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writes:We were dating for a little bit, and the guy told me about his past how he cheated on his ex but that he's not like that anymore...knowing myself having trust issues hearing that got me uneasy...I've been holding myself back but not entirely with the trust issues (i so hate myself for this problem, and he's kind of frustrated with it =.=) he said we should be friends for now, he told me that i should get to know him as a person more then maybe I will understand him and his well being better then we could go from there, i believe what he told me is him being truthful, he said we can still hangout so i could get to know him better at his/my house. I wasn't sure if he was just saying it to be nice, but he text me as usual today between morning and noon asking how I'm doing and etc.I guess my question isn't really the one I asked above, but I wanted some opinions or advice on this. I really like this guy, and I've been pretty good on holding myself back from any contact to him except replying the texts he sent earlier today.I need some opinion on this guy I have been really good at holding mysef back
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey~Thanks I felt the same thing after he told me about cheating on his ex..but i let my trust issues get to me again -_-" I hope we could get through this and reconcile~I feel we have something special together~~
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): Hey.
I think if he told you he cheated on his ex, then I think he is telling the truth. A guy wouldn't openly tell someone he liked that he cheated on someone. Open up to him. Get to know him. You may regret it if you hold back any longer.
I hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe text me again a few hours ago asking what I'm doing? Should I even reply or just ignore it? I really have no idea what to do...
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