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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hello, I guess I just need someone to talk to. I'm 22 and I have never been in a relationship. I have a horrible scary feeling in the back of my mind that I will be alone for the rest of my life. I cannot imagine any woman who would think I'm good enough to be in a relationship with. I would really love to be with someone who I love. I enjoy going out with my friends but they always end up pairing off by the end of the night and I'm left alone again. At first I didn't mind this but now it is so predictable and happens so often that it has just made me feel a bit lonely. I really don't know what to do!I'm not a downer to be with (you probably won't believe that from what you've just read!) I'm usually good fun to be with and to go out with, I have many interests and I'm quite creative (I love music and play guitar and drums) and I most certainly don't spend all my time brooding about my problems! :-) I never talk about these things to anyone I know because people don't want to hear about my whiny, stupid problems! But everyone needs to vent somewhere! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, RamAndJam +, writes (5 April 2011):
my bad i meant man i didnt see you were a female
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reader, RamAndJam +, writes (4 April 2011):
hey, hooking up and dating is not the only thing in life. i am 21 and have been in 2 relationships my whole life. i have had many and i mean many instances where i could have hooked up for a one night stand, but thats not me. I have too much respect for myself and the woman around me. what you need to do is find friends that have similar interests as you and wont just ditch you as soon as a piece of ass struts by. a woman will come along eventually that will meet you standards, just dont go looking for it. in my opinion girlfriends (and boyfriends if your gay) are overated, they bitch, complain, wine, and take your money lol. just enjoy being young and surround yourself with loyal friends and everything will fall into place.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (4 April 2011):
Hey =)You are still really young. Late blooming. You WILL find someone. There is someone for everyone. You just gotta keep looking and eventually it will happen. Just be patient. =)Hope this helps
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