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Dating: Help and advice

Are the differences between my bf and me too much for us to work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hi there, i've got a real issue and i need as much help as you can give me! Me and my boyfriend are on the verge of breaking up. We love each other loads and used to be head over heels and really happy. But recently we've been arguing all the time ...

Should I take things further with a friend I slept with one night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I could really use your help. I'll try and explain so please bear with me. A few months ago I flew home from university for a friend's 21st birthday. I started talking to a male friend at the party and he bought me a few drinks. When ...

Should I be upset that my fiance promised to give me $ with my car payment...but then used it to gamble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I need help to see if i am over reacting. I have lived off and on with my fiance for over three years. We broke up a year ago because he had some anger issues. He got help and three months ago i allowed him to move back in with me. Things have been ...

Going away for an overnight with a guy I like...how can I make something happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I am going to try and make this as simple as I can because I tend to waffle on. I like someone a lot at the moment and he is part of my reenactment group. Next Saturday, him, me and two other boys from the group are going to Norfolk for a camp. On...

Girlfriend has been pushing me away because I am "like a puppy"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Goes like this. About 5 months ago I got together with a wonderful lady (shes 26 I am 34). We had known each other for several years and saw each other just as friends on a semi regular basis. She has a 5yr old daughter that loves me to bits a...

Guy I like says he doesn't have feelings for me, but always gets in my business when I talk to other guys. Why does he do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Okay. I've been in love with a guy who is 2 years older than me. And i think the reason why i felt so deeply in love with him, is because of him checking me around. After some few months i was convinced that he felt the same, so i decided to explain ...

How do I keep routineness from taking over in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We have a really great relationship, with so many fun times. We even went through a year of long distance relationship, when I was at another school far away. We went through a lot. G...

G/f has intimate scenes in drama show, should I go to see it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is in a drama group and they are putting on a show. I really want to see her in action and be there for support but she has told me that she has a couple of intimate scenes with a guy. She said she would love to have me there but would ...

I want to spend my life with b/f but don't want to lose my youth as a consequence of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but we come from different backgrounds and have many differences. He is European and I am American; he is 27 and I am 19. We get somewhat jealous (e.g. when an old acquaintance stops to chat with him at ...

Is he scared or uninterested??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I met a gorgeous guy on Friday night and we got chatting. I found that we had so much in common and after a few hours, he kissed me and it was wonderful. We found out that we both play music, speak French, love animals, love travelling etc etc. - ...

My friend "loves" a guy that likes me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Ok, so one of my friends has a huge crush on a guy that likes me. She's not my best friend or anything like that, just a friend. She (lets call her H) has liked this guy, L, since the beginning of the year. She talks about him all the time and how ...

Girlfriend's family finds ways to keep us from seeing one another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Dear cupid I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing lelationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she doe...

I keep having dreams about dating this guy but in reality I don't like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Recently I've been having really strange dreams and I'm not sure what they mean. Over the last two weeks I've had about 3 or 4 similar dreams all about this guy I know. In all if them im on a date with this guy, nothing physical ever happens an it ...

Girlfriend asks me out to lunch but expects ME to pay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - i have problem. My gf of 18 months, pregnant for 8 months now and we work 2geta she said we have 2 go 4 just lunch on this cuming monday if i m off . Thats excite me very much i said and then she said u will pay and i told her i wont cause i dont ...

Do I tell her the truth about I wear contact lens now or not now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - hi can you help plz, i really like this girl but i never told her i wear contact lens, do i keep it quite for now or tell her when i see her. shes kind of already mad with me when i told her i liked her and she had a slight disagreement over tex...

My mom doesn't like the guy I'm dating so we are hiding it from her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - my dad died last january and now its only me and my mom, and now we are having arguments and fight because she wants me to stop my relationship with one guy because we have different race, religion. ive known this guy for 4 months only, and dated ...

Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - okay so i have rumors that this hottie vwith the body likes me all his best friends saying that he does. I really like him, but he's a total player. We barely talk and yeah. Is their a chance ? Apparently he has a thing with this girl, but his ...

Should I call him and ask him to be my long-distance boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I have a crush on this guy named zach but my friend likes him too. She is always talking about how they do the same things, which they don't! But he moved to new York but I have his phone number and Facebook but my friend has his phone number too. ...

I have a crush on her, what should I do?

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21 April 2011 (M) - New semester just started, and I’m crushing on a girl. Even though we’re in the same class, we’ve not talked to each other yet and I’m quite shy to talk to her. I think she likes me too because when she looks at and when I notice she's looking, she ...

I've been having hot dreams about my ex! How can I deal with the guilt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Okay so i've not been on here in ages but im in SERIOUS need of some advice! So ive been with my boyfriend now for over a year (lets call him J), though we've been on and off for over 3 years. Lately though, things have been kind of rocky and we'v...

