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Dating: Help and advice

Six months ago he walked out with no explanation. Should I trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Sorry it may seem a bit long. But here it goes: Me and this guy have been best friends for a few years now, but we were also FWB's for a little over two years. About six months ago he stopped speaking to me out of the blue. No texts, no calls, a...

Need snogging advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - When I went to kiss my new girlfriend for the first time I went too low even though I am taller than her but I don't want to mess it up again so how can i get it just right? Also any advice on how to snog ( make out if you are from the us)? Because ...

Sex hurts. There is a lump afterward. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi guys, basically my problem is this; I'm 20, lost my virginity to my boyfriend 9 months ago, he's my only sexual partner, he has had other partners, we always have unprotected sex, but we went to get him tested for STD's and he got the all clear. ...

Boyfriend makes me jealous with talk of beautiful colleague. I don't know how to handle it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi My bf of an year often talks about his colleague, says she is sexy and beautiful and all that stuff. I am not comfortable him talking about her even when we are intimate and it also makes me really angry. I told him in a normal way that i dont ...

Do I get back with ex despite friends protests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been on and off for several years, lived together, broken up, worked together, broken up, lived in separate cities, broken up... We do love each other very much but for some reason can never quite get it together and tension ...

Fell in love with a man who is in a "marriage of convenience." What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - It's complicated, I fell in love with an Egyptian man. he is funny and kind and I love him with all my heart, but he is married. He married a woman to allow him to work in the EU as a doctor, and now she lives in her country and he is in England. ...

His friends are interfering in our relationship. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi! Okay, so I've been crushing on this adorable guy for most of 2010 all the way to this instant. He's everything I want, and I recently came out and told him I like him. He likes me back. The problem? His friends are trying to steal me. they're ...

The condom broke and now she doesn't want to see me. Why? What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - I have been dating a lady for 7 weeks. I am 45 and she is 46. On our 10th date I stayed at her house and we ended up having sex. The problem I have is that I used a condom but it broke. I felt it go pop but was just about to climax and couldnt stop ...

Will the fact that I am dating his ex ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Hi, okay, I am stuck in a love triangle with my best friend's ex.. They were together for about 2 years, and half of that time we secretly had a crush on one another. Now that they have broken up(only recently) we have completely fallen in love. It ...

Should I believe the rumor about my new girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Hey guys. I recently started going out with this amazing girl and I think this could actually go somewhere. Problem is someone she knows made up a rumor about her and her friend having slept together, I didn't take it seriously buy the more I think ...

What should I do to get more time with my married lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - hi this is angel fluff i am having sex with a guy who is 35 years has three children. i am 19 years. we are not in a relationship we just having sex. i dont know what to do i really fall deep for him before we had sex twice and i meet him 2 weeks ...

GF doesn't have long to live. Please help me with suggestions on handling our limited time together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend which i met on internet and never meet physically so far. Still both of us are strongly connected and feel love for each other. We were thinking to get married by the next year. We had a plan to meet and spend a week tog...

Boyfriend forgot my birthday. How should I handle it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Yesterday was my birthday and the guy I've been dating for over ten months forgot it was my birthday OR didn't even know. We are more than "friends with benefits" and less than totally serious. He has told me he loves me. He went away with friends ...

I haven't been with anyone because I am so hairy. Is this enough to put guys off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - I'm a mixed Italian/South African (white) guy. The reason I said this is so you can more understand what I look like, not for a racial reason. I have more Italian features than the "boer" features. Thing is, I'm really really hairy everywhere, ...

He said he wanted to be seduced, but that's not working either. Our sex life is dead. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating this lovely man for around 9 months, and have been sleeping with him for a year. The problem is, our sex life seems to have completely died - just before Christmas. We've only had sex once since the end of January. He keeps telli...

I am not sure if I am falling out of love or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months now and after a month i knew he was the one and he felt exactly the same, i didn't see him for a week and so was really was looking forward to seeing him at the weekend but when i got to his house i ...

I am not sure what kind of a relationship we have. GF wanted to take it slow. What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Hi, First time asking here. Having some relationship problems. I've been "dating" my gf for just over 2 months, long time acquaintances. She got out of a bad relationship in December, and we started dating in late January. This were so great at...

BF is not the same since he started hanging out with misogynistic band members. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I've never written for help about this kind of thing before but I really don't know who else to ask. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now and, until recently, things had been great. About six months ago, though, he start...

Boyfriend said he was bored. Need ideas for dates that don't cost money.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a week, he seems interested and wants to meet up lots. We have met up 2 or 3 times, when i meet up with him everything is lovely and great. But we get bored, i dont know what to do, we have been for walks ...

Girlfriend had bad dream. How can I comfort her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - My girlfriend had a bad dream that she saw her best friend die. She cries every time she tries to talk about it. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? ...

Is it worth a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi. I recently discovered that my boyfriend had a few meetings with his ex a few months ago. On finding out, i broke up with him as soon as i got the chance. I told him how i found out and he eventually admitted to it all. I was more angry than any...

How long is enough time to contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Okay so I have been seeing this girl occasionally on the weekends, she is a friend that moved away and moved back close by recently. Anyways yesterday we hooked up and everything went really well, the night was enjoyable and we both had a great ...

