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writes:I am a male teenaget st 16. And i still havent 'went out' with anyone yet. Most of my friends have girlfriends now and have had them for a while. Although i am quite popular in school I am still single. I just really need help with asking people out, what should i say? Where should be? And how often do I need to go places with them? I just dont know and I dont have to courage to ask them them out. thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks. I will just be little nervous but now know what and what not say =D
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reader, Luv2giveadvice  +, writes (5 April 2011):
Hello,
You really shouldnt think about it too muh,
or it will come out rehearsed.
Treat them as though they are one of your male
friends and suggest grabbing a coffee after school sometime. Simple as that.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Just don't go up to her and say "would you like to go out with me?"
have something ready, movie tickets, concert tickets, and show them to her and then say, "I have an extra ticket for _______ if you'd like to go with me let me know"
If she says no, just say "Cool, if you change your mind, I'll be around"
Many times a girl or boy, just need sometime to think about the offer. It's usually a surprise when out of the blue someone asks you to date them. Make an offer, leave it on the table and give them time to decided.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 April 2011):
 To ask someone out pick an activity or just a nice place to talk with them and ask them if they would like to go out with you. Generally you want to stay away from places where you are unable to talk like a movie but you don't want to go out for a full meal. See it more as time to spend together. I don't really know what to say about going places. I mean you do want to see them often but it can be too much if you are always spending money to go places. I'm sure after a few dates you and your friends can all get together as a group date thing. Try not to over think asking a girl out. Just go up to her and ask then things will flow naturally. If she is a someone who is caring and who you would want to be with she will appreciate a little bit of nervousness in the beginning.
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