Is it wrong to like another guy while you have a bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My bf and I started dating a few days ago.....I've dated him 2 other times this school year, and he knows I like someone else too, but is that wrong?...

Boyfriend was on a dating site and he wanted to meet "me"!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I receently had a tip off that my boyfriend has a profile on a dating site. The profile had pictures on it taken a few months ago and we've been together for nearly a year. I pretended to be someone else and got in contact. He replied and agreeed ...

What did this message mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My new Bf and I started dating a few days ago and then I got this message from him over facebook: (slightly edited so names aren't shown) "hey babe, you know the same day that you asked me out that my best friend did the same but after we started...

I want this creep to stop lurking around my social circle... What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Last week my boyfriend was at a party with his friends. At this party for some reason was a 29 year old man. This was a party hosted for teenagers by teenagers. This man had added a few of my friends on Facebook and he seemed to only interact with ...

How can I be more comfortable talking to women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - I have always been uncomfortable when talking to the opposite sex, especially when I am attracted to them. Once I get to know them better and have talked a few times, i become way more relaxed. This often makes me hestitant to start a conversa...

No money, no sex....can we survive on just love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My partner (50) and I have been together for 2 years now and he relocated to my town and moved in a year ago. We started a business not long after we met and as I have a good paying job it was assumed he would work in the business which I funded and ...

I am scared to start a life with my BF, because he doesn't have that financial security which I need. Am I being too picky and analytical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half. He's an amazing person and I love him, he's my best friend. We don't live together and for a while now he's been asking me when we're going to move in together. We've ...

I know he likes me, I just don't understand whats going on.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - hi, well this is kind of long, first of all, I feel ashamed to be this confused because i am 27 years old and should not be feeling like this. truth is up until a year a go, i was doing very good when it came to men. my two most relationships, w...

I hate to end a relationship over texting but I dont' know what to do anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - This is a really random question, but I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years now, and I'm not a big cell phone person. I believe that when you're in the company of other people, be it friends or especially your significant other, the ...

When it comes to intimacy, I'm turned off by my BF who weighs over 300 pounds!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is over 300 pounds. I don't love him any less because of his weight (I am also 130 pounds), but when it comes to intimacy I am turned off. I feel terrible to think this way but I can't help it. He is trying to lose weight but I am ...

Is my BF a racist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I have a issue with my man, he is half Hispanic and half white He is great and funny and sweet but there's this problem A few days ago.. He told me this racist joke Like what 3 things scares a black man away and then he said a educat...

I'm 43, he is 23......can it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I am 43 and started seeing someone who was 23. When i met him he was sharing a house with 2 other guys and was basically "single." To be honest, I didnt really care if or who he was dating, because I never intended to get involved with him. We ...

What can I do to keep my Bf? His parents want him to marry a richer higher status girl than me,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - hi all I have being going out with my bf for 5 years now.His parents were quite happy with our relationship and gave permission to continue it how about two years back his parents changed all of a sudden.. turned out to be rude and asked my bf ...

Was I too "innocent" for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I went to the club the other night with some friends and got pretty drunk and started dancing with this guy I thought was extremely attractive. I ended up going back to his place. I am a virgin and 21 years old, by the way, and did NOT have sex...

How much is too much when it comes to honesty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, Currently i'm in a relationship for 4 months with this girl i met...the thing is when she asked about my past, i only told her that i broke up with a girl once before about 2 yrs back..i never told her that a year after that i got...

Does this boy like me or not? Is he just being friendly? What does his behavior mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - Hey so I want to know if this guy likes me. This might get kind of long, but I really have to know. So I will call the guy "Bob" I will call another girl who also has a crush on Bob "Sandra" Part 1: Okay so I always thought that Bob was hot...

Should texting really be an issue in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - So I have a question, but I dont know if I am being silly or if I genuinely do have a point. Ive been going out with my bf now for almost 10 months and I really do love him and he tells me all the time when he sees me and he is ever so sweet an...

How to handle the question about previous relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - hi everyone, i was on a date a few days ago, and the conversation was going well untill the girl asked me when my last relationship was. im a 26 year old guy, and i was honest i said that i had never had a girlfriend before. she seemed horrified by ...

I just don't know how to move on from a relationship with a married woman that was all lust (for her).

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (M) - I just don't know how to move on from a relationship with a married woman that was all lust (for her). Before I carry on I know I was in the wrong but I will not make excuses for why I did it, but I had a relationship with a married woman wh...

I get so very jealous even if he is just talking to this girl who is just his friend. How do I contain my jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - so i have this problem. my problem is the one and only jealousy. i cant control it! i trust my boyfriend with my life, but its the other girls i dont trust. we have had a problem once before concerning another girl who was supposed to be my best ...