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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I really do want to trust him. How do I learn to trust him more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I have some serious trust issues. There is this guy i met online with whom i get on really well and been extremely good friends for a while now. So recently we started a long distance relationship as we will meet in July and then i will move to where...

I'm dating my professor, aged 40, should I tell my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so I'm an 18 year old college student who has always been attracted to older men. It was not really a problem, but now, I've started dating my professor. He's divorced, so it's not like he's cheating on his wife, and it's completely ...

Why doesn't he contact me? Should I wait for him to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - The guy i have dated for about a month told me he couldnt meet me very much right now because his exam coming up in about 3 weeks.. He's in med-school, so I know he has a lot to do. Still I got a bit upset.. He couldnt tell when we were going to see ...

Does she really love me? Even though she talks just as much to two other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - How is my girlfriend in love with me, but doesn't like to have fun with me more than with other people? My girlfriend and I have had this problem, for a long time, with each other. We've been together pretty much 3/4 of a year, but we have thes...

I think I'm asexual and not sure what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I'm really confused about my sexuality. I'm beginning to think I'm asexual as I haven't ever felt attracted to anyone male or female. When I see someone randomly or I'm dating someone and think about having sex or doing anything sexual with them I ...

I wonder if he likes me or is he just being flirty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - 'm 16 and this guy is 18.i have only known him for a week. i met him through one of my other friends and met last monday and i had the mate wi me. we got on okay but he thougt i was very shy.we didnt text for bout 3 days and then he text me and we ...

Girlfriend said we need time apart -- should I wait for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - hi my girlfriend broke up with me and said we needed time apart that she thinks marriage is overrated and she is just not ready for relationship we were together for about a year,truth is i think she is confused should i move on or try to wait for ...

I regret breaking up with him! How do I get him to respond to my text messages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I ended things with my boyfriend of two months because I was jealous of the interest he seemed to be paying to my best friend. I sent him a text message telling him that I was annoyed that he seemed to enjoy her company more than mine and that I ...

I'm older than him. I'm worried what people will say. Should I take a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Hey can u guys help me? I'm kind of conflicted. you see, i like this boy and he likes me,the problem is he's like 3 years younger than me I'm 16 and he's like 13 but he looks way older than me. my problem is that what if it doesn't work out? what i...

What would you guys think of me if you were in his or any of his friends situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Be as honest as you like!! This guy who i saw on a night out, we're friends and both always had feelings for each other for so long. I just saw it as some fun and didn't see the harm in us flirting, being intimate by kissing, arms around each other, ...

What is "the spark?" How do you know when you have it?

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7 May 2011 (M) - I read on here yesterday with someone saying about a spark Well lol I'm just wondering what is a spark ?? I know sound very stupid be asking this but never really heard anyone say it until yesterday here. Do you know when you have this sp...

I thought he liked me but he just told my girlfriend that he likes her. Now what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Hi. There's this boy that I really like, and over the past week or so, I kept getting these hints and weird feelings that he might like me. That was until he told my friend that he liked her. Now I'm so fucking confused by everything. What am I ...

Do you think he is for real, or just like every other guy in a club?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Say I'm stereotyping or being stupid. But i met this guy in a club really briefly and gave him my number (I was drunk so i didn't care at the time). Thing is we have been texting each other a lot since then! And although i can't base him on text...

How I can explore my newfound sexuality without jeopardizing my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - So I am 18 years old. I have been in a serious relationship for almost two years now. I know for sure that my gf is the one. The thing is that as a new found out lesbian and her being my first everything, I haven't been able to really figure myself ...

BF's father won't let me stay over in my boyfriend's room. I think it is unfair.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I need a little advice. You see my boyfriends parents have confused me a little. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is going to be 20 at the end of the year, were moving out soon. We have been going out for almost 2 years and in all of that time i have nev...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour with his "friend" inappropriate? ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has a friend who a while ago he used to fancy. She rejected him because although she liked him she lives about two hours away and at the time neither of them had cars. While my boyfriend and i were seeing each other she called him up s...

He has a new phone. Should I ask for his number or would that seem desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - So there's this guy i really like. I think he likes me too. because in class we would always sit together he would even ditch his friends for me in class. and we would always flirt and talk in class and he would grab my hand ask me to give him a ...

Am I wasting my time seeing someone for so long who can't bring himself to tell his family about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - i've been in a relationship with my bf for 9 months. He's been living back home with his parents since a few months before we met in order for him to save money. We get on really well and laugh together alot but he hasn't mentioned me to his fami...

Duel finances in preparation for moving together, I want to pay exactly equal but as he has more expenses he thinks I'm being mean. Am I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are trying to come to an agreement on finances before moving in together. We earn similar salaries, and have similar expenses for cars, insurance and so on but he has to pay maintenance for a daughter and ex wife. I don’t have ...

Teenage friends, recently back in touch, how can I ignite a flame between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4945 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Can you rekindle a lost love??? We were teenage friends, nothing more just a chaste kiss now and then. Both of us moved away 35 years ago and have now got back in touch, we are both divorced. We seem to be total opposites, he sporty and ...

He won't commit but I want to build a life with him, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship (with a mini-break 2 years ago) for 6 years and I love him dearly. I get really frustrated that he wont move forward and commit (ie live together properly) and I voice this to him occasionally. He simply answers he's ...

I love both girls more than my own life but I cant choose which one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - Ive got a problem. im in love with 2 girls but cant choose between the two. the first girl is a friend of mine she has blond hair and blue eyes. shes so beautiful she radiates golden light like the sun and shes very nice. altho she isnt a virgin and ...

My long distance emotional affair has become cold and distant, I'm moving to his country soon and he'd be a useful friend, advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! Last August I began talking to a French guy online (just as friends) with whom I have a lot in common. Well, after a bit I started to have feelings for him and he hinted that he may feel the same way (neither of us said anything...

I find guys over 17 years are more attractive to me than guys my own age. Why? Is this usual?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

7 May 2011 (?) - I'm always attracted to older guys. I'm 14 but i find guys over 17 years and beyond very attractive is there something wrong with me in not being able to like a guy my age? ...

Boyfriend was diagnosed with depression and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Hey. So after a really, really bad "episode," my boyfriend was recently diagnosed with depression. He and his parents and his doctor decided the best way to handle it is through psychotherapy only without the use of antidepressants. Most of time h...

I gave her oral but she didn't reciprocate

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - I just recently just performed oral sex on my girlfriend yet she didn't return the favour. She always txts me that she does want to but she didn't. I didn't want to tell her about it since she'll just do it out of pity which I don't want. I'm just ...

Have I just not met the right person, or is it possible I'm not attracted to either sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I've never had a boyfriend or even been on a date with a guy. In fact I have never had a kiss or hug off a guy that wasn't meant as friendship. As I'm 17 I just thought I would wait until the right guy came along and that I wouldn't rush into ...