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writes:Hi everyone, I'm currently a student and I'm stuck in a really delicate situation, I like a girl that a good friend has liked for a while but he can't get it rite....I have had a thing for her for the past few years, but there has never been a good time until now.... This girl knows the both of us likes her, likes him as a friend and likes me as more and I'm not sure what role I should take, recently my cousin asked her to come to his wedding as my date in 2 weeks and she is keen....My thing is I really don't wanna lose a great friend, but at the same time this girl and I really have something.... Any ideas? Do we all sit down talk about it, or let her speak to him, or do I speak to him and tell him she likes me back? Please help a guy out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAmazing, things between us couldn't have gone any better even with my cuzzins telling me to look after her and not mess things up infront of her.... (Hope that doesn't put her off) but now my friend has found out we kissed and he's not responding, perhaps its best to let time do some healing, and we have a week of Holiday starting on Friday.... Hope he cools off in that time....
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reader, Yetilicious  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Well that's good news. How was the wedding?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell things seem to be going well, had a talk to him and he knew it was true but didn't wanna admit it to himself, now her and I are seeing eachother every so often, don't wanna make that first move until the wedding this weekend, my friend and I seem to be on good terms, now jus to land my catch....
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reader, Yetilicious +, writes (5 April 2011):
I would first talk to your friend about it. Tell him that you've liked her for a couple of years, tell him you really think you can have something amazing with this girl, and tell him that your cousin asked her to come to his wedding as your date. Tell him you wanted to tell him because his friendship is really important to you. I don't know the guy, so I don't know what his reaction will be like, but it's always best to find out about things like this from your friend, and not from anyone else. He should respect that you were able to come to him and tell him the truth instead of hiding it. I would say never let a girl come in between a friendship, however, if you believe that you and this girl can really have something special, I would go for it. Afterall, she may very well be "the one".
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