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Archived questions from: 23 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Was he offended by my height?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I am an outgoing 27 year old female. I am 5 foot 4 1/2 and slender. I recently had a date with a guy and went to the river. I wore flip flops because of the rocks, he (6 foot 3) thought that I was taller (I wear heels a lot) Was he offended by my ...

If a girl gives out her contact info to a guy without any intention of dating him, is it leading him on???

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - ok this friend of mine (a girl) got into an argument recently and i would love to hear your opinion on this. she is very pretty and she gets hit upon a lot. she is very friendly too so she engages guys in conversations. then they inevitably ask f...

I'm confused about where we stand

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - i posted this question a week ago and havent got any replies, so i am trying again dear helpful people :) this is a long story, im confused where i stand. i met this guy at a club, and we got on really well. we agreed to go to the next one a ...

I want to show her that I clean up well

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - hey guys i'm going to a party on saturday and the girl who i like and she apparentley likes me too is going. the thing is i don't know what to wear i know it sounds girlyish but i want to look good and show that ican clean up well. i don'...

B/f blowing hot and cold with me and its not the first time he's done this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I'm so confused.. please help! I've been seeing this guy for four months now. I met him online. we are both 36. I have a little girl who is 4 and I'm divorced. I have some trust issues from my past relationship but other wise I'm in a good place (i...

I always ruin things with a guy cause I feel he is too good for me. How do I change this way of thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I'm not unattractive so I don't know why but when i meet a gorgeous looking guy who shows interest in me, i tend to think after 'how on earth did i manage that, why is he interested in me?' and i see other girls who are beautiful that I'm jealous of ...

I just can’t be just a friend because I will always want her. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I have a huge shot in the heart right now and its been two weeks and still feel the same pain from the moment it happened. The final result before you all read the story is that she emailed me and said she wants to be friends, that she ...

Have I completely misread the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I've been friends with a guy for a couple of years, he's been flirting, making all the right signals and chatting each day online. we see each other quite often, and recently met up on our own. all seemed fine, but then he started talking about ...

Any suggestions on getting wet naturally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone1. Please i need help. Am so worried about getting dry whenever i am having sex with my boyfriend. On many occasions we have to stop d sex and use gel or saliva just to get wet before we continue. Please is there anything i can do to get ...

I have a couple of questions about pursing a relationship with my professor.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I am interested in a professor of mine that is almost 20 years older than me. However I am in my mid 30's and not your typical college student. Over the semester, I found myself developing feelings for him and, after a few interactions about a ...

Do I like him or am I suffering from "no reply?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4925 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I like this guy so my cousin texted him for me. I was mad because he doesn't even know me. He is friends with my sister boyfriend and my cousin's boyfriend as well. She texted him right and asked where was he so he could go to Albany for a ...

I don't understand relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - I really need some help. Im 22 and ive never had a gf. i've never understood how the relationships work. it seems quit complicated for me. and i don't like do things without figure it out what i'm doing.u know makes me feel like a...

Don't know what to get b/f for our 1 year anniversary

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - My one year anniversary with my boyfriend is a month away and I have been running out of ideas of what to give him. He is the type of guy who doesn't care much for clothes or material stuff that much so I think giving a nice shirt is not the most ...

My bf thought I was asleep and started masturbating to porn. How should I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed cuddled up to my boyfriend about 1am this morning...

Whats wrong with me? Every guy I've dated they have broken up with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Every guy I have gone out with has broken up with me and i dont know why! I try not to be so clingy, I try not to hug all of my guy friends all the time. I dont know what I do wrong. It seems as if I'll always be lonely :(...

Should my boyfriend want to go off with his friends on a bank holiday?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so this weekend is a bank holiday, my guy is off work Saturday and Sunday (he works a lot of weekends) and basically he has been invited to go camping with his two best mates. I’m pi***d off. I don’t have a problem with either of these gu...

My bestfriend confessed his feelings to my (sort of) girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - This may be a bit of a long read and for that I'm sorry. Basically, for the past 5 years I have been in love with my best friend, and after a lot of drama in the past 6 months we've finally decided to give it a go. We aren't public, because we ...

She thinks I'm boring but its just that I don't know what to say!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - there is this girl that i love so much that there almost nothing i cant do for her. I have liked her for almost 2 years now and i have not bin able to tell her bcos i am not sure if she likes me or not. Sometimes, she does like she likes me and ...

A fun gift basket for my boyfriend's birthday

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Hi. My boyfriends birthday is coming up. So far I've planned going to six flags during the day(he really likes this place) and getting a hotel at night. The hotel is going to have a hot tub. I want to put together a "fun" gift basket for him. I'v...

I feel like a crazy person. It's as if I won't allow anyone to love me, but I WANT somebody to love me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Why am I so picky when it comes to men? I'll like a guy and the minute he starts to get interested in me it's like I completely go off him, infact I can't stand him to be around me or touch me. And even liking a guy is a rare occurance, I never ...

I'm completely against my BF getting a bullet bike, but he says he would choose the bike over me without a second thought!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. He is amazing in almost every way. We are so alike and we have so much fun together, and we have a passionate love life. I love him more than anything but recently I have begun to have doubts ...

I really cant figure out if he likes me or not!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - so there is this guy I've been crushing on for the past year. we went to a concert last nov. where we got into a water fight and kept pouring water over each others heads and he kept looking back at me throughout the concert and smiling. I asked hi...

I think I've done everything wrong that women aren't supposed to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long, only four months but i feel we have a very good strong relationship. My boyfriend tells me how much he loves me and has even spoken about marrige or spending his life with me, im his first love ...

I love this girl but I'm not sure if she even likes me or if there's someone else in her life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - So there's this girl that i really like. So here's the story. I moved to a new state during my senior year, and i met this girl on my first day at the new school. She seems really cool and all. At that time, she had a boyfriend. After gettin...