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Archived questions from: 22 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why do guys get handsy in a bar when a girl is JUST talking to them!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I don't understand why when i'm at a bar and a guy approaches me he seems nice, funny and pretty respectful at first. But then he'll start getting handsy whilst we're talking, such as putting his hand on my waist or bum and it's like they do it ...

I'm in frustrated love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I'm "still" in love with my friend who is kind of still my boyfriend except we don't have sex now. I think he thinks we might not be quite right for each other in the long run, and so doesn't want to. But we spend endless hours together and he ...

About to be married and I'm terrified... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I need help here please. i am an 18 year old who is about to get married, ive had lots of friends with benefits in the past and 2 serious boyfriends. I love my 22 year old boyfriend so much i feel and im sure he is the one for me. We love each ...

How do I get him back without sucking up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - okay so this requires an insight into the male species! to cut a long story short, ive met this guy, at first we got on really reallly well, could talk for hours without any akwward moments ect... he would occasionally ignore me for a day though? ...

Does she like me...should I make a move at the part?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - ok so back in february i went to a friends party whos a girl. at her party i met one of her best friends who is single. i thought she was she cute but didn't look into it much. i had to leave earlier than most people and when i left she hugged me ...

I don't know what's happened to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I need serious help. feel free to stop reading here as its gonna be a long one but if you carry on it would be very appreciated :) so, rewind my life back about a year and i was popular, was doing well at my gcse's and (not meaning to boast) but i ...

How do I make him feel very bad??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - So Recently i Found Out My Ex Only Came Back To Me Beacause he Only wanted Sex. If Your Ex Is Just Using You For Sex How Would You Make Him Regret Using You? I Mean I Don't Just Want To Dump Him I Want To Make Him Feel Like Crap. So If Anyone Has ...

Should I still try to be friends with her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - my ex is 23 and im 20 we lived together for 6 months and dated for a year before we broke up. i broke up with her first because we just kept fighting about stupid things and i dunno i was just mad. then she broke up with me a week later saying she ...

Should I try to explain all this or what??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I dated this guy for a month. He was the first to tell me he really liked me. We kissed and cuddeled, but never had sex. (He wanted us to wait also). He talked about future plans, and acted like he was interested in a relationship with me. We had a ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about kissing this other guy or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I had a massive argument with my boyfriend. Like a HUGE glass-throwing, wall-punching, screaming argument with him, and now that we have made up and are together again, I'm wondering whether I should be truthful with him, or just hide this secret so ...

I feel I had an unnecessary abortion, how do I stop crying over this??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Im an emotional wreck after having a termination 3 months ago. My boyfriend and i planned the pregnancy and he promised me he would step upto the mark, move into my place and that we would get married as soon as i got pregnant. I had no reason to...

He lied about his age...Turns out he is 18!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hmmm so the guy I am dating is away for a month,visiting his family....and today I found out he lied to me about his age. he's a professional soccer player so I looked up his name and found his age. How we met : We were on the same bus on our...

What is a good way to celebrate our first anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hi all :) Next week my boyfriend and i will have been together a year and i'm looking for a great/interesting way to celebrate it. We are both 18 and still live with our parents and he has work 5 - 7.30 on that day Any ideas would be appri...

My boyfriend wants my approval to be friends with another woman??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I would just like some perspective. I am aware I sometimes make mountains out of mole hills but I think on this problem, Im justified in being upset. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years. Back in October he decided to look up and b...

I love my first cousin. is this wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - what am i going to do, im madly in love with my first cousin..we first felt this special connection when he went home on the Philippines when we were just 14, one night when we were both sleeping on the same bed, he just kissed me and i got so ...

Is 8 months too soon to know you want to settle down with someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love your advice on my situation and on whether 8 months is too soon to feel like you want to settle down with someone, please. I've been with my bf 8 months now. We met through friends, both of us happily single and not looking for rela...

