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Dating: Help and advice

I'm confused, am I bi or gay?

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11 April 2011 (M) - 3 years ago when i was 13 i discoverd i liked men and now im 15 i still like men but im not sure about girls anymore, im really confused right now so can i just have some advice please?...

What do you think of this guy? How do we go back to having original, striking conversations?

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11 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been on four dates with this one guy. He is a gentleman, makes me laugh uncontrollably and I am attracted to him. On our first date,we had a nice conversation,about the concentration camps in Germany, other political matters...

I like him but I'm scared to tell him. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I need help Please! Okay i have a friend he is really sweet i flirt with him some but he doesnt see it. I really like him and he's really cool. I have been thinking about seeing if he likes me but dont what to do or how to do it. I really like him...

I would be just friends, but I think my feelings for her will get in the way. Please help.

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11 April 2011 (M) - Her friends and family felt neglected and told her that she was spending too much time with me, even though she gave everyone an equal amount of time. She said her friends and family are more important than a boyfriend so she pushed me away. I agree ...

He tells white lies. We argue. I don't know how to solve this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I'm in desperate need of some relationship advice. This is going to be really hard to put into words, but i'll try my best :)... I have been with my partner for a year now, he is one year older then me (18). We get on so well, i love spending ti...

Am I crazy if I want something with him still?

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11 April 2011 (F) - I have a guy friend who ive known for a few years. We met last year in college and we ended up dating for only a few weeks last year. I came back from a trip and he told me that he still had feeling for his ex. We agreed to be friends, and i wasnt ...

I am uncomfortable with BF's drug use. Need advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Ive been back with my ex for 4 months were living together and im totally in love. i broke up with him 2 years ago coz of drugs and hes having a bit of trouble trying to forget how much hurt he went through but he only told me yesterday that he ...

Son is dating an older woman with children. How can I make him come to his senses?

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11 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I've been pretty confused about something lately and just can't seem to get my mind off of it. I'm really having a hard time figuring out why my son who is 22 y/o is dating this older woman who's 33 and has 2 kids (twins). I feel like he's ...

I want to go back on the dating site, but my ex is there. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - What do you think? would it be weird if I did this? ? ? My ex boyfriend and I met on a dating site, we dated for a long time, he told me he loved me everyday and I loved him a lot. But he lied to me, cheated and dumped me.. He really hurt me.. ...

He asked me about my monthly. Do you think he only wants me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for years and we agreed to meet this September but it worries me now that he might just see me for physical reasons and not really love me for who I am. Is it not offensive when an online bf will a...

Help ! I want him back! Please help decode post breakup conversation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I actually was the one who initiated the breakup, although you couldn't tell from this convo lol, and he said he agreed we weren't right for each other and that he was glad it was mutual and amicable. So this is about 2 weeks later. We work t...

What does he mean by saying, "I don't want to hurt you?"

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11 April 2011 (F) - I met this stranger not too long ago. We exchanged numbers and texted and called each other every day for a month then finally went out on a date. Everything went really well, and we set up some more dates. At the end of our second date he t...

Should I say, "Oh, I thought this was your number" as an excuse to ring him?

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11 April 2011 (F) - ahhh, cupid i need help!, ok well basically (this is the back story to my actual question)i was talking to this guy in the year above me at school and he really does seem to like me, well the first time we met it was raining an we both decided to ...

I messed up big time with my ex girlfriend. How can I make things right?

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11 April 2011 (M) - Its been 3 months since my break up with my ex, i believed she didn't love me, i believe she was dating around guys, and had sex with this one guy i had my suspicions with. So during the last 3 months i took up drinking and smoking (not heavily but ...

I'm too young to be in a relationship with no spark, but I'm afraid to leave. Please advise.

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11 April 2011 (F) - Hey everybody I need some help. Me and my now ex had been together for almost two years. And recently we had been on and off. I hadn't been happy with him for awhile, at the beginning he used to make me feel special, listened to, and wanted....

He tells me I should understand him. He promises not to leave. I don't know what to think. Help.

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11 April 2011 (F) - A guy proposed to me, but before i answered, i asked him if he had a girl friend. He told me that it doesn't depend on the girl friend one has but someone's choice, and that I am his choice. He said he had had many experience with women so therefor...

She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. Why?

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11 April 2011 (M) - Hi, Why is my ex girlfriend so cold? She told me she had feelings for me and then became an iceberg. She says she needs a month...does that mean she wasn't telling me the truth about loving me? I don't see how people could just switch their fee...

I don't know if I should keep this LDR or not. I feel he is the one.

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11 April 2011 (F) - I've been having long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We love each other so much. Both of our parents also agree with our relationship. Otherwise,sometimes I feel that it's too hard for me to keep go on with this relation...

Reasons BF gave me for breaking up with me are preposterous. I am heartbroken.

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11 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has recently broken up with me. We were in a relationship for more than 4 years, this being the 5th year. (Additional Info:- He was my first ever boyfriend and he said I was his first too. At the beginning we had a wonderful relation...

I want to stop playing games and seriously get her attention. How?

