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Dating: Help and advice

I'm vain but have no confidence in myself

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12 April 2011 (M) - I am 16 years old and I have no confidence in myself whatsoever and I am a vain person. I am shy of girls, and intimidated. I do not know how to "be myself" because i just don't. I always find myself trying to be someone else...that is just how I ...

My LDR boyfriend wants to be "just friends"....and its killing me! I'm a mess...How do I deal with this right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Ok I wrote in before about my LDR bf getting super depressed suddenly about everything and losing all emotions etc. I need help again. He didnt come online last night but did tonight and he said he did some thinking and that he wants us to...

Do I tell my bofriend the truth and say I can't move in with him yet and risk upsetting him, or do I tell my parents I'm moving out in 5 days and risk upsetting them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am in a really big mess at the moment and need help getting out if it! My boyfriend asked me to move in with him a few weeks ago, I said yes and I am really looking forward to living with him but I haven't told my parents yet because they are ...

I feel unappreciated and I don't know where this relationship is going...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hiya:) Right my question is about my boyfriend. It may seem like something very petty and silly to ask about it, but it's making me reconsider our relationship, so it's something to me and I'd be so grateful with any advice! Basically, I was 'seei...

Never fooled around before and don't want to be bad at it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Im almost twenty, and ive had many opportunites to have sex and hook up. For some reason, ive just chosen not to do any of that. I havent really dated that much because i like being single. But now im ready for a relationship or a fling but im ...

What would be the right way/time to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I'm in my third year of college and I've started to develop feelings for a classmate of mine. I've known him since I started. By pure coincidence we ended up working together on group assignments every time. We get along really well. He makes me ...

How big of an influence are friends on a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - my ex is 22 yrs old. I'm 25. Which is a pretty big difference in terms of partying and settling down, etc. Our relationship was fine until one night when we met his friends. I felt like none of them liked me. Like, because i didn't find smoking a ...

How to deal with her at the prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I have a prom in a few days...and the girl i like and wanted to go with knows this and says to one of my friends that she doesnt really like me. Now on top of that...she is bringing a guy from outside school to the prom with her...she has also rec...

He loves his girlfriend but can't stay away from me

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12 April 2011 (F) - I am 17 and I am in love with a man who is 29 in a few months. He lives with his girlfriend and I have been seeing him on and off for 2 years. He thinks it's just a fun thing and doesn't know how I really feel, I have told him I loved him before but ...

Could I have "commitment phobia"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hiya! Well... I think I have a commitment phobia! But im not exactly aware of it. Like right now i'm thinking if the right guy came along, i'd love to be in a relationship. But the thing is, when any guy comes along and I get to know him and then he ...

How can I keep our relationship strong when we have to hide it from my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Essentially my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month, and we're both in love. I don't expect people to believe you can be in love at 14, and that its probably infatuation but whatever it is makes me happy. We haven't told our parents- ...

I had a dream my crush gave me a bad kiss.What does it mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I had a dream last night that I was kissing a man that I've had a crush on for the past two years. Suprisingly, it was a really bad kiss. What can this mean?...

Confused--does he like me or not?

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12 April 2011 (F) - I can't but feel the guy I last posted about is leading me on. That, or he actually does like me. We were talking last night, and he was complimenting me. I know it's natural to compliment somebody, but he told me he doesn't like leading people o...

I really like my friend's older brother, how can I let him know?

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12 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I just wanted a bit of advice - i really fancy my friends older brother. He's really cute and lovely and we're into the same stuff and things. I think (hopefully anyway!) that he feels the same, and if we did get together I think my ...

B/f's family hates me and is making me miserable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I love him very much and he makes me happy. We only have one problem his family. They are such busy bodies and have to know everything about our relationship. They treat him like a child and he is ...

In love with a guy who won't date me because of my age.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Ok, this might sound a little odd but I really need some help if you can give it! I am in love with a guy I met once about six weeks ago and spent only about 3 hours with him. He barely knows I exist, I am sure he doesn't even remember that nig...

What do you think about the potential of this relationship: should we try again?

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12 April 2011 (F) - The Relationship: We get along great. We have similar humor and personality. We enjoy the same TV shows and always had a pleasant, easy time together. But we didn't always have a lot to talk about or share a lot of common interests. We...

Does she truly care for me and how do I handle her current behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education but I'll be with my uncle for a while in his factory where I work. In his factory speculates no relationship of opposite sex is allowed. I've been ...

