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Archived questions from: 8 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Girlfriend and I broke up but are kinda in between dating and single now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

8 May 2011 (M) - Hello, Today, i found out that my girlfriend got a job 6 hours away from where i live for the summer (2 months approx, 60 days). I've kinda known about this all along, but she always said she didn't know if she got a job yet, or if she was even ...

He doesn't want to appear "pussy whipped" to his online friends and makes comments at my expense!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - This is a bit of a weird question. I want to know if I am being insecure of if something is amiss with this issue. My boyfriend plays games a lot as a way to escape. He has a close circle of online friends whom he speaks to a lot as he plays wi...

He loved me when he was married and now he's divorcing he doesn't seem to love me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been dating a married man for more than one year. He was never happy in his marriage and during our dating year, I gave him advice about how to protect himsel financially, etc. He is now divorcing his wife and going through a mediator. ...

How does she feel about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (M) - Hi, This might be long, so if you read it all thanks. I'm new to the terrain of serious relationships so I'm sure I'm making lots of errors, but its fun anyways. I met this girl who I really like. I can be very judgmental sadly and quickly reject t...

Is my plan to propose to her...a bit too cheesy? What do you all think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

8 May 2011 (M) - Hi all. I just wanted some input on this plan I have. My girlfriend and I have been together for two years (I was 17, she was 14 when we met seven years ago) and she's graduating from her community college to be an RN the day that I come back from...

Why is it so difficult to figure him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I've liked this guy for while now. We're both in high school, about the same age. He's such a hilarious guy, his sense of humor is amazing, and intelligent. He's a bit of a dork, but I find it adorable, it's probably my favorite thing about him. ...

Have I blown my chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I met a guy online, however it has developed more into a friendship, as we contact each other less and we have never actually met, But he has expressed interest in me and asks lots of questions. I know for a fact that it is not a good time for hi...

Long distance relationship entirely trustful apart from one incident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (M) - Hello, I was going to write a massively long message detailing myrelationship but would prob be better just to summarise: I'm 23 and my girlfriend is the same age, at different unis about two hours away from each other on the east coast. I ...

What are the signs a guy ISN'T looking just to toot it and boot it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - So firstly, thanks in advance for trying to help! How do you know if a guy genuinely cares about you, or if he's just acting all sweet and innocent to get what he wants out of you? There's this guy whose known for being a flirt-- not exactly ...

Bf hasn't returned my messages in over 24 hours. Would it be stalking him to keep trying him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months, it is not that serious yet mainly due to the fact that he had just started a new job working nights and has had to do a lot of overtime so I only get to see him once a week- at weekends and we do not ...

My family won't approve of my bf, who is of a different race than me. Should I continue hiding it from them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - So iv been dating this guy for a while now , we are truly happy with each other but we not the same race !! To him and I race is definitely NOT a issue - His coloured and I'm white! My dad doesnt know that we seeing each other, the rest of my f...

Why is my boyfriend calling other girls perfect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I really don't know what to do :'( my boyfriend barely ever talks to me, in school he barely ever comes up to me, hes always with other girls. He comments on other girls facebook pictures saying 'every aspect of this photo is beautiful and pe...

Should I try being someone I'm not to get his attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I like him so much we have loads in common and get on i cant stop thinking bout him and its driving me mad But he basically doesnt like me he he says theres nothing wrong with me but does not have the spark he needs in a relationship ...

Guy's advice on buying a belt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I know this is not a typical relationship question but it is about a gift for my boyfriend of 2 year's birthday. I want to get him a superdry belt that he liked but didn't want to spend that much on a belt, but I have no idea what size to order. I'm ...

I love my best friend but he likes my sister...and its mutual! What can I do to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I have this friend, he's my best "guy friend", who means a lot to me. We have always gotten along perfectly. A year ago, I realized I liked him as more than a friend, and I thought, and still think about him every single day. Recently though, I ...

Need advice to cope with emotions during a 'break'...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - Me and my bf are on a break for a while (a month) and I am really struggling with it. It's only been a week, but we are still talking and texting and he tells me that he loves me still. Things have been tough for a while and although i thnik it's a ...

What does it mean if I move on quickly from guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - What does it mean if I move on from guys quickly? Like a guy i really really like, could hurt my feelings and make me feel worthless. But i wont get upset over it, i just think i'm not going to let them get to me. Or if it doesn't work out...

Why didn't someone tell me that the guy I was making out had a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I'll make this as short as possible. But pleaaaaase read, i want advice as i can't figure this out!!? About over a week ago on a night out, i saw this guy who i haven't seen in a while. We've both liked each other so it was just a bit of fun. Inst...

I just don't feel comfortable in THAT bed anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - Hey, I need some help to be able to get back into my boyfriend's bed after finding him in bed with two girls a couple of weeks ago...now, every time I go into his bedroom, I get a sinking feeling and can't get into his bed. So, some background:...

How do I divide time between my best friend her brother whom I'm dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - So I asked out my best friend's younger brother yesterday, he said yes, and we were both overjoyed. She said we were cute together, but I'm not sure how to divide time between the two when I'm over at her place. She always said she felt like he was ...

Is he just naturally affectionate and his action don't mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I'm really confused right now. I told this guy that I liked him and he said he liked me too (supposedly) but he's really busy and doesn't think he has the time for a relationship. So we've been friends and we hang out as normal. But I just can't ...

He never makes a move! Should I chase him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - do i need to chase him? this guy im dating never made a move for approximately 4 dates in which i invited him. i did keep wondering that whenever i ask him out, if he doesnt like me, he wouldve said no but he never said no to my invites, neither ...

She smiles at me, and turns away when I look at her. Are these signs that she likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

8 May 2011 (M) - I like this girl in my class and I think she likes me too because I notice her glancing at me a few times and when she notices that I'm looking at her, she quickly looks somewhere else. And when I'm presenting my work in my class, I notice her ...

I'm still in contact with ex-bf, but gets me so angry with his flakiness and provocations. How should I handle this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I've been having trouble with my ex. I broke up with him because he stopped spending time with me. Maybe its the fact he was going to school full time, depressed, unhappy with his life..whatever it is, I broke up thinking itd make me feel better ...

After a string a bad relationships, I'm losing my faith that I'll ever find Mr. Right.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - This is not really a question, exactly... just that I've been having really bad luck with men for the last year. A few one night stands, loads of dates, but somehow from the guy who already had a girlfriend to the commitment phobe and the one who ...

The guy I have finally fallen in love with...has a girlfriend! How do I deal with this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - This situation is tearing me up inside, and I am probably going to be judged for my words but I don't have anyone here I can talk to about it! What do you do when you have been in unrequited love a series of times, finally find someone, fall fo...

After my break-up: Should I listen to my head that says "move on", or to my heart that says "wait for him"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - So, there's this guy. He was amazing in every sense of the word. He listened to me when I needed him, he'd hold me tight when I was sad, he talked to me every day and told me he loved me.... And then we broke up. I was upset over officer Tirado d...

What does he want and what should I do? I'm confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I have a few questions. It's this guy, he's a few years older, we know each other from football practise and he has never ever shown any sign of intrest utill like a month ago. He asked if i wanted to go eat pizza after practise since both of us...

How do I find the right man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I seem to be getting involved with the wrong men I have a boyfriend now but he will move out next month he cooks cleans and we take turns doing the laundry and dishes I have a 18 year old handicapped daughter he is demanding and to me overkill...