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Archived questions from: 6 May, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I like him, but I feel like he is moving too fast. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Shall I go on this 'date' with him? So I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years like a month ago. About a week ago, a little on the influence of a little alcohol I gave this guy my Blackberry pin. Got talking and gave him my number again on the inf...

Do looks and types matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Do you honestly think looks and types matter? There is this guy who I'm not dating, but we talk a lot and i just don't want to lead him on. But I think i am starting to like him, as a person he makes me laugh and I've noticed he is (fingers ...

I'm 37 and scared that the man and the children aren't going to happen for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I'm newly single, very upset about it but enough is enough after he cheated one night and I won't tolerate cheating so I am moving on. I worry though as I'm 37 and really hope to meet someone and have a child. I don't have any yet, circumstanc...

What does he mean there is no spark between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I have just found out that the guy i like has said that he doent like me He said there is nothing wrong with me but there just isnt a spark between us But my question is what does he mean spark i dont understand what he means by it ...

Is he worth waiting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - So I've been with this guy for about 5 months. He cheated on me but we're still talking. He tells me I deserve better, in fact everyone does. He isn't with the other women anymore but they still hang out a lot. He says he loves me and wants to be ...

Heart full of hurt and head full of conflict!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I am in my 40's and met a wonderful man. He is handsome, intelligent, caring, attentive, and just a good man all around. We have been together for almost a year. He was still married when we met and is now divorced. I had been single for 3 years ...

He's abroad and fails to keep regular contact, should I keep trying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hello there, just looking for a few opinions on how others may feel if they were in my situation. Will try and surmise briefly, though do want to give a bit of background first! I've been seeing a man for the last two months, quite intensely....

I haven't built up my hopes on one person for ages but he might be changing that! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I'm a teenager struggling through this annoying change everyday so if anyone is going through the same experience or already has been, please help me out here... Lately, I've been just myself and hanging around with friends, not worrying about bo...

I caught my girlfriend kissing a girl, is this considered cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (?) - the other week me and my gf went to a house party. a few hours and many drinks later i saw my gf in the kitchen snogging another girl. at first i spied and i thought it was very hot. but after a about 30 seconds i realised that they were on there,as ...

Does this mean he wants to increase contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Ok, so this is probably a stupid question, but I've texting a guy who is very shy and so am I. So I am reading into everything to find out if he is interested. We have been talking on the phone and texting, though its not every week, its quite ...

He doesn't give me enough notice. What's his deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about a month. We both recently ended relationships . We have gone on 2 dates so far. Last Thursday, He asked to get together for Friday and he never contacted me until 8:30 Friday night. he was sweet and told me ...

Please help. I really want a girlfriend but, feel incapable of approaching women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - Hello everybody, I am in my 20s, finishing college, and have never been in a relationship. I had sex but it was not with people that I had any feelings for; it was absolutely physical. I am not proud of this fact but I felt the need and did it....

I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - This may sound like a very strange question, but can someone please give me some insight into why it is that I am 17 and have never had a boyfriend?? I mean, I have tons of guy friends who have told me I'm attractive physically and who think I'm ...

I don't want to appear desperate. How do I start up a conversation with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - There is this girl in my graduating class in college that I really like. I don’t see her at all this semester but I would like to at least talk to her before graduating. Last month, I sent her a polite email — it was our first interaction — and ...

Do guys see single mums as easy and desperate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Was just wondering what is going on with men these days, would be good to have your thoughts on the following? I'm an attractive, intelligent single mum and have found most of the blokes that I come across just see me as a sex object. I don't dr...

I go to private school, he goes to a public school....but I like him! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - can you guys help me? this summer i took a taekwondo class and i met a few people and then there's this guy he keeps looking at me and smilling. and he asked me if he could court me, i honestly like him but there's one problem. he's from public s...

Should I ask him to the wedding, even though he hasn't asked me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Ive being in a relationship for nearly 7 month now. Its being very up and down and still is, although things do seem to be settling a bit now. Ive thought of walking away lots of times from this relationship but I have stuck it out and I have fell ...

Are there others who find themselves getting attached so quickly and if so, how do you handle it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - First off let me say that I'm in my early 20's and have had so many heartbreaks, I have lost count! I have adult ADHD which I think is what makes me so impulsive in relationships and makes me become attached to a guy way too fast and end up falling ...