Feeling used!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. This is the healthiest, most loving relationship I've ever been in and I love him dearly. When we first met, he had a great job, a nice place and we went out all the time. About a year in, we ...

Is it illegal to date a step cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Is it illegal to date a step cousin? Or better yet, a first step cousin? I have a huge problem. Over the past weekend, me and my step cousin have gotten really close. I may have some strong feelings for him, and im pretty sure my family would ...

Dating my closest friend, but it still feels more like 'friends'. How can we change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I've just got into a relationship with 1 of my closest friends of 3 years. I know we taking a risk with our friendship but as much as we try we can't let go of the feelings we have for each other so we got together. Anyway there's still a problem is ...

Would this be enough of a 'gift' for an anniversary?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (?) - From a male point-of-view, I know guys aren't the most materialistic people in the world. So let's say your girlfriend of 1.5 years puts on a sexy piece of lingerie and entertains you, would that be enough of a "gift" for your anniversary? Thanks...

Waiting until marriage, but would like some ideas on 'mixing it up."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I want to wait until marriage to have sex. We do everything else, but want some new ideas. What are some things to do to mix it up a bit?...

What can I do so it is not so painful for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I am 21 years old. My girl friend is 20 years old. We love each other. We decided to have sex. I was trying to penetrate my penis into her vagina. But the opening of the vagina was very small and both of us were feeling tremendous pain. I want to ...

What does my dream about my ex mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hey, broke up with a guy for about 7 months now. thing is I have been having dreams. Like today I dreamt about how he broke down in front of my house (and this guy moved back to his home town in Pittsburgh while I live near philly) and he said "oh ...

Should I go back to my ex? I love him but he hasn't changed much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I met my X of 4years, and in his drunken stupor, he told me I am the woman he loves. {I still miss him and think about him everyday of my life} The next day he invited me to visit him at his place, and we ended up having sex. we both did not tal...

Help me decide about these girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (A) for about 2 months now. He asked me out when I didn't even know him, but I said yes. Before that however, I was sort of semi-dating my other friend (B), getting to know him etc. We are now really ...

How can I accept him as he is, and not expect his whole life to revolve around me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I was just wondeing if I'm becoming a possessive girlfriend? Basically, whenever my boyfriend fails to talk to me (i.e start a conversation himself, text me) I feel as though he obviously doesn't want to make the effort and I'm forcing him to be ...

He doesn't want to continue because we live so far away. Can anyone advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - hi...now i am in a bad situation. i knew a guy for 3 months then he left back to his country. we really had a wonderful time together and really want to keep on our relationship. on our last day we talked, first he afraid that we are not gonna make ...

Am I feeling uncomfortable because now I have an opportunity to try it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I met this girl around 3 year ago and she's became my best friend since then. For the past year I cant help but think she's a lesbian or bisexual, but never mentioned it, as it doesnt bother me... well last night i found out she is in fact one, bu...

Does chemistry fade? My LDR did not feel the same when we met this time.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship. I havn't seen him for so long. Got to his place last night, and things felt so awkward. I don't know why but I feel I want to keep distance, I don't want to get emotionally attached to him again, as I have to go ...

He's asked me to a dance. is it ok to date a guy I don't have feelings for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - This is a question I had thought over even before I came to this site, I just wondered if it's okay to date a guy without having feelings for him. Previously, my affiliated school's student president asked me out. Wow, back then, I was only 13 and ...

Does he like me as more than a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Does he like me more than a fren? Well, i did make the first move already. I invited him to go with me to movies and even go have a dinner in a hotel... Of course, i invited but then he paid for it.. We actually talked a whole lot, he shared his ...

What do I do about a bf who doesn't listen to me, respect me or do anything I want to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I have a bf--i think....well, we have been fighting heaps and he has been treating me like crap, doesn't do anything i ask. Anything i do he rejects...... I have done everything for him. Hell, i gave him a threesome with another chick....he doesn't ...

I want the chance to get to know him better, how do I go about doing this next time I see him out? Is it weird for me to ask him for his number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I'm wondering how I can make something out of pretty much nothing. Let me give you some background information on myself. I'm 21, graduating from college in May and moving away, and am about 4 months out of a 2 year relationship. I am mostly over ...

