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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well.I've been seeing this boy since the beginning of this year, as in the 8th January. He is like my PERFECT match and everything about him is amazing. My type of humour, fashion sense, music taste, amazing body and looks after himself and knows how to look after me.. What more could I ask for?Anyway, pretty much since the first time I went out with him I noticed he was really comfortable to just like show, well you know, public affection, holding hands, hugging from behind etc, and this was the first time I seen him! So, obviously, I got kinda suspicious. If he could be like that the first time he had ever seen me he could be like that with anyone he ever sees for the first time?For the fortnight it went really well, we went out a few times, constantly talking to each other, either texting all day or on the phone for hours. Then after that we barely speak for 2 weeks? When I spoke to him he just either ignored me or was occupied, I just assumed it was over. Then around 2 weeks after that, he got back in touch and asked me to go out with him the next day, and I didnt turn it down obviously, hes perfection and we started to go out again, everything was better and back on track. I was really happy and started to trust him finally, (still having my suspicions which he was aware of but never denied, just shrugged off, WHICH DIDNT HELP)Anyways, its all going perfect! I go out with just him and his friend and it goes a lot better than expected, I get on with his friend and we all had an enjoyable day. Then, for the week after I dont hear from him at all. I hate being the first person to text/call, but i couldnt help myself, I mean, one text a day just saying hello? and getting ignored for 5 days certainly wasnt a nice feeling. Then I just send him a text saying arent you talking to me? and not surprisingly i get ignored. I GIVE UP!Then, I check his profile and there's this picture of his back, with the word SLUT sellotaped to it. I read the comments and he speaks of someone called "L". When asked who L is he says 'my girlfriend' and says 'I'm staying faithful this time'I havnt even attempted to speak to him/ confront him with the fear i might just be ignored once again or the fact he will hurt me with what he says. I really dont know what to do, im unbelievably depressed and feel so ridiculous for not listening to what I thought in the first place.I am sorry about how long the story was.. I havnt really told anyone the whole story ever, even though it was like a week ago. Can someone please help me?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (4 April 2011):
 Help with what? Getting over getting played by a jerk who was cheating on his GF with you?Learn from this. Trust your gut instinct when it tells you something is wrong. Be glad you didn't get further in this "relationship" before it went south and you learned the truth.
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