years. the first time we tried i neglected a condom (stupidly, though nothing happened) as it was an experiment of sorts to see if I ...

Is there something wrong with my Gf? Her eyes check out every guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - hey people!! just want to know, what does it mean if your girlfriend is checking out guys in front of you? her eyes are always on some good looking guy. she never seems embarrassed to stare in guy's eyes. once we were out for shopping, and i ...

I really like this guy at work but can't read him

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2 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys , I'm starting to really like this guy that I work with, the thing is I'm not sure if he's interested in me.. lately we have been talkIng heaps, just random stuff and flirting... He always says "oh "look there's ya bf " even though they ...

My First Date: Nervous and Anxious About It

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2 May 2011 (M) - I finally built up the courage to talk to a girl, I've never met before, and got her number. We're going to hang out for lunch this weekend, and I'm nervous on how to act on our date. I'm afraid of being too stiff,shy, and not revealing my true ...

He had performance anxiety on our date...tips for handling it the next time round?

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2 May 2011 (?) - I recently started seeing a guy. He's sweet, funny, but shy. He always given me hugs, but I had to initiate kissing him on our third date at his home. When he took me to bed after making out for a while on the couch, I asked him if he had any ...

Is the love genuine?

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2 May 2011 (F) - My b/f alwaz frees me to do whatever i like, the only thing he hates is lying, he hates finding things i should have told him earlier out himself and another thing is that he is not jealous. But i know he really loves me and that he's not a cheat. ...

She keeps pushing me away and asking me to date younger woman...I'm at a crossroads

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2 May 2011 (M) - Hi all, thanks for reading my question. I'm 32/m/Aus. I broke up with my ex about 4 weeks ago. We were together for nearly a year. She's older than me and being sick. Our connection and feeling was very strong from the very beginning and de...

My boyfriend of 9 months says he wants to be with me, but he doesn't even have my number in his phone!

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2 May 2011 (F) - I got a boyfriend and we was going out for 9 months And I had this feeling he was cheating and I Founded out he be calling other girls and he Don't even call me I call him all day and he never Answer unless its something that he wants My numb...

Should I forget this flame and stick to my boyfriend?

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2 May 2011 (F) - Me and a certain very shy guy had a thing for eachother for a couple years. More of an unspoken spark for eachother. Finally last summer he spoke up and asked why we had never dated. We talked about the whole relationship and we agreed we wouldn't ...

I'm angry at my friend for liking my boyfriend and now I'm not sure if I trust him!

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2 May 2011 (F) - Hii, well lastnight me and a bucnh of my friends slept over at my house and my boyfriends' friend was here. Well his girlfriend and me used to be really close and then she started liking my boyfriend when me and him were taking a break. i know he ...

He doesn't want to get a place together yet!

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2 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5years. I graduated from university last yr with my degree n have a fulltime job with good pay. I live in an apartment right now with intentions to buy a house early next year when my lease is up. My boyfrien...

My boy friend's parents will not speak to me. I need advice on what to do please?

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2 May 2011 (F) - Thank you Andrew I'm using this site because my boy friend's parents have put the gate on me with no reason given to me. They will not talk to me and I need advice on what to do. My boy friend is in the middle of all this. I also want to say than...

His parents hate me.. How can I get them to accept me? Or do I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I'm dating the most amazing guy, but his parents do not want me to see him and try to not let me see him. They hate me for no reason at all. He fights with them, so he can take me to places and now they told him to date anyone except for me. I don'...

My Depressed boyfriend wants space. Can anyone tell me how to get through all this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 plus years now. He's had a history with depression and has had episodes where he'd leave for several hours or a day. He recently went through a custodial fight with his ex wife over his kids and lost. She took...

Can I repair this misunderstanding? My Boy friend's sister hates me and is trying to ruin my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I need help with my boyfriend and his family. I met my boyfriend through my best friend. My boyfriend is her brother. My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few weeks but I feel like I want to be with him for the rest of my life. He is ever...

I don't know if boyfriend is hiding me or ashamed of me?

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2 May 2011 (F) - Here goes ... Boyfriend and I been together for six months and I can't decide if he's ashamed of me or hiding something . I don't have a phone and have been sharing his complicated smart phone.. I keep finding messages to and from "old friends " ...

Is there an effective way to tell him how he hurt me?

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2 May 2011 (F) - I fell hard for a guy who knew it and used me for sex. I've been hurt by men before and always found a way to move on and shake it off and find something better. No matter what I do, and how much time has passed: I fall to tears when I think of him. ...

Where have all the good men gone? Any suggestions on how to find them please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I've been actively dating for the past year. Overall, I've been extremely disappointed by the experiences I've been having. I've found many to be extremely selfish, immature, and have no respect for women. I've found that some men treat women li...

How to go from close friendship to relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) - This question is about a friend of mine and a girl he really likes. Unfortunately, I am not qualified to help him out and therefore I need your help. So, this is the story: My friend is a student, just like myself. He met a relatively yo...

Why does my boyfriend insist on masturbating everyday?

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2 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend masturbates every single day. We don't live together yet and I understand masturbation is normal but he does it every day and it gets in the way of our sex life. Sometimes he pleases himself before he sees me and he will have no drive ...

He asked for time off from the relationship...

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2 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a very long time(10 to be exact) we have a child together. Recently, he came to me and said he is confused and wants to have a time off. So I've made him move out and he did. For about a month he didn't live with us b...