Why all the attention from the attached women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - I work in a fairly large organisation and am a single guy, in my mid 40's, probably one of the few. Being in a company of this size there are many attractive women also working there. My 'problem' (if you could call it that) is that I always s...

What can I do to grab her attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - i like this girl. She is my friend and we talk quite a bit and she hangs out with me and my friends sometimes....the thing is that not a guy has had a crush on her even though she is kind of attractive, we kind of make fun of her and joke around ...

Is he really having doubts about everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hello, I just have a quick wee question; one time during an argument, my bf said to me that he has doubts with us as he feels like whatever he does, it never makes me happy ... after the argument i questioned this and asked if he meant it, he said ...

How do I convince her to ditch her new guy and give it a shot with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - Ok so here's the story. I've been in love with a female friend for the longest time. Just until recently she tells me that she likes me too but not just as a friend. She says that she wishes that they were more guys like me and that I was amazing ...

No luck with girls and no sex life! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - I have no sex life and its really beginning to frustrate me. Not only don't I have a sex life now, but I've never really had one. I've only been with one girl one time before and that pretty much sums it up. Other than that it's just me ...

He said he didnt feel the same, but I'm amazing. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - So, ive been in love with this guy. I told over the internet that i love him, but he said he didnt feel same. Still he said im amazing. Does that mean he also had feelings for me 'someway, somehow'? Plus he's been checking on me lately. I need your ...

Does my crush like me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Does my crush like me? He looks at me in class, sometimes does silly things when I'm looking, tries to attack me in a friendly way at break, and sometimes says hi to me. He knows I like him, and I have asked him, and I think he is just shy....

My bf still chats with his exes, even though it makes me upset. Am I right in letting this bother me so much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in a troubled spot. I'm dating a great guy and we're perfect except... He still talks to his exes. Once or twice things got slightly inappropriate... with one ex, he made a few comments that were sexual--not directed at them having sex, ...

Does showing possessiveness and jealousy flatter or anger your partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hello guys, if you show your boyfriend your jealousy that you do not want him to go to his bar even though he wants to go, does that make you controlling? or does that make him want to do more things that makes you upset? do you think, when i...

Bf and I haven't had sex in 7 months. Should I be concerned that the spark is fading?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for three years and we haven't had sex in seven months. I realize that most people would leave in that situation or at least try to to do something about it but oddly enough, we're both perfectly content. We do get ...

How can my ex-bf deny now deny he ever had feelings for me...yet still call me up for sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I'm going to try and make this as clear and easy to understand as much as I can. At the beginning of 2010,I met up with a guy I haven't seen or talked to for over ten years for a date. We never bothered to talk or date til 2010 because he had a gf ...

Staring at you, listening intently, and getting nervous while talking to you: are these signs of romantic interest or just politeness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - If you’re in a relationship, would you… stare at a woman, wait for her/make your way to talk to her (but you don’t flirt), catch her eyes, your body is turned towards her and you’re focused on the conversation, ask sincere questions and you listen ...

Not FWBs, not BF/GF, but still affectionate with each other. What are we???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - So, I'm slightly confused if this girl is playing mind games with me, or it's just how she is and i should just relax and accept this is how she is. i do find myself over analyzing things quite often. Firstly, we have known each other for 2-3...

Waiting For Sex : Am I Making A Mistake?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I'm just 22 yr old virgin whose never dated, and would prefer waiting to have sex until around the 6th or 7th month in a (long term) relationship. But it seems most men can only wait for 3 weeks. I actually wanted to wait until marriage, but as I ...

Guy I've been dating has cooled off his enthusiasm for me, and now I am afraid of getting in too deep!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - Hi, A bit of background info: I was in a terrible relationship a few months ago with a guy who treated me like dirt. Anyway that relationship ended quite quickly without too much heartache. However I stayed in contact with one of my ex's friends ...

Torn between the father of my children and my ex whom I still care for. What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I am in a real pickle at the moment.. I was seeing this guy (he was my first love) around 5 years ago. We dated for 16 months and broke up because it turned into a long distance relationship and we were very young. I was broken hearted and neve...