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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My Bf is distancing himself from me. He does not include me. Do we have a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I (23) have been with my boyfriend (22) for one year and three months. We are both graduating from college this May. We have been fighting a lot lately--always about the same thing: I don't think I see him enough, and he thinks he sees me plenty. ...

My purity ring is not stopping me feel so turned on. What can I do to slow down these feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Why am I so turned on when I see my boyfriend? I'm 15, but I've never felt like this before! I know one reason is hormones? Anyways... I've never felt like this with anyone else. It's freaking me out. Maybe another reason is that he told me I turn...

How do I trust him when he's posting these things on Facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do!I just found out that My boyfriend talks flirtatious to other women on Facebook! One if his comments on his wall says "anyone want to talk dirty" wtf? Then he goes and says that they couldn't handle him and these girls are ...

Why do I freak out when they get close?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Why is it when sometimes i go on a night out, i want to meet good looking guys and be close with them. But when i do get close, this feeling kicks in for me to get away. Which is odd? Because before when i see that guy or i am just talking to him, ...

He walked out, should I move on or take him back if he returns??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - hello everyone. . I would be grateful for some advice. . My boyfriend of four years walked out yesterday saying it was over after a strange tense day. We had had a lovely week together the week before but for some reason yesterday we were at each ...

He's gone most of the time, I'm ready to leave. Thoughts??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years now, during that time we broke up 3 times cause he had cheated on me, and yet i still took him back cause i love him or so i think i do. Im 31 years old now and we have one child together and another one on ...

Is distance going to be an issue? Is she even interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - {Moderator note: two questions from the same source combined} I'm 17 and this weekend it was my little sisters christening so we had a lot of family and friends over. So I get talking to one of my mums old friends and she introduced me to to famil...

How best to find out why her feelings seemed to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Basically, I have tried to get with a girl I like, I think I now get the message she isn't as keen as I am, she always says she is bored, I offer to go out and do stuff with her, no response, buy her stuff, no comments. I think to keep wishing is ...

Things have been weird with my boyfriend lately so I'm afraid to read my poem in front of him

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30 April 2011 (F) - I am in a terrible quandary. Today, there is a Release Party/Reading for a book of poems, and i am invited to the party since one of my poems is in the book. The thing is that the poem is about my first kiss with my bf, but lately things have been ...

Help with some ice-breakers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - So there's a girl in one of my classes who's really pretty. Shes been telling my friends she thinks im cute more than once. I see her looking at me every once in a while, so im assuming she's interested. I recently went out with a couple of friends ...

Question about wet dreams

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - ok guys (and girls too) what do you feel would bother you the most.. a. your girlfriend has a wet dream about doing it with someone other than you. or b.your girlfriend has a dream about having sex with you, but it sucked really really bad.. t...

How do I get my boyfriend to be more honest about his fantasies?

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30 April 2011 (F) - Ok, the backstory to this question is that late last year I found out that my boyfriend had been watching transsexual porn. I was really upset and confronted him in a very aggressive manner and we both got very upset. He insisted he was just curious ...

I don't know how far my BF has gone with this other girl, but its killing me. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I'm devastated. I have an LDR of 3.5 years and we were going to meet for the very first time in July. He went out two nights ago with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin's girlfriend's feelings fluctuates from hating to lovin...

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

I'm getting with dating this guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - ok to the point im a girl, im in relationship for about 4months. the question is, sometimes i didnt feel like i love him, sumtimes i think he is a boring guy. i aint like his old joke -.- well im be his cus he is my old pal, and he ever told me that ...

Not sure whether I am right or wrong in this situation...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I feel really upset right now and don't know whether I am justified in feeling this way. Yesterday (for the royal wedding) my boyfriend and I (been together 15 months) got invited to my cousin's bbq. Meanwhile he also got an invite to attend...

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anyth...

