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Dating: Help and advice

What would you think of this age difference?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Please be as brutally honest as your thoughts might be. If you saw an 18yr old girl walking down the street holding hands with a grey haired 49yr old man what would you think? Thank you for your time xxx...

Am I making him wait too long?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Ok so here's the deal, i just started dating this guy officially on March 26. He's 22 and I'm 19. He's had sex five times while i am still a virgin. As of late he's been bringing up sex more and more often. I'm not waiting until marriage, but i am ...

He's giving me excuses for not calling. Why is my boyfriend being so distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Dear Marvellous People, My boyfriend of 2 years has completely changed towards me these days. The least thing that i say or do provokes him very much, to the extent of him not calling me for days, because we are in a long distant relation...

She told me God was telling her things wouldn't work out!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend n I have been going out for about 4 months now. Everything was going great, we both were happy n life couldn’t have been much better. About 2 weeks ago she told me "she thinks she loves me" n that "I am perfect for her." She was crazy ...

He's in the army and being reposted. I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I feel so confused right now. Basically i have been seeing this amazing guy for the last 3 months. Everything has been going really well, but there has always been this problems from the start. Basically he is in the army and is getting re-posted to ...

Missing him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend, we have been together for months now and I really like him but I miss my ex. he hates me because of multiple reasons. But him hating me is making me sick to my stomach. I act like nothing is wrong with me but we havent talked i...

Any suggestions on what this could be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I had doggy style sex for the first time Friday night, that day I had walked 12 miles at our local park plus put in a 1hr 1/2 work out that morning. Saturday I was starving at work, so I tried to eat a bite of something to keep me ...

Does this mean he has a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - If a teenage boy (about 14) flirts with you and teases you, does it mean that he has a crush on you?...

I want to meet new girls, but where?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - Hi! I'm 16 and I've had a few girlfriends in the past but I'm still a bit awkward around girls. I have loads of female friends but I'm not attracted to any of them and I feel like I've used up all the girls in my town (it's not that big). Basically ...

Family first? Or the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, ok I need some help I'm in a really sticky situation right now! So here it goes, I've been with this. Guy for nearly a year now we work together everyday and always have eachothers company, however we broke up for a month because he ...

Can chemistry grow with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hello I have been 'seeing' this lovely guy. He is caring, considerate, kind and all the things you could wish for in a guy. He calls and texts everyday. The only problem is I feel no chemistry with him. I should do as he is so lovely. I enjoy hi...

Retroactive Jealousy is driving me insane. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I need help in dealing with Retroactive Jealousy. I’ll keep this as short as I can. Kevin (my bf) was in love with me since school. I didn’t feel the same way and turned him down. A couple of yrs later, I fell for him and tried to approach him....

I just found out I have both types of herpes...should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - I got a blood test for herpes and have both types even though 3 years ago when I got tested it just said i have type 1, and the doctor did a culture of the sore i had genitally. but, i always thought i had both types, and i guess i didn't until this ...

Any advice on who to pick or what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I am currently single, and I have to decide between two wonderful individuals. The first is my ex and the second is the young lady I broke up with (for other reasons). I love them both and I really cant decide who I want to be with. Any advice on ...

How can you tell if a boy is shy or just protecting his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Today my crush and I were waiting outside and everyone else had gone in and we were alone and he looked really freaked out and nervous and ran inside. Does he like me or just not want to be with me? Another thing. How can you tell if a boy is prot...

I don't wish to continue in this triangle, will he leave his family to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hi , I have had a relationship for three years with a married man who still lives with his wife and has a disabled son age 25 . The Man I have been seeing has had two affairs in the past that his wife became aware of and tolerated . I really t...

Does anyone have any clue what might be putting guys off or if I'm doing anything majorly wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - This Is probably a question that gets asked alot but I figured it wouldn't hurt asking. I've never had a proper boyfriend in my life and when I talk to people about it they tend to say things like you havnt met the right guy yet. But lately I...

Does she just want a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - she call and text me everyday she seems to be happy around me, when i ignore her she'll upset, she like it when i call her sweetheart, we hold hand, cuddle, she knows that i like her very much (obviously) but when i tried to talk about it more she ...

Dating for six weeks, but he hasn't made any moves on me...at all!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about six weeks. We get on really well,I love his company and mentally we really connect. However, in these six weeks he hasn't made any moves on me...at all! Apart from a quick kiss on the lips there hasn't been any ...

Is he just being nice or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - sooo , ive met this guy who I'm starting to fall for. Being rather shy, when it comes to dating guys, I fear rejection. This guy seems rather shy too!! .. So I was wondering, how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he l...