Is the friend of my boyfriend attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I'm a bit confused. This friend of a man i am dating winks at me a lot, and he ahs said he thinks i am good looking and a nice girl. However, he says that the man i am dating is a good man and that he thinks i am good for the man i am dating. he ...

What comes next? Do I make a move? Or await his decision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - So I dated a guy for a 3 months and we officially stopped talking end of February. He said he likes being with me, but he didn't think he could give me anything serious right now. if it turns out I was looking for that he didn't want to hurt me, if ...

I'm scared of getting bored of my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I get bored of realtionships very easily.Something or the other haapens and I lose interest .I dont like to change boyfriends often.Now I am into a relationship and I am scared to get bored of him. What should I do?...

I have a very spoiled boyfriend who criticizes how my parents raise me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (?) - I have noticed a pattern in my boyfriend's behavior, and I've found out that he is very spoiled. He has no respect for conserving money, and his parents encourage it. For instance, when we are at my house, my air conditioner is set to au...

Should I speak of my feelings first, or just ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - alright, well there is this girl at my college and i really like her and i really want to ask her out but there are a few problems 1) we are right in the middle of our exam period and 2) we live in different cities. So my question is i really want ...

Why do these things make me jealous and very angry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Why do these things make me jealous and very angry?. - my boyfriend talking about his friends - my boyfriend hanging out with his friends - my boyfriend watching a movie with a girl I'd think he think was hot - my boyfriends EX - my boyfriend ta...

B/f doesn't trust me because of what happened while we weren't together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hey there everyone, So me and my boyfriend recently got together. We were together for two years, split up for six months, and are now back together again. During these six months, I saw a couple of guys for a few months each but that didn't real...

My boyfreind has been admitted to psychiatric care. How do I help him when he comes out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I have the most wonderful but very troubled boyfriend. He has recently been admitted to psychiatric care as his depression and schizophrenia got out of control. I managed to get him admitted to care as I was concerned about him. His f...

I'm in love with my best friend who is now seeing someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - i'm in love with a best friend who has recently started seeing another girl. i've never told him how i felt, and sometimes i honestly feel like we both know that we could be something more, but neither of us wants to make a move to risk the ...

They tell me I should like boys, but I don't How do I tell them I don't want to go to the dance without hurting their feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Ermm, hi, kay, here's the problem. My best friend, el, told me that at this age we 're supposed to like boys. But, I still sort of hate them. I mean, is it even normal to like boys. I've not even had my first crush or anything like that. Then, our ...

He's making my teacher crush go away. Do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Help please! For about two years I've been crushing on my teacher and he's always been dreamy and made me feel like I was floating just from a smile or a greeting. I never wanted anything more than just to see him at school everyday. Unt...

First kiss and then... nothing at the next date? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - First kiss and then... nothing at the next date? Hi everyone... Well the answer might be obvious, but I might need your opinion.. I date a girl and we get along. We spend everytime around 6-7 hours together when we see each other and we h...

Family doesn't like BF, but I love him. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Ive been with my bf for almost 2 years and my family n friends especially mum don't like him at all. For many reasons. But ill only mention 3. One, he showed up to my house drunk early one morning. Knocking at my window so loud that mum heard i...

Is this the wrong way to go about it? I'm using someone else to make my teacher jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

10 April 2011 (?) - i am 18 and i am in a short term relationship with another 18 year old but it isn't serious i don't even have feelings for this guy i am with i know that sounds so awful but i don't. My reasons for dating this guy is... i have feeling for this old...

I don't know if he's really stressed and tired, or if he's just making up excuses to avoid sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi! I am in a year and three month relationship, and right now it's going good, but I'm still having some doubts. The reason I am having doubts is because about 8 months ago, my boyfriend and i moved in together, and since then, it's been a ...

Is he acting this way because of work, or is he just over us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, My problem is really nothing new and I am sure some of you have been something similar but I am just at a loss. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months but we were best friends for a while before we started dating. ...

Don't know if what he wrote on his Facebook page referred to me or someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone there's a guy I've liked for ages but haven't the guts to tell him that i do like him, he drove me somewhere on Tuesday evening and anyway after i left his and a few hours after he wrote this on his facebook page......... It hurts ...

How do I build this friendship into what I want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - i am in love with this girl at school...we were kind of friends before but when she found out that i liked her, she was kind of cut off with me and didnt talk to me as much as she did with my friends. She basically didnt like me by anyway outside ...

I plan to be independent, but don't know how to tell him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I'm studying Eng.,and he is my classmate, we both love each other, but he gets angry whenever i talk to boys, he also told me not to wear jeans, and also tells me that after our marriage i have to leave my job because I have to take care of his ...

Do I believe he used a condom or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - okay , so im a young adult , and although this is a silly question its bugging me , .... just the other day me and my boyfriend had sex (like usual) we've been dating for about 3 months now, and although its early on im trying my best to give him my ...

Why has he stopped noticing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - So there is this guy I have liked for ages, he used to always look at me and smile. He said hi once and I said hi back, but lately its like he has been ignoring me. I catch him looking at me but when I look at him its like he doesn't notice me. Any ...

