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Dating: Help and advice

My parents are asking me to break up with my BF because he isn't white...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hi, i need help with something. I'm 13 years old. i have a boyfriend thats 15. My boyfriend is black and im white. he isnt that dark he is light skin. He came to my house to meet my parents ( he wants to meet my family n all my friends). When he ...

When adults see a young couple and say..."You don't know if he'll be your only and last boyfriend." or, "Oh, young love. It never lasts."...is it true??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hello... I'm 17 years old, and I have a boyfriend since last year. Recently, I've been a little bit concerned of all those things adults day when they see a young couple... Examples?: 1. "You don't know if he'll be your only and last boyrfriend...

I fell for a coworker, but now that I've left I'm hesitant to contact him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I started to fall in love with a man I used to work with. I have now left. Before leaving we both knew we were strongly attracted but did nothing about it. After nearly a year, I still thinking about him continuously. Despite him asking for m...

Now that he's won me over he's backing off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I am a widow.I have seeing a man for about 3moths now! uin the beginning he persued me big time. The first 2 dates were we really connected he had ask me out again but the next day I canceled and explained i wasn't ready yet. I got to thinking about ...

I want to be loyal to the guy I'm seeing, but I can't help but CONSTANTLY think about the other guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I really need help. I'm in my senior year, and I graduate in 50 days. I started to see a new guy a month ago. Up until before I gave in to going on a date with him, I really felt like I had to convince myself to like him. I gave it a really big ...

What does it mean that he travels all that way just to see me? Is it just to see a friend or probably more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope you can help me with some ideas to the following situation. I met a wonderful man in the summer of 2009. We had this amazing connection you share with only a few people in your whole life. We have lots of similarities even though ...

Am I immature because I don't have a boyfriend, don't drink or I'm not pregnant or don't have my own house at 17, like everyone else???.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - A lot of the girls around here are doing what most grown up's do, like getting pregnant at a young age and having their own house while I'm still stuck at home with my parents. I'm immature because I don't have a boyfriend, don't drink or I'm not ...

Met this guy while on vacation and after I graduate I want to move to this tropical country to be with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I went on vacation and met this guy, which I fell in love with. We just clicked you know when you meet someone you know will always be in your life.I came back from vacation awhile ago and we kept in contact he asked me to be his girl the last ...

My friend tries to discourage all of us from dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 15 and I have a friend let's call her Beth. Now me and my group of friends are either in a relationship or really like a guy. Beth however is not in a relationship and as far as we can tell has no interest in any guys. We often all talk about ...

Was she ever truly in love with me? Did she only want a trip to Ireland?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - Hi All, i really would love someones commenst or opinion on this matter, see what people think, just over a year ago i met a girl online, well she saw my ad on a site and contacted me, and we exchanged e mails and letters and such until we met on ...

Do I need nicer friends? Should I cut them off due to their remarks to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I'm single and. I have been for a year and now. I want to start dating. I haven't had a boyfriend in 3 years, waiting for the right one doesn't work, I can see that. Soooo now I want to get back out there, and get a nice boyfriend. But since all ...

What's the best, most successful way to meet new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - My social life is a mess. For weeks now I've been posting messages on facebook asking if anybody wants to join me for a drink somewhere. I never get any responses. I don't know if it's just that everyone is busy or if I'm just not a very popular ...

My gf needs cheering up after a rough patch. What are romantic ideas to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - my girlfriend and myself have gone through a rough patch the last few weeks. She has to work tonight, but will be back home with me tomorrow. I really want to make tomorrow romantic and create some chemistry back between us as i want us to be back...

Does he really not want me? Or is he just too sad to handle a relationship? Is it a health issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - My fiance just broke up with me with the reason "I have problems of my own to work out." He broke up with me on Christmas Eve for reasons neither of us understand. He was gone for three weeks and in that time I was stalked, harassed, raped and kidn...

How do I make a move on my female friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - So I'm friends with this girl who is gorgeous, intelligent, witty, and just all around awesome. She's casually seeing someone, but they're not official. We've been friends for a couple of months and we always have a great time together and talk for ...

Should I remove this girl from my friend list on facebook? She broke my heart...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - Right now I am hesitating about kicking a girl whom I love on Facebook. This is not internet dating. She is a really good friend of mine and during the past two years both of us experienced a lot of things but now everything has turn bad. At t...

Can't tell if she likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - cant tell if this girl likes me or not. i mean she talks about me to her family enough that i started to notice. like if i would talk to one of her sisters they would say "o yea my sister was telling me you" bla bla. she also pokes fun at me every ...

I’ve asked this guy out on facebook a week ago but he claims not to have read it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Friday I asked out this shy guy over facebook only to find that he didn’t read it till Wednesday the next week because he wrote a comment on facebook but didn’t reply to my email. On that Thursday (on the collage bus) all of is friends on the bus ...

I'm in love with this man who I met online, as I've fallen for his personality, but I'm completely repulsed by him physically!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - okay so this is a bit of a weird one. i met this guy on the internet and we quickly became close. for almost 2 years we chatted online every night until the early hours of the morning, and on the phone, texting ect. We've met up a couple of times...

I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for ,I'm rather shy when it comes to dating guys and I fear rejection lots he seems rather shy also !! .. I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he likes me or ...

What are the advantages and disadvantages of living together?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts, Just wondering what you can say about couples living together in one house without being married. What are the advantages and disadvantages of such situations. Is this a bad thing or a good thing to do? Thanks!...

Caught her in contact, again. Should I give her another chance? I miss her and her little girl a lot.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - Ill try keep this short. Ive caught my Gf of almost 3 years, in contact with another guy. This is the 2nd time. The 1st time was just over a year ago. Both of them work colleagues. Nothing physical happened in both instances. I had been watching her ...