How do you know whether you likej someone or just like being in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - How do you tell the difference between whether you like someone, or you like the idea of being in a relationship with them? theres this girl who ive only met 1-2 times over the past mth and we havent even been dating, and at first i wasnt sure i ...

How do I tell my GF that I don't want the orgy that she's looking forward to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - my girlfriend really wants an orgy with 2 of her friends and their bf's + 2 other of my friends. everyone wants to do it, and we know that everyone will have a go of each other. but, i really dont want to do it. im not ashamed of my manhood,...

Why did I tell him I forgive you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Basicly I dont know why Im still upset about it. well this guy i was with, we were constantly on and off he had a foul temper, he kept telling me over and over "I want you" and I kept giving him Achance and I dont even know what way it was supp...

How does a tall guy dance with a short girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - People say that guys like short girls because they think that they are super cute (I'm 5'2" btw) and fun. I don't not disagree but i was wondering what do you think? Also how does a tall guy say around 6 ft dance (grind) with someone my height?...

I hate the way I look and hate every pretty girl I see

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I'm an ugly 22 year old female; sure, I'm smart, kind, talented, all those good "inside" things, but I'm ugly outside and there's no questioning, I've got comments my whole life and I can see it in the mirror anyway... and not much can be done, and ...

What does it mean when a guy asks you out late at night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - If a guy asks you out around 10pm what does that really mean? Why so late?...

My ex cheated on me and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I'm a mess right now! Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I was cheated on by my ex and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I know it's a cliche. Anyway, I found out she was doing all this behind my back after about 5 months last year in Dec, which means she started this in Sept. No...

My boyfriend is awful at oral sex!! How do I tell him this without hurting him??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2years. i truely love him.but he's awful at oral sex. I don't know how to tell him this without hurting him. What should I do?...

My neighbour is the perfect girl -- what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - Hey, so i just moved into a new place and right next door is a perfect woman for me. She's beautiful smart and can cook (what else does a man wants right?) She just got out of a relationship and I want to be the next and final guy she will be ...

I don't know if he's changed his mind or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Alright so it's sort of a long story but i'll try to shorten it a bit. Let's see i just met this guy a month ago and he is really nice and he's cool and everything and finished his 3 yrs in the marines and wants to take me out on a date, but i told ...

Is this guy just playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - About one and a half years ago a male co-worker Ive been having a crush on for a long time, and I got together. After a few weeks he started to call me at 2 in the morning after he got home from the bar, and I told him not to treat me that way. He ...

Help! I feel so lost. What can I do? My boy friend refuses to let me end our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, I'm 17 and at the beginning it was great. He treated me great and I was so happy. He still takes me out etc, but it's just not the same. You see, my bf seems to have an idea in his head that I am going...

Is it wrong if my boy friend is 8 months younger than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - im 14 and my boyfriend is 8 months younger than me people keep saying that its wrong because im older insted of the guy is it?...

Part 1, past history and where it starts to fall apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - part 1 i dont know where to begin. i just so confused and hope i did the right thing so this may be a few parts. history: dating a guy 8yrs younger than me for about 2 1/2 yrs, met him at work was going thru divorce and hit off as fwb then went...

Do I ask him out or just drop enough hints so that he knows he won't be shot down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I like a guy and I know he likes me back, but we aren't going out. Basically the guy is super shy and well, kinda unmanly, so he assumes the feelings aren't mutual and I'm guessing he wouldn't even think about asking me out until he was 110% certain ...

I don't know if he's nervous or intimidated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - so i have been with my boyfriend for a few months now. he is a senior and i am a sophmore. this is pretty commom around where i live and people are fine with it. A lot of girls, however, are surprised i guess you could say, or jealous. Now, he ...

How, if at all, should I ask her about my fantasy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, first of all I'm a 19 year old lad who is in a relationship with a 27 year old woman. We've had our up and downs but every things going well. I have had a sexual fantasy for some years now of being fucked up the arse by a girl with a ...

How do I help my friend whose girlfriend isn't treating him very well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is a boy and I love him to pieces, in a non-romantic way. My best friend's girlfriend has messed him around pretty badly, and recently she broke up with him (for the second time). When she broke up with him, all of his friends ...

He says he's not ready to date. He wants to see how I treat him?

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17 April 2011 (F) - Okay if you text a guy and he texts first and he dosnt reply and he's like avoiding you what do I do? he says he's not ready to date me yet he wants to see how I treat him during the week idk...some one please help me with advise...