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writes:Well there's this boy who's fancied me for ages and I kinda liked him, so I told him and now we go out. we've been going out for 5days now, but I don't no whether I still wanna go out with him... I also like this other boy, he had a girlfriend but now he's single and I kinda wanna go out with him... But if I dump my current boyfriend I'll really hurt him because he's told everyone about how in love with me he is... Please help what do I do, I don't wanna hurt him but I don't wanna go out with him?????? HELP!! Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (4 April 2011):
 Was that a follow up, or someone else in a similar situation? I'll assume follow up for now.
If you dated this other guy in the past, then you should NOT get back with him. It had it's chance, and it didn't work. Honestly, you don't sound mature enough for any sort of real relationship right now based on what you've written. That's not a slight at you. I think you should give up dating, at least any form of serious relationships until you understand what you want out of one. You're jumping from guy to guy in hopes of what?
What do YOU want to get out of a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): well...i like this boy.. but im not sure if he feels the same? we used to go out, it was a while ago around 2-3month but i like him again. he teases me all the time, in a jokey way... so does that mean he doesnt like me at all?? i dont no what to do, lately he's been acting kinda differently towards me, i dunno whether thats a good thing or not?? HELP!! what do i dooooo????
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 April 2011):
If you don't want to be with him, then you should break up with him. Be prepared for him to be really hurt, but it's better if you don't stay with him out of pity, that will hurt worse in the long run.Lesson for the future: don't hook up with guys you "kinda" like. Especially when they REALLY like you. If you're not on the same level emotionally, then it's a relationship doomed to failure from the start.
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