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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is it ok for my ex-bf, who is married now, to help me find a job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend, who is a married man now, is helping me to find a job abroad. He lives in another country. Sometimes he has written to me that he feels sorry for me not living there. He said I hope you and your family are doing well in these ...

Quick question on shy guy behavior.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - what does it mean when a shy guy asks a girl what her and another dude were talking about while he was gone. I had this shy guy I've been crushing on for forever ask me this. me and a guy friend were talking and he had his arm around me and I had my ...

I'm so nervous about meeting this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Can someone please try to help me keep calm lol ?. I met a guy in a bar last week . We arranged to meet up again tomorrow, but we haven't spoken since Friday, as i told him i would just text him tomorrow to see if he is still going out, as i know ...

Where do you draw the line between getting to know someone and playing with their emotions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Ok so my friend is tring to fix me up with her boyfrien's friend, I have agreed to meet with him so I did a week ago. Hes verry nice and has a good sense of humor wich i like but however I don't know much about him and I also don't find him ...

Too late to make my move on her or do I still have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - hi, I need some advice there is this girl that I really like so much, no, I'm like falling in love with her, and long ago I have come out and told her how I feel for her which I'm beginning to see that it was a bad idea, the thing is I feel that I ...

I don't have the money for a counselor. How can I get my self esteem back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I got cheated on in the past and it has left me massively insecure. I don't have the money to pay for counselling. Any ideas how I can go about getting my esteem back? I have lots of friends and do lots of exercise - I don't hate my looks or figure ...

What is the proper place of sexual attraction in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Aunts, you know, here is my issues: over and over I have fallen for a girl because she gets me excited. She is hot, sexy and attractive. So I enter a relationship with her only to find we are not oompatible at all! She and I clash with our values ...

I can't figure out if he cheated on me or if he got this girl pregnant before we got together, and now the baby's mom wants to fight me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating going on a year in two months. I was going threw his phone to prove him wrong about a text that I sent him, this was back in October. We were just playing around like always and I found a text stating "I love ...

My girlfriend stayed out for the night and told me she had to share a bed with another man! This is unacceptable to me. What does everyone else think?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - My partner went on a night out with her work mates and missed the late train back. See was with two females and 1 male - so they got a family room at a hotel. When she got back the next morning she told me she had to share a bed with the male...

Are there any subtle ways that I could get a guy to talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - hello :) so there is a guy in the year above at school and i see him around every now and then. I like him aswell. I see him in the hallways and stuff and he smiles at me and i smile back etc. But i have never spoke to him and i am WAY to nervous to ...

I want to marry one of my friends, but her response to that isn't good...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hi friends plz plz plz help me, i am in big big trouble, i've a friend and now i want her as my girl friend because i want to marry with her, she is not giving me positive reply, i want her to tell her parents about me so that i may proceed but she ...

What's the best way to get over the guilt of my breakup and start dating again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I live with my x-husband and we have a great friendship and we love each other, but we r no longer in love with each other. He tells me to go out and meet someboy, but I feel guilty. Do I get over this feeling and start dating again. Also what are ...

How do you respond when a guy compliments you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - There is a guy i've known for about 2 years now, i'd say we were quite good friends, but in the last year he keeps talking to me online and telling me that im beautiful and gorgeous, which is really nice and I do like compliments, he will also write ...

There's this girl...should I cut her out of my life for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - I need a little advice. I want to apologise in advance for this being so long, but I'm really stuck here. So about 4-5 years ago I met a girl online. We quickly became friends and talked very regularly. After a few months I found myself having mo...

We haven't spoken in months, but he has kept me very much a part of his life. What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My ex and I were together for 3 years and 8 months. Most of the time our relationship seemed nearly perfect except for the fact that we lived an hour away from each other. We both have children. My daughter lives with me and he likes to spend alot ...

How do you know if a guy is interested or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hi, there is this guy I am madly crazy about and today I kind of tried to make a move? Well, more like my friend tried to do it for me because I was too shy to ask. Any who, recently I've been getting mixed signals from this guy. I would receive ...