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11 April 2011 (M) - i really, really, like this girl which i was sort of friends with...when she found out about it...she lost her respect for me completely...she hasnt been talking to me much as compared to other guys such as my own friends, she said she doesnt really ...

Should I just forget him, or do you think my hoping won't be in vain?

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11 April 2011 (F) - It's been a year and a half since my ex and I broke up, and I'm still not over him. He was my first everything, first real boyfriend, first guy I had sex with, first love. The only reason we broke up was because he moved away to a different country. ...

We got back together. I think he's cheating but he says no. What can I do?

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11 April 2011 (F) - i think my bfs cheating on me we broke up about 2 weeks ago but got back together bout a week go but ever since hes been acting weird. he does not text me no more and only phones when hes in work and then i dont hear of him till the next day. when i ...

She'll want sex. How can I show her she is worth more than that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - okay um, where to start... well i've known this girl for about 6 years (we'll call her Chloe) and i've liked her for a good while now. i'd love to have a relationship with her; the problem is she has a reputation for sleeping around and i'm still a ...

Can one really fall in love at 15?

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11 April 2011 (F) - Hello! Apparently, this time I wanted to consult the experts if it is normal to start falling in love at the tender age of 15? One of my good friends, Jen, said that she had this......for a boy.......I personally find it weird and my mom and grandma ...

What can I do to get back at him for all the pain he has caused me?

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11 April 2011 (F) - I am going to make a long story short, so if u want more info just ask. My ex and i dated for three months and then he dumped me, he told me while we were split up that he still loved me, that he fucked up, he wants another chance, and was kissing ...

Tossing BF's pregnant friend and son out isn't an option. Need advice on my relationship with BF.

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11 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years. (Me-26, Him-29) The problem is his best friend, who happens to be female. Over the years, she's lived with my boyfriend off and on as she's trying to get on her feet. She has a son from a ...

I had sex with my GF and my sister heard. What do I do if she mentions it to me?

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11 April 2011 (M) - im 15 and have recently had sex with my girlfriend. people started to know and it got to my sisters friend. her friend told my sister and now she knows. im really paranoid that it will come up in conversation. im really close to my sister but now i ...

I can't stop loving him, and he can't stop confusing me. Please advise.

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11 April 2011 (F) - There's this guy, who i love since year 9. Well, he has a girlfriend which is my friend, but not close. I know it's wrong but i don't flirt or do anything. Except eye-contacts. When i first met him, i just felt like he's different from the others. ...

My jealousy is ruining our relationship. Help!

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11 April 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now and recently have known how jealous i can get the jealousy is changing who i am and i hate it and dont know what to do about it it's also changing how i feel about my bf i keep telling myself he ...

I threw myself at him, Did he lose respect for me? Is there a chance of turning this around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - dated this guy I work w/ for a while, it was steady, intense and consistent. Then I pulled away bc he wasn't spending enough time w/ me. I had hoped he would try to work it out w/ me, but he didn't..he just let me go. I mean, canceled our weekend ...

He has lied to make himself seem cooler. Should I forgive these kinds of lies?

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11 April 2011 (F) - Ok let's see... Well a couple months ago I met an awesome person online. Like I've seriously never met anyone like him before... it started out casually talking and over a few weeks we talked more then decided to call each other a couple. Thing is ...

She doesn't meet my criteria for a life partner. Should I stay or should I go?

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11 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I've been doing a lot of thinking. I am unsure about how much I love her because when we're away from each other I sometimes miss her, but more often than not end up think...

Contraception and pregnancy. How far should one plan for the unplanned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - When you have sex there is no guarantee you will not get pregnant, because even when you do use contraception you can use it the wrong way, and no contraception can claim to be 100 percent safe either. I do trust in the contraception I use, and that ...

How does a tit wank work?

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11 April 2011 (F) - I apologise in advance as i don't know a nicer way to word it and i don't want this to seem inappropriate but how would a tit wank work? Like how would you sit? Does it even work anyway? Especially seeing as my boyfriend is quite a bit ta...

He walks all over me. I want him to respect me. How do I do it?

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11 April 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have low self esteem. My boyfriend senses this so he feels that things are super "safe" with me because I will never leave him. So sometimes he enjoys driving me up the wall and rarely apologizes anymore. Most days he's sweet but some...

He'll never be anything more than a liar. We had 2 weeks planned. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been in long distance relationship for almost two years now. We see each other every weekend, and yesterday he arrived here and is going to stay with me for 3 weeks (we did this before, in August last year and it was grea...

GF is a workalcoholic. We are to be married in 3 months. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (M) - I dont know who else to turn to. Its really getting to the point where I dont know what to do. sorry if its long, but yeah. My Fiancee and I are getting married in about 3 months. For the last year, she has been doing freelance work to save up ...

5 Months. Is it time to have a serious conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy 5 months ago, we've been dating ever since. He is older than me but that's not an issue, the time we spend together is amazing. I'm starting to have feelings for him and I'm a little scared because I really don't know if he is looking ...