She's the best Gf I've ever had. So why do I go soft at the worst moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - O my gosh. Pleas help ... Me and my girlfriend . It's the best relationship I ever had. She knows exactly how to turm me on and everything was fine. Then wen we wanted to do it... The my disobedient willie went soft on me. I know my girlfriend,...

Deviant sexual behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - So I've never had a girlfriend or have much experience in dating or sex. Anyway, I've started dating this girl for a few weeks now. Whenever I think about her, think about talking to her, when I call her, talk to her or sometimes just b...

Why am I feeling so hesitant about a relationship with this younger guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have been chatting with this guy for almost a year. We have seen each other 3 time (he lives out of town). Although, I am still unsure of my feelings for him "I run hot and cold" so does he. We have some sort of connection that brings us ...

Why can't I form a connection? any tips on how to get past my last relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Just wondering if anyone has had a difficult time forming a connection with someone (a significant other) after ending a bad relationship with a first love? My bf and I were together for 2.5 years, all the while he was cheating on me with other wo...

I like this boy. How can I find out if he likes me back, without making it too obvious??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - i really like this guy that's in my band class and art club, we talk sometimes and stuff and i really wanna get to know him better and maybe see if he likes me back without being too obvious. i need help!!!!!!!!!!11...

Help ?? How do I make the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My best guy friend who I'm in love with is really sweet and nice to me (obviously he's my best friend:) but, ok so there's this really slutty girl he dated and me and my friends got SOOOOOOO mad. So I kicked his ass. Lol. Then we were on the bus and ...

My boyfriend's bird obssesion is troubling me...along with the bird shop girl who flirts with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My b/f Paul likes collecting birds and I am not sure I can take it any more. He already has one cage of birds. His father collects them too. But I have asthma and i dont like be near the birds and all the feathers and it smells. But when he is away ...

I really like him, he seems to really like me, but he does not seem to want to make our dating status "official". Why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I would REALLY appreciate a little dating advice here! It would make the world of a difference. So, to start this off I began talking to a guy who is just a little over a year older then me. He has an apartment, two jobs bar tending, and his own ...

If he has such deep feelings for me, why hesitant about a relationship? I need to knw-Is he playing with my emotions and using his recent break-up as an excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Okay so this might be fairly long, but I'll start from the beginning anyway. I have this guy bestfriend and we've been messing around for 4, almost 5 months now. Last year we were just friends and he was in a relationship, but whenever we got the ...

Masturbating for the first time!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have a few questions! I am thinking about masturbating for the simple fact that my boyfriend is sometimes away and i get lonely while he is away. Ive never masterbated ever in my life and im not sure how to get it started or the right "tools" ...

He can't maintain an erection in bed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My questions are a bit complicated and probably TMI. I apologize in advance. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months. I love spending time with him, love who he is... but there's an elephant in the room only I seem to bring up...

Why does she not trust me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly a year now and I really trust her in every way. However she has major trust issues, they are not over anything major but just little things. It gets to the point where she won't leave her phone ...

Did I screw up our first kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - So I'm dating my friend's ex, she doesn't care, but I really love him, a lot. She told me he treated her wrong, he would never kiss her or be sweet.. I found that wrong he Wants to kiss me for the first time :) he always hugs me, he is really sweet ...

I want him so badly and know we would work well together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - About a year ago i changed jobs and met a few really amazing people. soon after becoming involved with one of my coworkers (my manager) one of my close friends at work (who i share a desk with)lets call him A, suddenly started showing interest in ...

High sex drive, need Help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - So yeah, I have a high sex drive and my girlfriend doesn't. I see her 3-4 days a week (every two days). We have been together for a year and a half. We usually make love every time we see each other, but when we don't I get really moody, upset and I ...

I don't mind being friends but I don't want to lose contact with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hey my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 weeks of dating he said he needed space and wanted to enjoy being single but over text messaging, that he still loved me and he would always be there for me. He said he loves me more then anyone else. I just ...

