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Dating: Help and advice

He still wants to see me after breaking up and calling me by the wrong name??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello all I was in a relationship with a guy for about 8 months. We met off a dating site. He seemed to be an exhibitionist which I gathered quickly early on. Still I thought well let's give it a go because he was a nice guy to me. We dated...

Is he really interested in me or using me to make his ex jealous??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a new relationship type of problem and it's gonna take a bit of explaining so if anyone has the time to read and offer their opinion I'd be most grateful. So. Bit of background first - I've been single for for the last 18+ months ...

How to find the courage to ask someone out for the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I am a male teenaget st 16. And i still havent 'went out' with anyone yet. Most of my friends have girlfriends now and have had them for a while. Although i am quite popular in school I am still single. I just really need help with asking people ...

Why do I not attract nice men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I'm 33yrs lasy year a guy i normally wouldnt be interested in asked me out he a farmer 40yrs came across shy at first everything was going well except he wanted to keep our relationship secret i was ok with this at first as we have same circle of ...

I have injuries from the war and now no one wants to date me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Here's the deal i got back from Iraq almost 1 year ago from a explosion in which took my leg off, and left me with bullet holes in my back. I had my leg put back on, but now there is a 10 inch scar going down the right side by my knee and wraps ...

Girl has the attention of both of us and we're best friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm currently a student and I'm stuck in a really delicate situation, I like a girl that a good friend has liked for a while but he can't get it rite.... I have had a thing for her for the past few years, but there has never been a...

Is it true that once a friendship has been damaged its hard to make it right again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Okay, I am inlove with a guy who likes my bestfriend and my bestfriend likes him too. Like any love story, I decided to let go of him (for them to be happy) and retain the friendship I had with my bestfriend. But why is it, my bestfriend and I ...

Do you think we have to worry about this issue??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - hi all, its been allong time since i wrote on here but i am extreemly worried. also please excuse my english as i am dislexic... basicly last night me and my gf had sex we used as a condom as we ALWAYS do and all went well but after i took it...

Should I move out and give him his space as he wants??

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4 April 2011 (F) - i have been dateing my bf for 4 years now i have been staying at his house for couple months bt now he says he doesnt know what to do hes asking for space so i sed is it that u want to break up n he says no that he loves me im so attached to him ...

I don't want to drive a wedge between these 2 best friends, but one wants me to continue our FWB, and I want to date the other!

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4 April 2011 (?) - dear cupid, back in december, i met this guy (we'll call him steve) who i ended up becoming friends with benefits with from around the middle of january to the middle of march. we would hang out pretty much every chance we got, things would get...

I'm not sure I want to kiss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Well I have this boy that I really like and he asked my if i would be his girlfriend. I said yes because i relly like him. But now he wants to kiss me and I am not sure if i want to. What can I say to him and what can I do?...

Is it possible a co-worker has a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Does a co worker have a crush or just being nice if she Laughs at your crap jokes Asks how you are and notices if you're down and wants to help Tells you all about herself Brings up things that you have said before that made her laugh P...

I love my boyfriend but I can't seem to forget my first crush

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4 April 2011 (F) - Hello Aunties! Okay here is my question i finally have a boyfriend! yay! the problem is i can't seem to forget about my first crush i had since i was 9. i really love my boyfriend with all my heart but when i see my first crush i freeze to death ...

Discovered 'Mr. Perfect' is in the middle of a divorce, after I fell in love with him. Now I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I met a great guy some time ago and we started dating straight away. It was brilliant - we seemed to be completely on the same page. Alike enough to really like each other and alike in the most important ways but still so vastly different that ...

I always seem to be the odd man out, and I don't know what to do. Advise please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I guess I just need someone to talk to. I'm 22 and I have never been in a relationship. I have a horrible scary feeling in the back of my mind that I will be alone for the rest of my life. I cannot imagine any woman who would think I'm good ...

I have this amazing GF, but I watched porn and the guilt is killing me. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm living with housemates and girlfriend. I love my girlfriend very much, I think she is amazing and so beautiful and incredible. I'm so lucky to have her. Last summer when we were apart, I went on porn loads during the week and I felt...

Awkward silences and lulls..are they ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, i've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now, and we've been getting REALLY well. we've already hung out several times, and every time has been absolutely AWESOME. we text every day as often as we can, and that's ...

How important are looks really?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - How important are looks really? I'm not a toad, just saying. I would say I'm average. Everytime I meet someone new, they remark on how pretty I am. So theres this guy. (of course there is) and we met like once, in person. We exchanged num...

