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Archived questions from: 30 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do you successfully pursue a Capricorn man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - A mutual attraction developed between me and a Carpricorn man that I used to work with. Nothing happened but he was the one who initiated all the indirect flirting and the staring and the prying personal information out of me. I left the company...

Should I be happy that she thought my messages were nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - ive liked this girl for a few weeks now and we live about 30 mins away so we speak mostly over facebook. since we have been talking we have been flirting and that and all of the signs have pointed to her liking me and people have told me that it ...

How can he think the world of me and then treat me so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I'm so confused.I was seeing this guy recently who is a nice guy in some ways, but he gets in moods sometimes. He walked out of a bar once and left me in there on my own because he was in a mood because i had arranged to go and see a show, and he ...

He told me he's missing my company. What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey, what does it mean if a guy says "I'm missing your company"? My bf of 7 months has been away on a stag weekend (his friend is the stag) for 2 days now, and he sent me a text to say goodnight and that he is missing my company...what does that ...

I want to send this guy pictures of me, but I'm slightly overweight. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Okay I put up a profile for fun and have been talking to this guy. He lives pretty far in another state. We didn't meet on a dating site but just had a connection (pun Not intended) So the time has kind of come for us to exchange pictures. The ...

Why can't I find a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I'm a 27 year-old guy, and I'm single. My problem is that I feel really like no girls ever really feel attracted to me, and because of this I'm normally on my own and feel I'll likely see my days out alone. I don't think I'm that awful to look at...

Body language signs of the guy I'm interested in...am I over-reading into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I had dinner with 3 of my guy friends (more like acquaintance though), one of whom im interested in. i accidently gazed at him a little longer and when he realized, his eyes darted and he gave a slight frown, followed by some serious fidgeting of ...

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...

When or if do I give up and walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Dear All, Here's my problem - hoping for some views: I'm gay, 30, and I met a guy (also 30) online about 18 months ago, he's from the USA and I'm English. We were just friends though we got on great and sometimes talked on im for hours...

What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Question to the women out there on dear cupid... What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone? I only ask this for a little advice as I struggle quit...

I'm upset about not celebrating my birthday with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi, i have my birthday coming up very soon, i dont particularly like doing things for my birthday, but i do not mind doing something which may pleasantly surprise me. But anyway, my partner didnt cancel work in retaliation of me booking work, but ...

Only the creepy ones seem attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I had my first boyfriend when I was 16. I am 17 now. He turned out to be a creep 'cause he was wayyyy more interested in my body than me as an actual person. I am no longer looking for a relationship, and rarely give anybody any hints that I wan...

Girl I am seeing is very moody and never makes an attempt to control her moods!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - The girl I am seeing and I got into big fight the other day. She is very moody and when she is in a bad mood she makes no attempt to cover it up. So if she is sad or excited or angry or impatient...she lets it all out! Needless to say it makes ...

I don't feel it's her place to invite others to my home

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with my gf for about 5 mos. We argue occassionly. Never long lasting arguments though. The relationship is pretty healthy. The only thing is she has her own apartment that she shares with her cousin. Since we've been ...

What is going on with my boyfriend? He is confusing me so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - He hasn't called me in 48 hours almost and I don't know what is going on. Last time I actually spoke with him, he got off the phone after 10 minutes saying his mom wanted to speak to him, and he hasn't called back since even though he said he would. ...

I thought he liked me at first, but now I am not so sure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago I went to university a few times to sign in and to look around, and every time I was there, I met this guy randomly he started talking to me asking me lots of questions. He seemed really interested. He told me he is from Paris. I ...

He think's I'm older than I really am! Do I tell him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey, okay this has proved to be tricky for me. I met this lad and it all started off as innocent fun, you know, talking, texting etc. Well I have been telling him the truth, except for one wee white lie... I live in Ireland and he lives in England,...

I like him, and I think he might like me too, but I'm not sure! help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (?) - I recently met this boy (past few weeks) and I am beginning to really like him. He's very shy and quiet or at least he seems to be, occasionally I see another side to him. Anyway we started talking fairly regularly (in person and facebook). ...

He said goodbye to me, but then told me I hadn't seen the last of him...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - So, I've had a crush on my best friend for about 5 years. When I first started liking him he went out with my best friend at the time and she told him that I liked him. But I never knew he knew. Anyway he forgot all about it and recently we've been...

Why isn't there any English dating sites?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - There seems to be every dating site for everyone else: muslim, latinos, asians, but none for English. Why is this? My family originates from England and my father was born there. My dads side is still very English in their ways. I like dating E...

23 Years Old and Emotionally Retarded Needs Advice/Help/A Saving Grace...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - A case of being emotionally retarded... Hope the women in here can help... I am 23 years old, and have casually browsed through dearcupid for a while now only to realize I am not the only 23 y/o who has never had any close physical contact w...

My GF broke up with me saying that once she finds someone that has potential for the long run, she no longer wants to be in a relationship anymore!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - One week ago my girlfriend broke up with me at the beginning of summer. We've been together for some time now and it felt like the breakup came out of nowhere since we had fun with each other earlier that day (interestingly enough, this is the exact ...

I just want to know if theres a possibility this guy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I just want to know if theres a possibility this guy likes me?? So Ive worked with this guy now for the past 4 years. When I first started working with him I fancied him, he is a very attractive guy and I liked him but after a while and findin...

After a week of daily contact, he suddenly has stopped texting or calling and hasn't returned any of my messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago, and we hung out for a while, and really hit it off, then, school and work got in the way and we didnt really see each other or talk very often for almost a year. Then out of no where he called me, and we started ...