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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is this my soldier bf's way of saying "I love you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I have a guy friend who ive been seeing for a while. he is in afghanistan now. before he left we didnt see one another to say goodbye. I was very hurt and upset. Well recently before he left for afg he was training in another state. he has ...

I can't win.... I already go out of my way to spend more time with her but it never seems enough, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - I've been with my fiancée for over a year now and lately we've been arguing more. We're both full time students and still live with our parents and I try to spend as many nights as I can at her place. Lately every time I go back to my place to take ...

Is my intuition correct?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - ok so ive been dating this woman for a month in a half and all of the sudden she tells me this guy she used to have sex with {just a FWB relationship} keeps texting her and asking to have a threesome..so was she really wanting to do this and we ...

I have to beg for sex. Am I being selfish for feeling hurt and sexually frustrated by his waning sexual desire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. He has been very stressed out with work and our finances. We are business partners so we are constantly together. We have an amazing relationship but unfortunately, our sex life has gone do...

I've given him 30 days to decide if it's her or me. Am I being fair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I started seeing a new guy about 4 months ago. In the beginning he made it clear to me that he wanted to take it slow and not rush into anything. So of course we were both still seeing other people, and I appreciated the time. As things have pro...

For anyone who has cheated after agreeing to get married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (?) - Have any of you had affairs after you became committed to a person, but before getting married? If so, what were the reasons? Was it ever revealed or did you keep it a secret forever? How do you feel about it now that you are married? Does it ...

I need some relationship advice. I don't like the way she behaves after an argument.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - why does my girlfriend always have knee jerk reactions and go overboard, over trivial matters? I am a not happy that every time we argue she adds men to her social network site, she has deleted them before but now says there is nothing wrong in...

I just hate him, but I love him. His behavior is driving me away. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - So... I've been with my boyfriend for about two years. We have a lot of unresolved issues but we really do love each other at the core of our relationship. ANYWHO! My dilemma is this. He aggravates me like no other! He is like my annoying so...

With all of his problems, what can I do aside from leaving him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and I'm completely confused as to what to do. I have no doubt that we completely loves me and wants to have a future with me, but he is unemployed and has been since I started going out with ...

The first time we tried a relationship, he said it was too fast. Now, the "fast" behavior is happening again -what does he want from me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - First Story: (Sorry its long but it is the whole story) This guy I briefly went out with (a week and a half) broke up with me because he said we moved to fast and he needed time to find himself (Hes 26 im 19). To me he wasnt over his ex wife. He ...

He won't text me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Basically this guy and I have been great friends for a while. Then, he did everything he could to make me think he liked me - flirting, texting, etc. But recently, he won't text me back, and when I ask him why, he just gives me a stupid answer, like ...

Still can't come to the conclusion of why he text his ex, who interfered in our relationship so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nine months now and everything was great at first. I'm 17 and he's 18. Just before he went out with me, he was with a girl for 6 months and apparently they were 'first loves'. This girl came back into the picture...

How do I reset my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - A while back I realized I had fallen in love with my best friend, and he was constantly on my mind. In November last year he started dating this girl at my school but I could see that she wasn't really for him. He changed, and became two different ...

How do reset my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - A while back I realized I had fallen in love with my best friend, and he was constantly on my mind. In november last year he started dating this girl at my school, but I could see that she wasn't really for him. He changed, and became two different ...

What are the signs a girl is playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - What are the possible signs if the girl are just playing hard to get? ...

Having an issue with my boyfriend's close friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4894 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I dated a guy, for about 3 weeks, who later broke my heart and made me very miserable for a year or so by coming around, not giving me time to get closure, moving behind my back by asking my best friend at work out (she told me later and she was not ...

Girlfriend gets upset if I don't call when I say I will

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 8 months gets upset if I don’t call when I say I will. Sometimes I say I’m going to call, then something will come up or work will get busy. Then I call later. What’s the big deal?...

I like him, he flirts back, but he has a girlfriend!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I posted this question earlier and didn't get any replies so in reposting it. I'm falling for a mate of mine pretty hard. We both flirt with each other a fair bit and joke around .. Thing is I've just found out from another that he's got a ...

I'm afraid I've put him off by holding off for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I'm seriously so confused, and dont know what to do. Have dated this guy for about a month. We have been out on about 6-7 dates. He told me on the 3 date that he liked me very very much, and I said the same to him. We have great chemistry and it is ...

What do would classify as 'sweet talk'? Do all women like it? Or what is the alternative if women do not like it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - hi girls! I want to understand how to talk to girls in a way that the girls really appreciated. What do I say, how do I say it? Some men seem to be able to charm girls whatever they do. But I am not sure how they do it. What do would classify...

What would represent a creative, memorable, thoughtful, romantic proposal of marriage that I could arrange?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - what are some creative, thoughtful ways to propose to your girlfriend? i know it sounds terrible that i'm having to ask, but i've just never been very good at this sort of thing. i try so hard and love her very much. i just want to make this ...

Do I tell my parents about my non-christian boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I am a Christian, and have been my whole life. I am very open to hearing about and understanding peoples points of view, and am not offended by people who think differently than I do. I am currently dating a non-christian boy. We broke up before,...

Will she put up with this and be patient? I failed the exam and now I am so worried I will lose my Gf over it/

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm 24 and my gf is 23.. The thing is recently i failed in my recent examination to get into my final year at my university.. It was really depressing and demoralizing as i have truly burnt the midnight oil for it..however slow...

He broke my heart today. I feel alone and sad. How ever will I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - My ex broke my heart about an hour ago. I ended up deleting him from everything, erasing all memories of him, basically pretending he never existed. but I'm so sad i feel so sad that he won't be there anymore. I can't just call or text him to say ...

Am I the one for her? how can I get her to trust me again? Is she doing this because she still loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - i was with a girl for a year in a half in a pretty serious relationship. We lived together and it was really good for a while, but i ended up hurting her really bad because i cheated on her and then after that she had pretty much forgiven me but i ...

He was really attentive, then acted like I was bothering him. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Ill make this brief: Went out on a lunch date with this guy who Im interested in dating. He paid. Said he wanted to see me again after he got back from army training which is only for 2 weeks. After we ate we held hands, kissed..thats about it. When ...

I wronged her two years ago, now we're together and I feel empty. Is something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - I figured once I left my ex (the girl I dated for 9 months) whom I had no love too, my world would get better. And for a short period it did. I got great friends, I started new hobbies and I got the chance to fall in love again. As if the universe ...

From friend to boyfriend to friend again...its super awkward!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend, who was my best friend before we started dating, broke up with me because he said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship. We only dated for a month and now he wants to return to being friends which is what I want too. However I still ...

Getting over work crush...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I've worked with this guy for a while. We're so comfortable with each other, touch or even talking wise. We play fight most of the time, talk about random stuff, insult each other playfully. Well, I stupidly fell for the guy. I guess the way he ...

My girlfriend wants me to chat with her friends, but I'm not comfortable doing that. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4950 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Ok me and my girlfriend been dating for 3 months now and lately things have been feeling off... At school she wants me to sit with her and her friends but I don't say nothing when I'm around them and she doesn't like that..matter fact she hates it! ...

Why is he even with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Ok so i ve been dealing with this one guy for about a year on and off,im 16 him 18. the whole time we have been attracted to each other. i mean off because we stopped talking for about 2 months, and when we restarted we were both happy about it. We ...

Why is she so distant with me lately?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Ok so iv been with my gf for almost a year now, she and I have grown up much faster then we have both had to, due to family problems when we were younger so we have a very mature and open relationship. However she has seemed to be a little distant ...