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Archived questions from: 22 April, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I've had to cancel seeing her a few times, she has family problems, what can I do to make her feel better??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing relationship. Really. We love each other Now the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does somet...

He wants to be in the military, I am anxious now in our relationship, what do I do when he leaves for war??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - My fiancee wants to join the marines and be a sniper. I really dont want him to go and i cry just thingking about it, i got him to agree before that he wouldnt go but it always comes back up. So sence it would make him happy i finally said ok. But i ...

He wants a house here, I don't, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - At the beging of the year, I started to see my ex boyfriend again and things are going great. But now he want's to buy a house and settle down. I really love him and care for him but I hate living in this town and so does he so I don't understand ...

Found someone I love, my old friend is back, so are the old feelings, what do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, i have a very big problem, you probably get it a lot here. I dont know. My problem started when i was in high school. I fell in love with my best friend, we did nearly everything together, going to the cinema and such. The only probl...

I found a text from another woman and it's tearing me apart!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - hi i neeed some help.. i would realy appreciate every reply Basically I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years our relationship was going extremely well we were like sole mates we trusted each other with all our heart..I could feel his l...

How can you tell if a guy only wants sex or does he really care about you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Hi guys. Can you tell me how you know a guy only wants to sleep with you? Are there signs, things he does, says, etc. that shows you he only wants sex with you? And if he really cares about you as a person and has feelings for you besides the...

Why does my ex keep saying we will get back together? He's someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - i am still in love with my ex we were together for almost 3 years and had a son together. we seperated 2 months ago and just cant move on. plus my ex keeps giving me hope that we will be getting back together he just wants space. and he told me that ...

I need creative ideas for a date for my husband and I!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I need help on a date idea for me and my husband. We have been having ALOT of problems lately and I have decided for ME TO TAKE HIME on a date. He has told me I’m boring before and that is b/c i probably am. I'd much rather stay at home than go out ...

Does anyone ever feel sexually inadequate when they know their partner has had many more partners before you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Does anyone ever feel sexually inadequate when they know their husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend has had many more partners before you? I'm in a very loving relationship with a wonderful man. We've discussed marriage multiple times and we're both ...

He stares at other women, but he has not let me seen him naked in over a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Help!!! I have been dating this man for almost 2 yrs now. It started great (as they usually do), but feels as though it is going down hill fast! I am a very sexually active and at the beginning of our relationship he informed me that flirting is ...

He became controlling. Pinned me down. Do I get back with him, or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - i was with my bf for 8 months. I'm 17, he's 18. It was a good relationship at first. He was a great laugh, made me smile, took me places. It was great. 6 months into the relationship however, he changed. He got controlling, aggressive, overprot...

How close can a guy be with a female friend, when in a committed relationship with another girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - How close can a guy be to him female friends when in a committed relationship with a girl? What are the things that a boyfriend can and cannot do with female friends when he is committed to someone?...

Our sex life is suffering, we're bickering, and now he's acting shady on Facebook!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some advice and anything given will be appreciated. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months. He's lovely and treats me like a princess, however recently things between us have been a bit difficult. We have...

Can dating a woman who is separated be legitimate if her husband doesn't know about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - Hi, Thanks for any help on this. I have recently become involved with someone who works close to me. It started out simply as emails which graduated to a certain intimate aspect. We have since become physically involved. She is currently sep...

Pointers on Asking your friend out on a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - I've decided on asking one of my female friends out on a date. Do you guys have any tips on how I should go about doing this? For instance, since we're already pretty good friends is it appropriate If I were to simply text her saying something like ...

Friends, feelings and more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - i am a girl in need of some advice this is my 'question'. i have a friend who i have caught feelings for. This is a long distance friend and i think they may have feelings for someone else. This other person is a friend of theirs and she is ver...

My g/f thinks my cousin's love interest likes me and is telling me not to talk to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Hello cupids :) So a couple of nights ago went to a party, both my cousin and I are lesbians, I went with my girlfriend but we didn't hang out much. Well my cousins sort of fling was there and she is very nice, not my type at all, well my girlfrie...

How do I gracefully avoid an awkward situation of being pressured?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Hello aunts! I would like to start off by saying that I am 14 and a high school freshman. Four days ago, an 18 year old high school senior asked me out. Please don't judge the ages, I am aware. He's leaving for boot camp next fall and I do not ...

Body Language: Is It Really Reliable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Okay, so to keep this short, essentially there's this man I'm crushing on, hard...And I think he likes me too because I've done some reading up on male body language, like stuff guys do when they're interested in a girl, and he does almost ...

Is he just "settling" for me? And what about my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - {Moderator note: Two questions from the same poster combined} How do you know if a guy is settling for you? I think my boyfriend is settling for me. I feel like when we first met, he wasn't that into me. Even now he says that I make a good gir...

We had make-up sex and then I find he has a girlfriend?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - So, this guy and me quit talking for six months and the the other night he showed up asking me to forgive him. Well, i did. He said he was sorry and i wanted to be close again. Then one thing lead to another we had sex. He hasn't talked to me since. ...

Is he gay and if not, is he dateable?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - I know a good looking, cultured, intelligent, highly educated, employed guy in his 40s. I am very attracted to him. However, he is kind of effeminate. He could be a metro. I found out that he lives with another guy and that they have lived ...

Confused about threesome.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - Hello. I never asked anything about that before, so it's kinda weird to me right now, but i really need some advice. Here's is what is going on. A few months later i had a threesome with my girlfriend and a female friend of ours and it was very ...

She asks me for help, for advice at all hours of the day and night...and then finally when I ask her out she says she just likes me as a friend!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

22 April 2011 (M) - OK I had this friend, a girl, who I was interested in, right. And she probably knew it, I mean how could she not since I went outta my way to help her. Now she would call me for advice, for help when she was in trouble. And I would always help her...

How do I get him to notice me?

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22 April 2011 (?) - Ok, so I'm 20, at Uni and almost all of my friends are in relationships. I'm a virgin. I've been in 'love' with this guys for nearly 3 years, but he doesn't even know I exist. Well, he does, but he seems to like to pretend he doesn't. I'm ...

We're on different pages and I'm just not sure what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Alright, so, I'm sixteen years old and I have a boyfriend that I've been with for a couple of weeks now. (Not very long) He's eighteen and a senior. (I'm a sophomore) Believe it or not, before him, I had never kissed a guy. But he invited me to prom ...