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Dating: Help and advice

He's in love with me but my feelings seem to change everyday

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - So I have never been more confused in my life. I've known this guy for three years and we have always been good friends and recently he told me he's madly in love with me. I feel like I have feelings for him but my friends tell me I can do so much ...

Do I confront him to what my psychic said or do I keep quiet and say nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - i am at my wits end. I just dont know how to go about this situation, i am hoping i get some advice on what to do here i go .. I saw a pyschic the other day, and he was spot on about a lot of things that he could not possibly know of. but the one ...

Is it okay to be smooth with women when your committed to your lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - What level off flirting is acceptable? Is it acceptable to flirt when you are in a fully committed relationship? I ask this question because i have no intention of cheating or getting with anyone other than the one i love. However saying that ...

Everyone at work knows he cheated. Besides that he is good to me. Should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I can't see a clear path in my situation ....... that is where your advice comes in...... SO my BF of 3 years(now) with whom I have been living with for 2 years cheated on me last year with a coworker. It lasted 3 months and he ended it. He said he ...

We're doing all the work. Should we break up with our boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hello so i have this new boyfriend i really want to make the new relationship work but i feel like im making all the effort. My best friend is with one of his friends so for the school holidays we have been spending time with them the first da...

My BF’s friend has an open relationship and is trying to influence my BF to do the same. It’s a mess. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I have two friends who are married. My long-term (over 4 years) boyfriend and I met them about 2 years ago and we quickly became good friends with them. We would vacation with them, hang out in our spare time at our house or theirs, and so on. ...

What can I do to put the spark back into my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - What can i do to put the spark back into my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and we have just been through a very rough patch, in which we argued a lot, and a lot of hurtful things were said. We are over it now, but we s...

BF is a financial burden We are to be married. It's really getting me down. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm in bed today feeling pretty down. I'm in my 20's, engaged and feeling very stressed right now. I'm a medical professional, just decided to change employers from a stable community hospital to a prestigious teaching institution. ...

She's wrong for me and I know it, but I am obsessed with her. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I have worked to keep a distance from a bad relationship. We broke up, I know it is right, she was sapping me of everything and I became very depressed, and still am. The thing is I have an unhealthy obsession with her. I have not contacted her fo...

When he heard I had a thing for him, I got nervous and denied it. But I really do. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I know this might sound like in jumping to conclusion and all that usual stuff but I'm really confused. I've known this guy for ages and we are friends, it was always a thing of will they won't they and it looked promising until a couple of months ...

Who is wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - boyfriend cheated on me now he cant have any female friends. And im not supposed to have any either but on xbox live im new to it and a guy on there messaged me and said hey so i said hi. My boyfriend got pissed because i talked to a guy and hes not ...

I'm Chinese and her mom hates Chinese people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I have a little problem. I have met my current girlfriend online and have known her for over two years now. We recently began seeing each other but she hasn't told her mom about me yet. The problem is that her mom hates chinese and I am chinese. She ...

What if my perfect guy is out there and I'm dating the wrong man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Just looking for some general advice from both guys and girls.......my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now......he is my first boyfriend and before i met him i always had a picture built up in my mind of the perfect guy for ...

The only person that makes my twin sister happy is her best friends ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hiya there. I need your help. My twin is stuck and she isn't a member of this site so I said I'd let her write it on mine. Well first off, about 3 years ago she was in love with this boy called 'R'. They had a thing going off for ages. They would...

I think she is moving in on my BF. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - A girl kissed my boyfriend, well that's all that happened. apparently he pushed her off straight away and didn't kiss her back. i was hurt but forgave him, today she rang him when i was with him but he ignored the call and i said why dont you text...

I'm shy. How can I turn this into more than a friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Im 15 and I've had a thing for this guy I know for ages and a friend recently said that it was pretty obvious that he likes me. Me and this guy are friends and when we are together we get on really well but it has never gone past just having a laugh ...

First time and it really hurt. Is this just the way it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now, and recently decided to have sex. however, i had to stop because it hurt a lot i know it is meant to hurt but does it hurt that much?! also when i went to the toilet it hurt to wee, is this rig...

GF went through my messages from before I was with her. She has lost trust and respect for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Hi there, Ive been with my girlfriend for four months but seeing each other for about 6 and it is an extremely strong relationship where we are already talking about a future together. The problem is, she went through my messages on facebook from ...