How can I let him see it's time we both grew up, we're both adults!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years now and we've been rocky for a while. It's always been his dream to travel overseas to teach English to children, which is why he is getting his degree. This is not because he loves children ...

How do I get him back without coming off needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up, it was due to a lot of nagging about the relationship on my part! I wasn't happy but now I think that things could really work after this short break! How do I get him back without coming off needy? Or withou...

I miss him like crazy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship for over a year with a guy who I was deeply in love with. I knew he was the one for me and we talked about some day getting married and stuff like that. But jealously that was getting built up inside of me and I lied to him. ...

Why must everyone I know that is in a relationship with someone constantly remind me of how single I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - Why must everyone I know that is in a relationship with someone constantly remind me of how single I am. Am I not miserable enough already. I swear that I'm being punished by god for some unknown future transgression. I'm in my mid 20's and nev...

We were dating, but now she just wants to be friends but do everything we did before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - {Moderator note: we don't publish questions written in ALL CAPS} I need advice. I met a girl and she was very nice and funny... but at the time she was in jail when she got out she broke up with her and we began dating.. we were dating for almo...

Am I being too naive to be upset about my Gf's attitude to sleeping her way to the top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - So I have been seeing this girl for a couple months and we got to talking recently about our work and job history. she is a decently successful actress in commercials and some background TV spots. now here's the thing: she was a model first, and she ...

I don't know how to feel, I have had proof that b/f lied and cheated

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I have being dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and everything was well untill when i found out last year that when i was away to another country for a month he started flirting with another girl.When i got back he was totally changed and deep ...

I really can't figure out from her behavior if she loves me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now but we broke up once because of the long distance, it happened 2 or 3 weeks ago... But we got back together after 1 day no contact, she said we'll be together in 1 condition if I won't go out with ...

I really like her though I've never met, but I don't know what to do when we do meet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - Hi there. I have two questions, I really need help on this. My friend introduced me to a girl and unfortunately I have not met her, yet. We have been texting each other a lot and we have become friends. But heres the problem, I really like...

My girlfriend feels sad knowing she will be "wife number 2"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I am 23 years old, and have been dating my girlfreind for 8 months, we are truly in love. when i was 20 i got married, but it only lasted 3 weeks, then got divorced. my girlfreind and i have spoken about our future and how we want to marry and be ...

Do I just want to date this guy because I am lonely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I haven't been in a serious relationship for almost a year now and I'm lonely. There is a guy that is really interested in me and I'm sorta interested in him but I'm worried that I'm only considering dating him because I'm lonely and wanting to be ...

I'm dating my sister's ex and hiding it from her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - so my sister was with this guy for a year. She cheated on him and he broke up with her. She moved on, as did he. I always liked this guy while they were together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me2. A year AFTER they broke up, (she ...

Any advice on how she likes to be kissed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about a month now, seen her only 3 times, but I've known her for about a year now. We've dated before, about some 10 months ago, went out 3 or 4 times. I'm no expert in relationships (never had one) and/or dati...

How can I best help my best friend recover from this depressing breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is suffering through a terrible heartbreak, im trying to help her out because she is suffering so much in pain. My friend and her ex, as a couple were my best friends. My friend is soooooo sweet and she is the one to always work thin...

I think if this guy was closer my g/f would be with him, not me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now, and i really like her alot. We say we love eachother daily, but i really dont even know what love is. She does alot of shit that bothers me and i can't tell if im over reacting or if im angry ...

He stood up for me when other guys were harassing me. Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hey! Okay, I'm a little stumped as to what's going on in the head of this guy I like. I've been into him since 7th grade, 2 years ago, but he really hasn't talked to me until now. In the past, then and again he would add something to a conversation ...

Rebounds? Commitment issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend was dumped by a guy bcuz the guy felt she was cheating on him with me and another guy. I was trying to steal her from him...but we only talked as friends. The other guy was trying the same thing but I beat him. she started liking me ...