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Archived questions from: 3 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I like him, he ignores me. I ignore him, he likes me. What the hell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I have a question about the male psyche. Why is it, when I seem to pay him attention, he sometimes is really nice then other times he's cold and ignores me? Like this year, he has been staring at me, but upclose he acknowledges everyone and ignores ...

We live together, we share a son. But she says she is also in a LDR. How can I cope with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend of 19 years with whom I have a son, says she is dateing someone out of state, but lives with me, sleeps with me, and i hold her every night. She says she might leave me, but goes to counselling. what is she doing? also says she might ...

Does being in a romantic relationship contribute to happiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Does being in a romantic relationship contribute to happiness? Romantic relationship meaning a committed, stable, relationship. you also must be with the same person for at least 2 years....

My boy friend sometimes just walks off and leaves me alone in a bar. no explanation. what do you think I should do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. Sometimes, when he gets in a mood, and we have been out in a bar, he has left me on my own at the bar. It's happened a couple of times. The first time it happened, he left but then came back a ...

Does anyone else feel this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys! I was just wondering something. When you're in a relationship, do you ever get bored of the person you're with and find faults with them easily? This happens all the time with me and is the main reason I find it hard to make relationshi...

How important do you think chemistry is when choosing a bf or gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I am in my mid 30's, I think I have a pretty face but I don't really have a good body (I've abused it in my 20's and I have the physical scars to prove it). My ex husband (with whom I was with for over 15 years) divorced me 5 years ago because he ...

My boyfriend never texts me back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a lovely relationship, but he never texts me back! Only if I'm in a bit of a mood with him and then he texts me loads! It's really annoying because I can't get in touch with him, and it feels as if he never thinks of me. I...

Fiance won't get rid of pictures of his ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, he recently proposed and I said yes. Only problem is he won't get rid of pictures of him and his ex girlfriend. They had many issues, he said they would break up and get back together, ...

Is it too soon to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Please give me advice as im confused. I separated from a 5 year relationship about 12 weeks ago. Although my ex is saying in his head its been over for approx 18 months. We have a child together and I love him but he says we will never get back ...

Freaking out before orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I've never had an orgasm before. Tried solo a few times, still didn't happen. My boyfriend and I have been trying...and every time I get really close I freak out! I just have to stop. Don't know why. The only thing that gets me to that point is ...

Doe it mean he's trustworthy if he wants to be your Facebook friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Simple question, if a guy you're seeing wants to be friends on facebook, is this a good sign that he is genuine? Because i think that if were friends on there, then he is honest about not having a girlfriend or dating anyone else. Like he doesn't ...

We are too incompatible to live together. How do I tell him?

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3 May 2011 (F) - Hi I need advice. me and my boyfreind live together he is a demanding person and a very I mean clean person but his ways are starting to send me crazy again I asked him to move out last month let him come back, been back a month now here last 2 ...

We talk on phone but never on facebook. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, i appreciate u guys alot. Just have a quick question i need answers to. My boyfriend and i are very much in love with each other, we are both on facebook, but he never posts on my wall or say anything to me on facebook, he talks to ...

We haven't, but one day I would like to. How do I ask her about having a sexual relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Hey guys i need some help with my relationship. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 1 month now and I want to someday have a sexual relationship with her. Can you please ignore my age for this but if you have to know I'm 15 and almost ...

He is attentive in every way, but he won't be my FB friend. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I am confused. I am in a LDR, and he is very attentive, as soon as he sees me online he starts a conversation straight away, sends me photo's of himself and is very loving and caring. He makes me feel special and very loved. What is c...

How do I forget my years of abuse and learn to love again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I lived in abusive marriage for 20 years. I finally got out of it and started a new life. But the marriage keeps haunting me. How can I turn around again to find someone to love?...

He doesn't want to touch me much. Is this a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - dear cupid: I'm a middle age lady that is starting to date again, I'm curious. when my boyfriend and i are starting things up I'm all over him because he has a body that i like. A little cushion. I love it and i let him know it. with me he hard...

I forgave her, but I think she is at it again. What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - i feel like my GF is cheating on me because she is not talking to me from last week till today..she is not replying me for my any messages on facebook..but she is chatting with others..but suddenly when i said hi today, she said "hi i love you, and ...

What's the secret to attracting a woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Please tell me what REALLY TURNS ON A WOMEN. What gives her that spark to feel so attracted she'll jump into your arms?...

