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I'm not sure I want to kiss him

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Question - (4 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well I have this boy that I really like and he asked my if i would be his girlfriend. I said yes because i relly like him. But now he wants to kiss me and I am not sure if i want to. What can I say to him and what can I do?

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A male reader, honestman Mexico +, writes (5 April 2011):

"What can I say to him and what can I do?"

Tell him you don't feel ready for kissing. But that you would like something like hugging , or holding hands. Be creative. He needs to respect your decisions.

Later in the relationship, you'll know when is the right moment for kissing.

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A male reader, RamAndJam United States +, writes (4 April 2011):

just tell him you're not ready and leave it at that if he truly like you for you then he will understand and respect it

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A female reader, Ima FreAk!  United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2011):

Ima FreAk!  agony auntHiyaaaa,I

Relationships doesn't have to be sexual as in lip-smacking and all that what not but it can be about friendly touching you know... throw in a bit of the flirty eye! :P

If you don't wanna kiss him tell him that your not ready and that kisses should be about you wanting to do it not for the sake of other people because you end up having a terrible experience and you think "what was I thinking!!!!!"

If he truly love you he would accept it and hey on the bright side at least your being honest with him and honestly is the best policy!

Hope my advice helps!

Good luck!

Lots of love,

Ima FreAk!

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