Why isn't this guy making any moves? Is he gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Im a 14 year old girl and i have a crush on this guy in my class.Well i thought he liked me back so i started staring at him alot to get him to make the first move.Well He started looking at me the way i looked at him and i felt he had a crush on me ...

43 and trying to start over

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - hi, im 43, divorced, 3 kids and in a relationship for 8 months now, my question is, should i be expecting long term plans and commitment??? should i be included in vacations with his family and kids after a year, or it is normal for us to be havin...

He lied about his age, should I see him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

11 April 2011 (?) - Ok I got know this guy over the phone, we talk everyday and text. recently went on a date with him and found out he lied about his age. Turns out he is 9 yrs older tha me, there were a few other little things that I didnt really like, but these ...

Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy that i really like and i'm not sure if he likes me. He is one of my older brothers friends, and only one year then me. At the skating rink he asked my brother if he could ask me to couples skate with him. I thought it was sweet. T...

Will he try something if he comes to my house?

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11 April 2011 (F) - I met him about two months ago - and I've been told by several people that he's a bit of a man slut, if you know what I mean...he talks to me when he's drunk asking for sex and calls me mean when I say no. I've told him I haven't 'done anything' and ...

Fallen for my doctor - if I tell him how I feel, what would be the consequences?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I’ve been this doctor’s patient for about 10 months now.i see him every 2 month. i’m in my early 20's. For all these months, I never showed my feelings to him. I never even asked him about his personal life other than medical-related questions(I ...

This is more than just a crush on my best friend......what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - i'm in love with my best friend and don't know what to do because i can't tell him and i don't know if he feels the same way though whenever we're together lately it feels like something is there and our friend thinks so too. whenever he touches my ...

Should I just ignore him and hope he will want to be with me again or should I try and break my ex and his new GF's relationship??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I can't get over my ex. He has a New girlfriend and says he is happy but I want him back, I'm still in love with him, we have a baby together and just want to be a family. Do I just ignore him and hope he will want to be with me again or do I be a ...

He wont give his opinion but then complains when I make decisions without him

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11 April 2011 (F) - I don't understand this. I ask my boyfriend for his opinion on something and he acts neutral about it. Then when I make a choice and it was the "wrong" one, he then has an opinion and tells me then he is mad that I made the wrong choice. This has ...

He cheated and came back to give me a STD, should I tell the other girl?

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11 April 2011 (F) - Okay so I've been dating this guy for 10 months and I fell in Love with him because he took my virginity and I couldn't dream of being with no one else. Recently he cheated and Came Back and Gave me an Std ... and Left me For a Girl I Know. ...

I miss my ex! Should I contact him again?

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11 April 2011 (F) - So this guy and I broke up 6 months ago I still haven't gotten over him sadly...i miss him. The break up was really bad it was mostly my fault..but I really want to talk to him. He deleted me off Facebook back when we split. Is adding him again like ...

I really like her a lot, and want to know how to get her attention!

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11 April 2011 (M) - So I've found this girl and she really makes me feel... I cant really explain the feeling =/. I guess "alive" would be the word. After a bad breakup with my ex a couple of months ago i thought it'd be impossible to find another girl to make me feel ...

Ignored.

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11 April 2011 (F) - Alright so recently I confronted my boyfriend about that I thought he was cheating but.. that's not the problem anymore because I trust him now. Although, one thing I've noticed since is.. he's staring to ignore me.. today we was going out and ea...

Am I the only female out there who feels a million decades older than I actually am due to a partner's inattention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now, and throughout that time I've always made an effort to keep myself looking good, groomed and special just for him. He's never been a style horse but he used to at least shave, put on a nice shi...

Was I wrong to contact his mother? I haven't heard from her since.

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11 April 2011 (F) - was i wrong for contacting his mum? in a LDR and ive met his mother and mailed her on facebook a couple of times. my boyfriend has recently got a severe case of depression and last night I have never been so terrified, i made myself physica...

If he wanted me he would initiate it, right? Or is he just scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - So I dated a guy for a 3 months and everything was amazing. He introduced me to his parents, friends... and then he started getting distant so I asked him waht was going on... He said he likes being with me, but he didn't think he could give me ...

Sleeping with a girl who is "involved". I want more. Please help.

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11 April 2011 (M) - I met a great girl a few months ago and have recently started sleeping with her. The problem is she is in a long distance relationship with a guy in another country. We spend a lot of time together but I get the feeling I'm more into her than s...

What he just telling me what I wanted to hear? How do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

11 April 2011 (F) - Hi there. Kinda a long story so please bear with me. I was engaged to my Fiancé "M" for almost a year. We have been dating for 3 years and living together almost that long as we dated a long time ago. He is 27 and I am 25. Him and I had many many ...

Not sure what to do about lecturer who is jealous when I get male attention.

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11 April 2011 (F) - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and ...

He wants to see me again, but I don't know if I can trust him. What should I do?

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11 April 2011 (F) - So me and this guy have been best friends since freshman year in high school. (We have graduated now) We were also friends with benefits the entire time of our friendship. We always talked about dating, but when we would get close to dating he would ...