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36-40,
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writes:I am scared to let him into my life. However, my life has no purpose without him.Well, they say Jesus came to die for us.I think i was born to die for this man.i love him, however am getting worried that it might be running mad.He's not sure its me he wants anymore,and i have let him go...but i sleep and dream about him, when am working i dream about him, everyday of my life is him.he doesnt know he's my life.... but i dont know if i should let him into my life...or i should run as faras possible or accept defeat?because if he's in my life, am sure it will also be torture, because his the not serious kind...but what can i do...if when he's not in my life..it is a silent torture it self? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): I agree with the previous answer. I have lost count of how many times I was in this situation and even blamed myself, but the truth is its not within your control to change this man, and you are wasting all your time and energy hoping that maybe one day he will want to commit. You need to start thinking about yourself, and what you want from a relationship.If you decide you want something more stable then go out and look for it, and in time somebody else will fill this mans place, hopefully he will want what you want tooHope this helpsall the best.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): i agree with the other person on this . its not a test . need to find what makes you happy .not a guy . and if you feel this person is not right or cant trust him get rid fo him . you are going to always second guess yourself with him .and if you cant trust someone. that means your not happy for whatever reason . life is to short to sit and worry if a guy is going to be worth it . he is the only one that can change .but if stand by a man in your heart that not sure of . in the guys mind he will think he can use you as a doormat anytime . i wish women would get stronger with this . its going to be a cycle
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