How can I make friends with girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hi I am 17 and I am shy. I don't have confident because i cant speak English fluently. How can i make friends with girls? I really want to start a relationship but i just don't have any female friends. My class has no girls, I am in male canoeing...

I don't want to like this guy because I am still trying to move on from my last crush! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - For the last couple of months I had the biggest crushed on (bob) he was the best guy and my ideal guy. He has a gf and I don't wanna mest that up. So two days I went camping and I was talking to a guy I thought was cute since last year but didn't ...

Could my crush be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for about four years now, I have been very close to him, reasons being I felt we are very similar in many ways, he reminded me of myself a male version of me, he knew I liked him, but he said he just wanted to be ...

I cant get a boyfriend no matter what!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I'm pretty, smart, a talented artist, funny, and down to earth (according to me,) but I can't get a boyfriend for the life of me! I have dated lots, but either I'm not interested, or we go out a few times and then the dude disappears. In m...

Girlfriend Kissing Problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - hello, i have been going out with this girl for a week short of a month and i really like her. The problem is that she hasnt had alot of serious realtionships before and is SUPER shy when it comes to kissing. we havent even made out yet. i am 16 and ...

Photos show my b/f dancing with a girl but he says he was drunk and doesn't remember!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I been dating my boyfriend for 2.5 years. He is 22 and im 18. he barley goes out with his friends out to the bars. so this past weekend i went to a club with my friends (oh btw we live 3 hrs away. so we see each other every other weekend.) anyways ...

Girlfriend is emotionally blackmailing me unless I agree with her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - I’ve been with my gf for almost 11 months, and we just had a conversation that severely divides and strains us. She’s 25. I’m 26. We’re both Asians. My mom had wanted me to clean her dryer front trapped lint for some time at her home. While cleaning ...

Should I have looked at boyfriend's facebook because he forgot to log out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Maybe this is a stupid question but is it wrong of me to take a peek at my boyfriends facebook when he left it logged in by mistake? I guess it was more out of curiosity but I did leave him a silly message telling him to make sure he logs out next ...

If I study divorce law will it ruin future relationships for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (?) - so i want to study law in University , but i also want to study in the divorce area but do you think that this will mess up any relationship i have in the future? ...

Is it normal if you don't kiss on every date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hello, I was wondering if someone could help me out with a couple of questions since I don't date much. 1) Is it normal if the girl I'm seeing doesn't want to kiss or be kissed in every single date? (Assuming the date was a GOOD one.) I mean whe...

I don't want shyness to ruin our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Well am going out with my first boyfreind at the age off twety three and I'm really shy x so his he two becasue am his first proper gf to I really like him but am nervous about kissing hugging and getting close to him how you get over the shyness ...

How do you successfully pursue a Capricorn man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - A mutual attraction developed between me and a Carpricorn man that I used to work with. Nothing happened but he was the one who initiated all the indirect flirting and the staring and the prying personal information out of me. I left the company...

Should I be happy that she thought my messages were nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - ive liked this girl for a few weeks now and we live about 30 mins away so we speak mostly over facebook. since we have been talking we have been flirting and that and all of the signs have pointed to her liking me and people have told me that it ...

How can he think the world of me and then treat me so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I'm so confused.I was seeing this guy recently who is a nice guy in some ways, but he gets in moods sometimes. He walked out of a bar once and left me in there on my own because he was in a mood because i had arranged to go and see a show, and he ...

He told me he's missing my company. What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey, what does it mean if a guy says "I'm missing your company"? My bf of 7 months has been away on a stag weekend (his friend is the stag) for 2 days now, and he sent me a text to say goodnight and that he is missing my company...what does that ...

I want to send this guy pictures of me, but I'm slightly overweight. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Okay I put up a profile for fun and have been talking to this guy. He lives pretty far in another state. We didn't meet on a dating site but just had a connection (pun Not intended) So the time has kind of come for us to exchange pictures. The ...