I HATE those first kisses - I'm so nervous - what makes a good first kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hi there, I HATE the first kiss. I can't do it. I'm looking for some advice, or even somebody to say I'm not alone. I'm not even 16.. i'm 30! I've fancied somebody at work for six months now. He tried to kiss me two weeks ago at a party, and...

He's decided to be faithful. Why couldn't he have decided that when he was with me. I am so hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Well. I've been seeing this boy since the beginning of this year, as in the 8th January. He is like my PERFECT match and everything about him is amazing. My type of humour, fashion sense, music taste, amazing body and looks after himself and know...

Ladies what kind of home would you want your man to have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - So in changing myself to frankly become more confident and attractive I am also trying to change my home. I own a 2 bedroom townhouse 2 story condo with a finished basement and a fully enclosed 14 X 16 foot patio. I have worked hard to refurbish it. ...

She doesn't call me very often, does she love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - She does not call me often on phone, she can take even a week, without calling me and am the one who always call her on phone. when I ask her she tells me she loves me but she does not show her love by calls. Does she really love me? I feel she does ...

How do women view a male RN as a husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Ok. Now that I've had the fun single life I'm 33 years old. I don't have any children, I own my own home and I would like to settle down with a good woman. I want a female perspective on this one question though. I have been in the field of ...

My family want me to work, boyfriend doesn't and I'm torn

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - I have an opportunity to work full time over the summer and I'm stumbling upon some problems: its really my parents that want me to work, even though I go to school full time and work part time. I have money saved up so I won't bother them during ...

Should I still meet up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I live in England and my boyfriend lives in Turkey and was planning on seeing him this week, the flights has been booked, but I called him to say I'm in two minds about going to see him. He went really mad with me when I told him this and said I ...

2 year break, no meeting each other, rationed phone time. Can we survive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - i've been in a relationship for 6 yrs, through college and my first job.. my boyfriend is 8 yrs my senior and we love each other with passion and intensity. now, the initial years were bliss as i was in college and he was not very focused on higher ...

Do you think he's been cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hi and thanks My bf and I have been together about 3 years. Started off wonderful as most relationships do. He was so charming, expressive, and he would talk, and listen to me for hours. I fell hard and fast within 6 weeks we were living together....

My boyfriend can't handle it when I am over-emotional! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello all! My question is quite general and refers to the possible differences between the sexes. I really love my bf and he loves me. He’s a great guy with loads going for him and he is very loving and affectionate. We are planning to have kid...

I'm useless with women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - I've just turned 22 and never had a girlfriend, it's made me realise I'm actually useless with women. I've had a few drunken one night stands (Protected of course) but never experienced a relationship with a girl. It's easy enough going clubbing and ...

He's everything to me, but he's not the serious kind. Should I continue trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I am scared to let him into my life. However, my life has no purpose without him. Well, they say Jesus came to die for us. I think i was born to die for this man. i love him, however am getting worried that it might be running mad. He's not s...

Can you help me decide which girl is right for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I have two girlfriends, "J" and "G" but i want to choose one for marriage. J is a liar but her rest of behaviours are fine with me She is of a class, she is beautiful and hard working. If I marry J, i will battle it up with her to let her settle i...

I'm on an emotional roller coaster. Should I stay, or should I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago. Since then I've been trying to talk to him and wanting to get back together with him, however he didn't return any of my calls or texts. Eventually I gave up and stopped contacting him but then...

He charmed me, so I'm back with him. What do I do if he goes back to his old ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend before 4 days, because he didn't treat me well ... and since that day he always text me that he loves me and he can't live without me and he can't stand that I'm faraway from him, and he want me to get back with him ... ...

Ex boyfriend's new girlfriend is seeking revenge. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I stupidly got really drunk the other night and came on to my ex-boyfriend when I saw him in a bar. He told me no. I did not know that he had a new girlfriend. Anyway, she has found out that I tried it on with him and has gone completely mental, got ...

It is really upsetting me that she is taunting me so. Advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - im in love with a girl for a very long time...we were friends and used to talk but since she found out that im into her, she doesnt interact with me. Instead she interacts with my friends more which is annoying. My friend has become good frie...

I changed my mind. What should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Well there's this boy who's fancied me for ages and I kinda liked him, so I told him and now we go out. we've been going out for 5days now, but I don't no whether I still wanna go out with him... I also like this other boy, he had a girlfriend but ...