I'd love to be the confident person I appear to be. How?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - I don't want to bang on so I will keep this brief. I have no confidence what's so ever, after years of bullying cause I used to be a bit chubby, now that I've lost a lot of weight and some what attractive I can't bring myself to date and do thin...

Advice on buying sex toys.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I am seeing someone and I want to buy some toys for me to use when we video call between our visits to each other. Thing is I have never bought and used sex toys before, and I really don't know where to start or what to think about getting, can ...

I am worried about seeing pictures of him clubbing on Facebook. He's leaving for Uni soon.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. He is going to uni this september 2 hours away from me. Which means we will probably only see each other once every 2 or 3 weeks! He will probably be going out clubbing all the tim...

I need help handling things (mainly jealousy) in my relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hey Well yeah, I kinda need some help handling things that go on in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months, both 16 years old and just leaving High School (UK). We have a few problems in our relationship, mainly because o...

How do I avoid men who are only after one nighters and find someone who wants a serious relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - My problem is this, I have been trying for over a year to find a bf im over being single but i only seem able to find men that only want one night stands. Sometimes i think i've found a potential one but they end up not interested in somethi...

Is it normal to want to see him every day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Is it normal that i want to see my boyfriend everyday? and that I get quite upset when he cancels and so we cant *he doesnt do it very often at all* I never used to see my ex this often and I delt with it fine :| I would go 2 weeks without seeing h...

What do I change? hurt and resentment is building. Our last argument was terrible.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I feel afraid to have sex with my boyfriend. We were so close, but he began neglecting me emotionally, affectionatly, and sexually. It got to the point where we would have sex once or twice a month and it often fekt strained, as though he were doing ...

How do I know they have really broken up? Or is he just lying to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - There is a guy who is my very close friend. I have liked him ever since I first saw him. He also used to say me that he liked me, but as we always joke about everything. I thought he was again joking so I never took it seriously. After some mon...

Deep down I'm heartbroken. How do I make it better? She took another guy to Prom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - I had prom last night and i dont whether it was one of my best nights or one of my worst. The girl who i have been into deeply for 8 months went with another guy she new outside of school...she claims that they are just good friends... I wa...

Should I ask my boyfriend to move with my family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - My parents are on about moving to Devon and wanting me to come with them, as my mum has said she wont move unless I go with her, however I recently got back with my ex boyfriend I know we haven't been out for long but it feels like forever and at ...

She lied about what happened at a party when she was drunk

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - I'm nearly 18. Months ago, my girlfriend [just turned 18] went to a house party with some friends, and I couldnt go because I had work the next day. I got a number of drunken texts from her the next day which were sent during the night, one telling ...

He flirted with me and then asked me to ask out my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I really like this guy. I could of swore he liked me. he would flirt with me all the time.He would sit by me in class.Sometimes he would put his arm around touch my hand.Then one day he asked me to ask out one of my friends for him.I was so ...

Does he like me? We had a fun night, now all he does is stare.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I have lived next to this guy for about eighteen years. I am now eighteen. We were best friends from pretty much birth until fourteen when we both went away to boarding school. Random right? Finally we are now back finishing up our senior year ...

I want to test my relationship by holding out on sex. Am I taking it too far?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me...However I cant trust him and normally I am able to walk away at the slightest feeling of dishonesty but this one I cant seem to shake off because Im in too deep and its mad chemistry. May I add the long ...

Afraid to find out if this cute guy likes me or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - i like this boy in my class. hes cute nice and more. but idk if he likes me or knows i like him. he so hot and a little gothic i think but so am i. help me: what should i do if he doesnt like me?...

Have you noticed any behavior problems with your child after he/she has begun dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - hi i am back again. I have a new question about whether or not others have noticed any behavior problems with their kids when they began dating someone steady?...

Does depression make people fall out of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - does depression make people fall out of love? my bf(ex) used to love me he couldnt explain it but he just did. Then he got lost in life and got depressed, next thing I know he wants to be friends. He wants to be alone and have no girls in his ...

Should I wait for my ex-bf, whom I still love, to get his act together and come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I guess im trying to learn how to deal. I broke up with my bf over a month ago because our relationship went from seeing/talking to each other daily.. to still talking daily (he'd call to say hi, i miss u/love u) but barely hanging out. He used to ...

I wasnt the best parent myself, and I don't want to take my child from her mother but I do want to make sure that she is living in a safe environment.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - I want to start off my saying I know I messed up in the past and I know some people may not think I deserve forgivness but I am only trying to do what is best. When I was 20 I had a one night stand with a much younger girl Kylyn (she was 16), 4 ...

8 Golden rules!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...

I need help on how to approach someone who liked me but now seems to be ignoring me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

15 April 2011 (M) - hi, hears how it goes... this guy approached me whilst i was at work and i had absolutely no idea he liked me even though he had spoken to me a few times that night, at the end of the night, kick out time, he asked me for my number, i had no idea ...

My BF is stuck to his other colleague like a "magnet" and I don't know what to do now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys I have a problem, See,I own a horse and I've met my BF through a horse ranch. Lately we've been having issues with our relationship. When it first started I felt so lucky meeting him like I did. He's wealthy handsome and smart. See, he'...

How do I tell my partner he needs to dedicate more time with me and our child because I'm starting to feel left out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - So my partner/father of my child has currently enrolled in school so he's obviously been busy. I'm glad he's doing something good for him but he seems to be busy or tired most of the time. I feel like he's slowly getting distant ..and just focusing...

I think he will come back eventually if he wants me, but on the same note, I can't wait forever....What do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

15 April 2011 (F) - I'm so confused about how I feel about someone. I was dating him a while ago, and it was going so well. Felt such a connection and he payed me so much attention I felt on top of the world :o) . We started to get really close... Then, things got ...