Teasing co worker driving me insane.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Okay, I'll keep it simple. I've liked this guy for quite some time. And I don't want to. I've dated other guys, and tried to keep my distance. We work together, we disliked each other at first but the more we started joking and playing around, I ...

Getting over a crush on your friend?

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12 April 2011 (F) - How do you get over a crush you have for a close friend?...

Should I change my style to get a girlfriend?

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12 April 2011 (M) - Okay well my mother has brought to my attention that i will never meet a girl unless i start dressing better. See im 18 and i wear funny graphic t-shirts and shorts all year round(I live in NY and i still wear shorts in the winter). I can see her ...

How to talk to the girl who really hates me....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - i love a girl. first she use to talk normally. one day she came to know that i likes her. she started hating me. when i tried to talk she just replys for questions. and trys to stop the conversaton, she did'nt add me in her facebook, even though i ...

I'd really like to attend my friend's bridal shower but it interferes with my boyfriend's birthday plans

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hi! So i have a dilemma and I'm just looking for advice/opinions.. My friend is getting married in September and I just received an invitation to her bridal party in June. I should mention that we used to be friends in High School, lost tou...

Why am I the bad guy? He's the one who dumped me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - We were together for six years and we have kids together. I was thinking about breaking up with him but he broke up with me first. In the past I would beg him to take me back but this time I said Fine, let's break up, this isn't working, let's stay ...

I had a dream that I was pregnant with someone else's baby - what does this dream mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I rarely remember my dreams, but I had one last night that is confusing me. I dreamed that I was pregnant, but it wasn't my boyfriend's baby. I didn't dream about who the real father was but I remember being happy to be pregnant but crushed that ...

Pregnant and BF doesn't want the baby right now. What do I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am only 21 and at Uni Bf still has a year or so to go till he finishes. I have just found out im pregnant and wasnt sure whether to keep it but decided to. I thought It wouldnt be easy but possible. Bf has told me he doesnt want kids... not yet ...

I'm worried that he's drawing away because of my complaining

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have ben dating for a whole year now. and what we have is beautiful. everything was just simply great till, from past few days he and i, have ben having some family problem/he is kinda avoiding me . because every-time he talks to ...

Torn between two men--who do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am a young lady, with fairly severe jealousy and self esteem issues. I have been dating and living with my boyfriend for 3 years. 2 of those years, we haven't been getting along. He was ignoring me, resorting to alcoholism and occasionally ...

We really love each other, but sometimes I feel like he's bored with me. How do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hello :) Alrighty, so I'm in a little crisis with my new "lover." We've already told each other that we're interested, and he would like to date me. But, he is in eighth grade, and I am in 9th. We do really love each other very much, but sometimes I ...

I keep giving him money, he keeps lying to me and standing me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I was seeing a guy for a few months. I thought whatever we had was good. Then things fell off. I wasnt seeing him as often. He'd always forget to call me back. But I put it up with it. Then he lost his job, and me being stupid I started giving him ...

Unfamiliar with her culture, does she like me or is she just being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I want some help. I have immigrated to USA about 2 months ago. I live here with my mom, my bother and his wife. I'll call my brother's wife ABC. Me and ABC are like brother and sister and we are very good friends. Now here is what is ...

We both get angry easily. Can this work?

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12 April 2011 (F) - My girlfriend and I both have very short tempers but we are madly in love with one another. Is there a good way to appease her, or do I just have to deal with it? I fear for the longevity of our relationship. ...

How can I tell him I like him? He's never alone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I need some help.I've decided to tell the guy I like my feelings.The problem is that we don't know each other that well.He knows my name and we use to have a class together but that's it.I know I'm going to get rejected but I'm still going to tell ...

I don't if I'm being used, he won't tell me if we're together.

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12 April 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for the past 3 months and i have know him for 15 years and always had a thing for him but now as more than friends we dont hang out he wont stay at my house and wants me to stay at his place. he tells his family and ...

Hung out with my old flame. Now there's awkwardness.

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12 April 2011 (F) - I have lived next to this guy for about eighteen years we have been really close for about 6 years and we liked each other a lot. I left for boarding school and so did he. We lost touch but as I was finishing up boarding school, and he was finishing ...

I transform when I'm with my parner into a better person. Will that better version stick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - “Jack” and I have been dating for over two years. He’s my first. He’s intelligent, hard working, witty, and full of integrity. His knowledge surpasses mine, but we mesh well as a couple, filling in for what the other more or less “lacks”. We see ...