How right is it to lie in order to meet your gf/bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) - I am 22 years old. I have just finished college and now I'm back in my hometown. During my last year there, I got into a relationship with a guy who belongs to that city but is now doing an internship near to my hometown. He plans to visit me soon. ...

BF fears I will go back to my crush. I dream about my crush a lot. Is BF on to something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - hey people, i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend who i love very very very much and i've been with him for ten months. the problem is he is really paranoid that i'll end up fancying the guy i used to have a crush on (because he's quite good ...

My depression ends the relationship every time. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I dont know where to start. but i've been with a boy on and off for just over 2 years. I love him! But i suffer from depression and everytime im in a relationship with him, my depression takes over an it always ends. We decided to leave it and just ...

Reason guys visit toilet so often?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) - Hi all. I have a question. Is there any particular reason why guys would go to the toilet a lot whilst on a date, apart from the obvious reason of course....

The rule is no dating at my uncle's factory. She is causing people to talk. What does she want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education but I'll be with my uncle for a while in his factory where i work. in his factory speculates no relationship of opposite sex is allowed. I've been ...

I'm angry, confused and hurt at the way my ex is treating me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) - I have been on here so many times with my marriage separation, here I am again needing your help, I have two gentlemen who have emailed me, to take me out somehow my ex got a hold of the emails and emailed them back telling them I was not ...

Can you help me figure out why he is out of reach?

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14 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy online for a year now.. we been in a long distance relationship.. we talk for hours, we share pics, we share everything.. he even told me he wants me to be his wife, the mother of his kids and wanting to marry me when he come to my ...

Do you believe in full disclosure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - This issue is really about how much someone should really share with their bf/gf. I'm not trying to be secretive for the sake of it. My boyfriend and I have had very, very different lives. His has been very normal and he hasn't gone through man...

What can I take or do to reduce the size of my breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hi cupid friend! I will really appreciate if you all can find the solution to my problem and it goes... There is this guy i love and he really love me too, but the problem is that he complain how big my breast is. Please help me, what should i take ...

I'm not sure if he's just being nice or he's generally interested.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hey im starting to like a workmate ..thing is im really shy and so is he and im not good with picking up signals at all so any help with be great :) a few possible signs this week stirring me up saying this other guy was my bf even though its ...

Tips for lasting longer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Hey guys I have a bit of a sex problem arising. I'm not going to say I am the most gifted at it by any means so here's the problem. I'm dating this girl who has been with a few guys in the past and during sex not one of them has been able to las...

Do you think this will get "A's" attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I'm attracted to this guy lets call him 'A' but he seems shy so he has never spoken to me but gives this impression that he is also attracted. Anyways, his friends with this other guy we'll call him 'B' who i've spoken to once and he hangs round ...

B/f was lying to me and meeting a girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I can't stop feeling jealous when my boyfriend speaks to other girls. I've been with him for over a year now and although I don't like to throw the word love around I'm happy to say I don't want to be leaving him for a very long time :) The problem ...

Dating 3 years and he's still contacting former lovers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Why does the guy im seeing for a little under 3 years still in constant contact with all his ex gf and lovers? He texts sends pictures and talks to them daily. When asked he says I had a relationship with them and no reason to stop talking to them. ...

I don't know how he feels about me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Well, I have been texting this boy for a couple of months now, after we met at a party. We get on really well and always have contact on a daily/ every other day basis. At a party last week we made out with eachother and then yesterday we were ...

How do I pick up some clues to see if he is interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - hey guys... im crushing on a guy i work with , hes awesome but im not sure his status cos hes new :) the thing is im really shy and really dont want to make an idiot out of myself if hes not interested so im just wanting some clues on how to ...

Any ideas on doing something different on a date? We have done the cinema, going for meals, nights in....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Can you guys give me some ideas on doing something different on a date. We have done the cinema, going for meals, nights in. Any ideas much appreciated....

What should I do about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I really like this guy. I could of swore he liked me. he would flirt with me all the time.He would sit by me in class.Sometimes he would put his arm around touch my hand.Then one day he asked me to ask out one of my friends for him.I was so ...