Any advice on how to play it cool and get this stubborn boy to realise he has an amazing girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Me and my bf are a big on-off couple. Its always him that breaks it off with me and leaves me heartbroken and I always feel like the idiot. He so stubborn, and when we have a serious argument he runs. We had a big argument the other week and H...

I like the "Secret Admirer" but I also like someone else. Which one should I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. Just did a "Secret Admirer" event in my hall at uni, which is like Secret Santa. My person got me a poster as a joke, then a letter which was very sweet but creepy before I knew who it was, and then a DVD that I wanted, chocolat...

Why do I go from guy to guy and how can I get this to go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Anyones help on this would be brilliant! I don't know why i'm feeling like this? During the past month or so, I have literally went from guy to guy! I feel I just want to always have a guy there, whether it's texting them seeing them or ...

Will I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 18 and I work at a fastfood place with a coworker of mine and I think I'm obsessed with him(23)he's just my friend. I always text him I just love the sound of his voice ( he's got an african accent) I love his body in his uniform his car is ...

Only the girls I don't like show interest in me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Hi im 18..im kinda shy nd quiet..ma problm is:why is it that only the girls dat i dont like show interest but the ones i like treat me lik crap..im i doin somtin wrong? ...

I too am genuinely insecure about him cheating now. How do I tell him I am so worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hey there. There is this girl that has been constantly texting my boyfriend and I recently found out that she has been going over to his house by reading his text messages. I know that it's bad and all but he never tells me who it is. In the texts ...

Should I tell him about my genuine insecurities? That I think he is going to cheat on my?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. My boyfriend and I have been going out for just over 5 months and I'm his first serious girlfriend. I've asked him about his ex-girlfriends and he answers me honestly but the other night when I asked him when he and his last girlfriend ...

Does he want a committed relationship? How long before a guy should propose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2years now. He is really an amazing guy most of the time but I feel he really may not be ready to take our relationship to the next level. For e.g, I wanted to use him as my contact in case of an ...

How can I attract and keep a girl friend? I really like blondes

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - I am a 16 year old boy. I am wondering how I can attract girls and how to i get them to like me. So far I have not been able to get a girlfriend because I have never had a girlfriend in my life. I am really in to girls, mostly blonds. So I need ...

How can my confusing situation with my ex be resolved? what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - Hey guys.. my ex and i had been together for around 1 year and 6 months. We broke up 3 weeks ago. She asked for it. I found out about some relationship repair programs and followed it. She started contacting me, telling me that she misses m...

Am I a booty call, or just FWB? Why does he never initiate our get togethers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Alright, how do I word this? Lets see.. I have a friends with benefits, but my friends say he's a "booty call". We don't talk for a couple of days, or even a week, and then i'll text him and we either hook up that day or the next and then go back...

If I can't get my act together and trust him, is he saying we have no future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - when he told me he was buying a house we almost broke up, we decided to try and work things out instead. so after a month of not seeing him and talking just a few times he finally came over for a visit. we had a great night, dinner, a movie and we m...

If love comes and goes is there any hope for two people wanting sustained long term love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - I read it all the time: "We were in love, but then I fell out of love." And then--poof!--the relationship ends. Love seems so fleeting. We get to know a person, the first few months or year are exciting. But then we tire of that person. Love fad...

I just want people's views please on what they think of my bf who is married to his job

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - I really need to know what people, other than friends and family, think about my issue. I have been in this relationship for almost a year and I love him more than anything, and I know he loves me a lot too, he has told me this. Our relation...

I feel confused. Can I trust him after he was deceitful about smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for one year and 6 months. when we first started talking he used to smoke, but then he said he stopped. after two months of knowing each other we started dating. Recently he has been lying to me here and ther...

He's been lying. I just found out he has kids. Should he stay or go? what do I tell my kids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - i found out my boyfriend of 3 years has 3 different babies, by 3 different women. the ages of his three children are 5, 4 and 2 i love him, he lives with me and my kids, who are aged 8 and 13. I love him and i want to be with him, but what do ...

I think my boy friend is depressed. When depression hits does the person lose their emotional feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Ok so I actually just posted this question like earlier: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ldr-boyfriend-is-depressed-and-yelled-at-me.html and now I'd like to know...when someone is depressed can they lose all feelings? I asked him...

What choice is best? I have mixed emotions. My gf or a girl I want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (M) - my problem there is this girl i have really really really liked since 6th grade and we are in 10th grade now. it seems like every time i try and be with her she has a bf/gf or just broke up with him/her. When that happens and she is emotionally dist...

Does this guy like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

10 April 2011 (F) - Does this guy like me? There's a guy I like at work. He's very Tall, has fiery mysterious brown eyes and very wild, all over the place dark hair. On feb 22nd, I was outside at lunch and he was walking across the parking lot and our eyes met, he...

My girlfriend ignores me!

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10 April 2011 (M) - okay well i have never done any thing like this be for so if some one can help it would be really nice and help full. well this is my problem my girl friend says she will do any thing to be with and spend time with me but when ever i try to be with ...