I've seen him once in three weeks, is he my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - hi there ive been seeing a guy for 3 weeks but only ive seen him once a week cause he owns his bussniss so hes busy and hes a singel dad like me am single mum. But dose it mean that hes my boyfriend?...

Is it normal to have this high a sex drive or does it mean that I'm a sex addict ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Recently my sex drive has been considerably higher than my bf's. We have sex quite often at least three week sometimes everyday but while my bf finds this plenty I still don't find it enough. He will often have sex more often than he would like to ...

How can I gently let him down and make him stop, when he hasn't even said he's interested, but it is VERY obvious that he is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - this is kind of a variation on the how to let him down easy question. he's a guy i work with (which makes it even more awkward), but the problem i have is that it's really obvious that he likes me (texts regularly, buys me coffee, always suggestin...

LDR--is he always out of phone credits because he's talking to someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys! please I really need some help!! Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. I recently had to leave the country and now i am currently in America, while he's in Africa. First of all prom is coming up...and i get that he ...

What do girls think about an 18 year old virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - theres a girlm i have started to like and she sounds like she likes me too as we flirt all the time and she immediately replies to my messages that i send her. theres this friend who we both know she went to school with this girl i like and im at...

I want to sleep with my co-worker but I know he would only be in it for sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I don’t know what to do. I don’t have any friends to talk to about this, so I’m coming here to get help before I make a fool of myself. There’s this guy (I know, so typical) anyway, I’ve been working with his for the past 2 ½ years. I’ve liked him ...

I shouldn't still care for this guy, but I do and it feels like my heart is just breaking...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Here it goes, me and this guy have been friends for a long time. An have been off and on again FWB's over the past three years. We have talked about being in a relationship, but never ended up in one cause he says he is in love with another women. ...

We run out of things to talk about!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - ok so my boyfriend is in New Mexico at the moment and i hate being away from him and we talk every night but he always wants me to come up with the topics. I HAVE RAN OUT OF THINGS. but he gets mad at me when i dont have anything and we just ended ...

Should I try again? The last time I asked her out she said she wasn't dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - So I was in another city visiting some friends so we could go to a comic convention. I went to visit an old friend at work (we still keep in contact) and give her a gift I found her. She seemed so happy to see me. She kept hugging me and laughing ...

5 months of dating and he won't introduce me to his family!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months but he doesnt want to introduce to me his family.i have already introduce him to some of my family members.and i found out that he has a child from previous relationship bt he denies that.and the mother ...

Do men like being pursued?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I don't mean excessively, like being stalked or texted every two seconds, but the man I am interested in is notorious for not keeping in touch with anyone of his own accord. We go to the same college, and sometimes (maybe once or twice a week) I ...

I really care for my friend but think our personalities would crash if we tried dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4939 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I have a really great friend that's stuck with me for years, and this recent he's clearly displayed signs of wanting to be more than just friends. I've never thought of him that way but I wouldn't mind giving him a chance. The problem is that I ...

He wanted to kiss me but I was too scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Girls (or guys) I need help. I just went to my second date with a guy and everything was so fun, before he left, the only thing I've been able to say is "..eh...hug??". Like last time. MY GOD. And i'm seeing him again in a few days. On our fir...

I feel guilty that I told this guy I liked him. I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - hello, i'm 20 and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 an a half years. A few weeks ago i went clubbing with 3 friends, one of which is my friend that i used to fancy when i was about 12 an i liked him for 4 years which he always new about. ...

Would most girls be ok with their boyfriend going to strip clubs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - hey, i'm 20 and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 an a half years. he is going to bournmouth uni in september and i'm worried about him going to strip clubs. he has never been to one before. Would most girlfriends be ok with their boyfriends going...

I don't feel I can trust my girlfriend anymore!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - i'm a little bit lost with what i want to do with my girlfriend. i've been with my girlfriend with literally over a year and we're both in college doing our exams, and we're going through a rough spot. from the beginning of our relationship, i'...