What constitutes a healthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Have been enjoying reading a lot on this site. Thanks to you all. This is my question.how do one know a healthy relationship ....

I have never had a BF because I always fall for married men. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - i'm 25 years of age, a girl. no boyfriend since birth and i don't know why. every guy i met told me that i'm beautiful and a bit shocked that i haven't got any boyfriends at all, but i don't know why i am always attracted to "attached guys" ...

Her past is tearing me apart, but I love her so. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - So I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months now, she's my first real girlfriend and I do love her so much. Everything is perfect except for the fact that I can't get her past sex life out of my head. She's 18 and has been with 10 guys bef...

Not impressed. he asked me to go skating, but instead he ignored me. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Ok, so I met this boy over the week end at a leisure place near me I had no idea who he was, but he was hanging around my older brother and some of his friends. He introduced him self to me and we started to hang out. We were talking and he was aski...

Is he cheating or maybe thinking of cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Hi Guys, Just wondering what the signs of cheating or possibly cheating with someone might be. My boyfriend and I live together and are very happy, however I recieved a text one night when he was drunk at a BBQ to pick him up so I set off for ...

Will he understand how hurtful he is if he gets dumped one day too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I was going through some stuff the other day and found some mememtos of my relationship with my ex. I ended up throwing them out, I don't like keeping stuff from exes. I've told my story here before: He dumped me completely out of the blue one day,...

Did he just not like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Basically went on a date for the first time in ages :) but I'm kinda confused, because although we had good banter and he kindly paid for my cinema ticket and also wanted to pay for my dinner (I didn't want him to though because we're both students ...

Guys: Do men forget to text back for days, should a girl make this next move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - This question is for the guys because only they can answer guys actions with good insight.. (I hope) Anyways, i met this guy out i spoke to him for about 5 minutes and he asked for my number because i was leaving and he said he wanted to speak ...

How can feel safe about falling in love again, and how do I get a girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - I have been having love trouble forever. I used to like people a lot, but after heartbreak, I haven't had the guts to fall in love again. I do want to fall in love, but I am a bit afraid of what can happen along with it, as well as what other people ...

How do I find an older man that will not use me for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I am 19 years old and graduated high school a year ago. I'm single and i've been looking for a relationship, but there's an issue. I like older men. I didn't think it would be such an issue. I mean, I am attractive. I run so i'm fit, I ...

Do I contact him again? Or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - So, I joined an internet dating site. It's been pretty fun. So far I've met up with three guys. The first guy is now a friend, the second didn't go very well, and the third...aw, the third. He messaged me a couple of months ago and I could tell he ...

I want her to pick me but she always choses the wrong guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - i love this girl weve hang out a lot she has mixed felings she said that she only love one guy but she cant see him . but i think shes afarid to get hurt again she seems to get all the worng guys i do love the girl neaver felt this way with any one ...

I'm 13. How do I get a girl to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - I am 13years old in sixth grade and no one likes me and I dint know y any ideas on how to get a girl to like me...

How do I feel that spark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 months and he is in love with me and I really like him too, but I don't know If I feel the same way. And he has many family things happening at home and I know it will crush him if I broke up with him ...

Girlfriend more interested in being on facebook than being at functions that are important to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little less than a year. We are both 18 and go the same highschool. I play lacrosse and she plays girls lacrosse. We never get to see each others games because we both have sports at he same time. ...

I live with her, I love her but I'm afraid if I tell her it will ruin our friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Hi there, I've been living with this girl for almost a year now. I actually also work with her as her supervisor. We get along great, hang out in work, talk a lot at home and we even go out sometimes with her friends. Over the past few days, I...

Is it okay for me to date my ex's little brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Is it okay to date my ex's little brother? Me and my ex broke up years ago and the last time we spoke was 2 years ago. His little brother is one year younger than I. Is it okay for me to date him? Considering we are both in the mid 20s? Befor...

Boyfriend wants me to get tattoo of his name! Should I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - my partner Shane says he is not the marrying kind. but we do everything together. He was my fiurst boyfriund and I never want any other boyfriend. He does shift work and i get scared at night sometimes when he is not home. And I cant go out without ...

I love him but I find him very unattractive. Am I shallow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I am happily seeing someone and I don't find him physically attractive, in fact I find him rather ugly. I recognise this and accept this and am still very much in love with and attracted to him. People make jokes and say that he is ugly and they wor...