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Archived questions from: 28 April, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I get involved with my ex's brother?

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28 April 2011 (F) - Well ive been in and out of a relationship with my baby daddy for about 4 years now.I met him at the same time i met his younger brother.Im now 19 i met them both when i was 15.Ive always had an attaction to his younger brother which is now 17.but ...

We are both really shy..how do we talk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy...who, for security purposes, we'll just call allen. just some background information about me and him: we're both first-year college students and only about six months apart in age (i'm the oldest). anyways...

Is he just cautious in waiting to commit or am I deluding myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I don't know whether I'm being an idiot and wasting my life waiting for someone who will never commit, or whether my man just needs some time... I've been in a relationship with a man 12 years older than me for three years. Things are great betwee...

My dream wedding will never happen because of troubled relationship with family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I'm a level headed girl in my late twenties. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years. He proposed to me five years ago, but I wasn't ready. Now I'm scared he'll never ask me again. I don't usually think of weddings. But I think with all t...

It bothers me that I'm his "second" girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - although he ws in my class for 5 years in school,we never talked.i never noticed this guy though he used to sat on the bench next to me.he had a crush on other girl from our class. but for me it was love at 1st sight wen i saw him on d 1st day of m...

Should I try a relationship with my male best friend?

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28 April 2011 (F) - So I just recently stopped talking to this boy that I've been talking to since September. I fell hard for this boy but the problem with him was that he had a kid and a baby mother that I think he still loves. Regardless, I told myself that no matter ...

Long distance and sex toys, will a vibrator keep me 'loose'?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - hey Cupids. Basically I lost my virginity and I am now in a long distance relationship. I won't be seeing my guy for some time now. Would getting a vibrator help me from getting tight again and if so what would the best type of vibrator ...

I wanted to become celibate, but my boyfriend threatened to leave me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I wanted to become celibate but my boyfriend threatened to leave me..... clearly he cannot respect my decision... What do i do? But he claims he loves me so much....

How do I get his parents to like me and my parents to like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - How do i make my boyfriend's parents like me more...they dont hate me but i want tips. how do i make my parents like my boyfriend when they meet him??...

I want my boyfriend to need my attention more, not the other way round!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i love my boyfriends's attention and he loves mine too, i give him a lot of attention, he does too. but sometimes he doesn't at all and i feel lonely. I want to get over this and be independent. I want him to be needing my attention more, ...

Is there anything I can do to stop the pattern I seem to be falling into?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering if I am beginning to notice a slight pattern in the type of guys I fancy, or "really fall for" it always happens when I am away somewhere, I seem to really get curious when people have different backgrounds. I always seem to "...

My intuition tells me no....but my whole body and 99.99% of my mind says yes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - okay ive been talking to this guy on fb chat and he says really nice things to me. he tells me im awesome, that im a babe, im hot that he loves talking to me. that he misses me and that he wants to see me again. but the thing is that ive seen him ...

How do I stop myself from feeling like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi I've asked a lot of questions about this problem before and received a lot of kind words and helpful advice so I'm back again. To cut a very long story short, about a year and a half ago my male best friend broke up with his girlfriend, we...

Will I lose my virginity if I give him oral? Will he love me more if I do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - i'm a 17 years old girl and still a virgin. my boyfriend is asking me to have an oral sex with him, he's 18 and were both virgins. i keep telling him that i don't want to because i'm reserving my virginity till the day i'm married. (even though im ...

Could the trauma of my parent's divorce and seeing what I saw as a child be the reason I cannot connect with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - This is difficult for me to write, as it is deeply personal. When I was a boy, my parents were on the verge of divorce and I had just turned 10. My father constantly traveled for his work, and his absence and constant fighting when he was home drov...

I really want him back though, I know there are plenty of fish in the sea but he's mine! how do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - My boyfriend of 2.5 years dumped me on my birthday. We had a 3 hour long conversation because he was feeling depressed am I wanted to help him. In the end he called me a doormat and he said I let him walk all over me. He thinks it's my pride/val...

Does my ex girl friend in the country want to re-visit our relationship, despite our breakup?

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28 April 2011 (M) - Hi, well im looking for some advice about my ex gf. Five years ago i was working in the country for 6 months on a railway and while i was there i used to go into a shop there and i became friendly with the shop owner's daughter. Anyway to cut ...

Should I continue to tolerate my unkind hurtful insensitive boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Honestly I dont know what to make of it. My boyfriend and I just finished making love and he screams from the bathroom "blood". Yes Im in shock I just bled a little from having sex with my boyfriend. It has never happened to me and I expected more...

How can somebody can talk to you the sweetest words on earth and dump you only a few minutes later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate every bit of help in understanding my current situation. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things were never easy between us, as he was still in a dysfunctional (as I thought) relation...

Guys, I feel I've been left behind. Do you think anyone could give me some pointers or an action plan to get me connecting with girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Not really sure what I hope to accomplish with this. If anything it just helps to write it out. Any advice would be appreciated. This really isn't the kind of thing that guys talk to their friends or family about. The thing that's been really both...

Why do I keep dreaming this lovely dream? Is it simply because I wish that would happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago. He got depressed about things in his life and as a result said love and relationships are hard work and told me that he no longer wants it. But he wants us to be friends. Im quite devastated I love him so much and ...

What can I do? Really I don't know which boy to choose and I'm feeling so confused by it all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So last year this new guy came in our grade. (let's call him guy #1) I got to know him a little better and then he asked me out. I said no because I thought I'd be better if we stayed friends. Well, he just kept liking me for a while. Even this year...

Do you think it's disprespectful for a guy to dance with another girl at a club?

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28 April 2011 (F) - do you think is it disrespectful for a guy dancing with any girl in the club while he has a girlfriend? and telling his girlfriend" hey baby im going out with my boys, then ofcourse i'm not gonna dance with my boys over there, only dance, but not ...

So many choices. who do I choose? The guy I really like? Or one of the guys who likes me?

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28 April 2011 (F) - i really like this guy in my class and he really likes me, but then i found out a few other guys like me, and i don't know what to do about that. And then there is a certain someone at my camp that i haven't seen for a year and i'm afraid that if ...

I am always hard around my fiance and it's starting to turn her off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Is it normal for me to just be constantly hard around my fiance. we been dating for 4 years...and we lost our virginity to each other. She is very very beautiful and when i was younger, im 19 now i dont remember being so hard around her, ever since ...

He says we have to move states because Arizona has a lot of bad memories for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi dear-cupid. I need your help. Me and my bf been together for 4 years. We live in state of arizona. We both have job, apartment for living and car. He said he want to move to another state. This state have a lot of bad memory of him. We had one ...

Can too much sexual talk or sex put off your man and his perception of you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend. We are in a LDR and we have been trying to make it work. The only thing that bugs me is that I find myself in relationships where men like to talk dirty to me and I think my relationship is turning into that. I love sex a lot bu...

How do I get my boyfriend to open up to me?

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28 April 2011 (F) - ok, so i've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. and things are going great. i love him with all my heart, since way before we got together. but, hes gone through a lot in his past, like abuse, and he was made fun of by the kids his age ...

Soliciting ideas for spicing up my sex life

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28 April 2011 (M) - hey everyone... i wanna spice up my sex life with my girlfriend... we just have normal sex and she's getting bored ... i tried using whipped cream on her but it wasnt enough.. any ideas what i should do to turn her on? and blow her mind??...