Why can't I find a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I'm a 27 year-old guy, and I'm single. My problem is that I feel really like no girls ever really feel attracted to me, and because of this I'm normally on my own and feel I'll likely see my days out alone. I don't think I'm that awful to look at...

Body language signs of the guy I'm interested in...am I over-reading into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I had dinner with 3 of my guy friends (more like acquaintance though), one of whom im interested in. i accidently gazed at him a little longer and when he realized, his eyes darted and he gave a slight frown, followed by some serious fidgeting of ...

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...

When or if do I give up and walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Dear All, Here's my problem - hoping for some views: I'm gay, 30, and I met a guy (also 30) online about 18 months ago, he's from the USA and I'm English. We were just friends though we got on great and sometimes talked on im for hours...

What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Question to the women out there on dear cupid... What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone? I only ask this for a little advice as I struggle quit...

I'm upset about not celebrating my birthday with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi, i have my birthday coming up very soon, i dont particularly like doing things for my birthday, but i do not mind doing something which may pleasantly surprise me. But anyway, my partner didnt cancel work in retaliation of me booking work, but ...

Only the creepy ones seem attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I had my first boyfriend when I was 16. I am 17 now. He turned out to be a creep 'cause he was wayyyy more interested in my body than me as an actual person. I am no longer looking for a relationship, and rarely give anybody any hints that I wan...

Girl I am seeing is very moody and never makes an attempt to control her moods!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - The girl I am seeing and I got into big fight the other day. She is very moody and when she is in a bad mood she makes no attempt to cover it up. So if she is sad or excited or angry or impatient...she lets it all out! Needless to say it makes ...

I don't feel it's her place to invite others to my home

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with my gf for about 5 mos. We argue occassionly. Never long lasting arguments though. The relationship is pretty healthy. The only thing is she has her own apartment that she shares with her cousin. Since we've been ...

What is going on with my boyfriend? He is confusing me so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - He hasn't called me in 48 hours almost and I don't know what is going on. Last time I actually spoke with him, he got off the phone after 10 minutes saying his mom wanted to speak to him, and he hasn't called back since even though he said he would. ...

I thought he liked me at first, but now I am not so sure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago I went to university a few times to sign in and to look around, and every time I was there, I met this guy randomly he started talking to me asking me lots of questions. He seemed really interested. He told me he is from Paris. I ...

He think's I'm older than I really am! Do I tell him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey, okay this has proved to be tricky for me. I met this lad and it all started off as innocent fun, you know, talking, texting etc. Well I have been telling him the truth, except for one wee white lie... I live in Ireland and he lives in England,...

I like him, and I think he might like me too, but I'm not sure! help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (?) - I recently met this boy (past few weeks) and I am beginning to really like him. He's very shy and quiet or at least he seems to be, occasionally I see another side to him. Anyway we started talking fairly regularly (in person and facebook). ...

He said goodbye to me, but then told me I hadn't seen the last of him...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - So, I've had a crush on my best friend for about 5 years. When I first started liking him he went out with my best friend at the time and she told him that I liked him. But I never knew he knew. Anyway he forgot all about it and recently we've been...

Why isn't there any English dating sites?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - There seems to be every dating site for everyone else: muslim, latinos, asians, but none for English. Why is this? My family originates from England and my father was born there. My dads side is still very English in their ways. I like dating E...

23 Years Old and Emotionally Retarded Needs Advice/Help/A Saving Grace...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - A case of being emotionally retarded... Hope the women in here can help... I am 23 years old, and have casually browsed through dearcupid for a while now only to realize I am not the only 23 y/o who has never had any close physical contact w...

My GF broke up with me saying that once she finds someone that has potential for the long run, she no longer wants to be in a relationship anymore!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - One week ago my girlfriend broke up with me at the beginning of summer. We've been together for some time now and it felt like the breakup came out of nowhere since we had fun with each other earlier that day (interestingly enough, this is the exact ...