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I don't know what to do about this boy

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Question - (19 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, i've been havinga a dilemma lately. There's a boy that I really like at my school, and i can never get him out of my head.

Well, lately i've been feeling like just giving up on him, because I THINK, (about 95 percent sure) that he knows i like him, yet he won't talk to me, of course, I don't talk to him either because i'm majorly nervous around him, but i have let him know i liked him by sending him two gifts.

Everytime i try to sneak a peek at him, he ends up looking at me at exactly the same moment and then we make eye contact, but i look away really quick. I have this problem where i get uncomfortable making eye contact with someone for a long time. Even if it's my best friend, i just look around while i listen to the conversation.

My problem is, I want to get this boy out of my head, cuz i know nothing will ever happen between us. He just acts like nothing ever happened although a bunch of people tell me that he knew the two things i sent to him were from me. (i had marked them from anonymous)

Is wrong to just give up? I mean i know i'll never get the courage to talk to him. and besides he must not be interested in me since he won't send anything to me. Even if he's not interested, he won't come up to me and say "Hey, I know u like me but i just don't think it will work" or something like that.

Recently on facebook (if u know what that is) i was talking to my friend that doesn't go to my school, and she's really good at just going up to random people and talking to them, well i told her what this boy looked like and stuff and she found him on facebook and added him.

She told him in a message while he was online "i'm (my name)'s friend and she wants me to talk to u for her." I was freaking out cuz now he probably thinks i'm weird that i'm having someone talk to him for me. He was weirded out too by the responses she told me he made.

My whole point to this long story is....I don't know what to do about this boy.

Please help

Thank you :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009):

you should just talk to him, if he doesnt like you, you cant force him to, but its worth a shot right??

Lizzykins and xLaylarrRAWRx

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