How do I stop being insecure about my boyfriend's ex-crush, as it's really bothering me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's ex - crush is a girl in his gang of closest friends. She recently threw a hint at him that she is now interested in him, again. He later told me that though he wished he had heard this hint from her when he had liked her, he now does...

My girlfriend of 8 years told me last week that she hasn't got the same feelings anymore. My life has come crashing down!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Please my girlfriend of 8 years last week told me she hasn't got the same feelings anymore. I always thought we were great together as does others Iam devastated sick everything you could think of we are both from different countries so I've ...

Is it too late to ask her out with only 2 days until she leaves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Alright, so there is this girl who lives in the room next to me in residence at university and about 2 weeks ago she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but she seemed to be over it from what I gathered. Anyway, since then I have ...

32 Year Old male virgin, no luck with girls, thinking of going to an escort. My religious side says no and my masculine side says hell yes!! Anyone in a similar situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I'm 32 and am a complete and utter disaster when it comes to relationships. I am good looking, I'm not obese or anything, I can approach girls and talk to them, but I seem to always say the wrong thing and turn them off. I have followed the advice ...

I'm almost 28, still never had an official relationship, obsessing over a loser I once dated briefly. I'm getting closer and closer to becoming that crazy cat lady!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Ok, here's the gist: I dated a guy for 9 months, but it wasn't ever serious. Then he moved away and that was that, and this was almost 2 years ago! We have remained in contact and I saw him twice after he left, and we hooked up both times. It'...

My life has been a roller coaster of ups and downs, and now I want to shed the inhibitions that stop me from doing what I want to do because of the paranoia I feel all the time...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I've just turned 29. I feel massively self conscious all the time. I feel and do stupid stuff like walking down the road, I dread when the lights turn red because people in cars are more likely to notice me. I lower my music in my car when I am...

She is trying to 'work on herself' what does that mean? and why did she want to break up if she still wants to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - what does it mean when you breakup and the girl is trying to work on herself and she still wants to be friends ? Why would she want to still be friends when she did not want to stay in a relationship with me? ...

Should I ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - i'm confused, there is a guy who is older than i am and he told me that he is interested in me. i wasn't sure at first but now have fallen in love with him. i recently told him that it would be nice if we could talk more often and spend more time ...

Best boy-friend into boyfriend? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - There is this best friend I have since I was a little girl. He acts really cute when hes with me, but when somebody talks about being in a relationship we say "no way!" anyway, I want to take the next big step. How do I tell him without ruining our ...

I fall, they leave, am I too nice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Why does this ALWAYS happens to me? what is wrong with me:(? i really dont know what is wrong with me but every time i fall for a guy tends to leave me:( it always starts off so great, so sweet then he'd get distant and leave. am not a horri...

He is verbally abusive and very controlling, why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - hi, im heather i jus turned 17 on monday. and ive been off and on with this guy who has jus turned 21 a few days before me since christmas. theres a few things that are really bothering me 7 i would jus likwe some insight on why hes treating me ...

The more sexy the woman the more likely she filters for sucessful men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - For women. The more attractive the woman, the more likely she filters for successful men? Or does it just turn out that those men just happen to be more (or become more) successful than average?...

Is he afraid of a relationship or does he just not like me? Whats with all the mixed signals??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - So I have had this guy friend, Alex, for a while and we never reall talked much at all until about a month ago. (we are both 16 by the way) He started texting me everyday for like a week and a half and then we kind of hung out. I just went with him ...

Want to move on, date someone new but am afraid to ask someone out

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14 April 2011 (F) - i'm 24 years old with a 3 week old baby in a shitty apartment writting on an peace of crap labtop. with no job and zero friends due to the fact i lost them all because i was so wrapped up with my ex. who by the way i still love but f*** off when i ...

Had sex with a guy who has a GF, my ex got mad at me and we broke up; now he wants me back. I want him and also the other guy, who's ready to break up with his GF for me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Im in a delema... Im deprived between 2 guys and i dont know what to do. It all started with my boyfriend, He was a great boyfriend and so sweet. But hes a virgin, and hes so nervous( which i do think is cute :) )... he always makes me happy, but ...

I fell for a girl but I don't think she likes me in the same way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I fell for a girl recently and have been trying as hard as I can to get her to like me back. Were seeing each other next week but I always get the sense she only sees me as a friend. Also I think she likes another person, they seem to flirt almost ...