Should I move away in the hopes of finding a partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I have been single now for 18 months and I just don't meet any potential partners anywhere. I can't even get a date using online dating and with the net the rsponse is always because I don't want kids and there seem to be very few women in their ...

Wedding date dilemma......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I have been invited to the wedding of a friend and I need some advice about taking a date. I am single and would generally not have a problem going alone but in this situation I would rather not. The main reason is that it is just out of the ...

What is your opinion on my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (?) - Well just recently maybe half a year ago a friend of mine had introduced me to her little brother and we had been talking ever since To be honest i just thought that he was another really hot guy that id never get the chance to be with but ive want...

Girlfriend's activities with other male friends upset me and I can't seem to fall in the whole "in the end she comes home to you" bit.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - We broke up two weeks ago after a year long relationship, and now are trying to talk things over, and one the the things we can't get passed is an apparent jealousy problem from my end. She considers it ok to spend movie nights at her house with o...

This feeling is eating me up inside, how do I make it go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - i'm in love with someone that i'm very close to. He doesn't know and i don't want to risk our friendship because i don't think he feels the same. We tell each other almost everything, and recently he's started seeing someone else. Despite ...

Why do I feel this way about relationships?

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4 April 2011 (M) - Ok, I know this is probably stupid of me for asking this, but I just have to know because I don't know the answer myself: I have only been in one relationship in my entire life. I want to get into another one but I don't want to be in one for the ...

A goodbye present for him..?

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4 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, well the thing is .. I just met a fantastic guy a couple of weeks ago. But he's leaving the country in two weeks.. Even if we weren't with each other for a long time we fell in love.. I know that the relationship wouldn't work be...

Is there something I can do to make guys like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - All my friends have had boyfriends or have been asked out before and i havent. We mainly talk about guys and i feel a little disappointed that i have never been asked out or been in a relationship let alone been kissed by a guy. I am a freshmen ...

My boyfriend gets turned on when I'm angry or upset!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend gets turned on when Im angry or upset. Its most definitely not the only time he gets turned on (fortunately, because that would be one hell of a double edged sword!) but it surprises me, and makes me laugh a little nonethel...

How do I get past his emotional affair? Or will I ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - What I want to know is how to get over lies and deception? My boyfriend and I have been together for eight years, starting when we were 14 years old. We had a situation about a year ago where I found out he'd been friends with a girl from wo...

I need some opinion on this guy I have been really good at holding mysef back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - We were dating for a little bit, and the guy told me about his past how he cheated on his ex but that he's not like that anymore...knowing myself having trust issues hearing that got me uneasy...I've been holding myself back but not entirely with ...

I feel like the third wheel, he spends all week only with his sisters as he doesn't really go out and the only chance he gets to spend with me, he seems more interested in them!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello,i am 21 years old and i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a great relationship and are planning to get married soon but recently something has been really bugging me. My boyfriend is 23 years old and has ...

I want my fiancée back, but she has decided to move on...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I was 3 months from marriage and my fiancé broke up with me. She decided to give up her life in another state and move to be with me. In a brief discussion about what she would bring from her exisiting home from to the one I live in, which would ...

How do people in their 40's hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - How do people in their mid-40's hook up? I married young (19) and spent most of my life with someone (25 years) so I cam completely out of touch and I'm not in my 20's anymore so hitting the bars and being coy doesn't work at my age. But I am ...

Is ex just feeling in a void since we broke up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up a while now. 2 months after we broke up she entered a relationship with someone for a short while. It ended and she then entered another relationship right after. I've noticed that she doesn't show off this guy the way ...

How can I approach this man without seeming pushy or rude?

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4 April 2011 (F) - I have a slight quandary. There's a man who attends the same church as me. He's been coming for a few months, but leaves right after the service. I finally spoke to him last Sunday and we had a very pleasant chat. (When I introduced myself he ...

How can I start a casual conversation with the professor I'm romantically interested in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I always want to strike up a conversation with the professor i like when we're together, but i don't know how. it might be due to my limited social skills or it could be because i'm nervous..... i feel very awkward every time we're together alone wh...

Am I reading the signals wrong? Does he like me even though he has a GF?

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4 April 2011 (F) - Ugh. This is awful. And a long one. Sorry, but I've been desperate to vent to people who won't spread this around my sixth form There's this guy on the badminton team at school who is the year above me and we've known each other for five years, a...