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writes:This is a question for the women of all ages cos I want to know what each generation of women think.I am a kind, considerate guy. I always treat girls like they deserve. I don't want you to think I'm big headed or perfect cos I know I'm not. Once you get to know me I am able to talk freely with you about anything. Until I get to know you I am very shy and can hold back from getting to know you.The two questions I would like answering are:1)is it my imagination or do you women choose the guys who are bad who you know will let you down but you can't help it. (do good guys come last when you are choosing who you want to go out with?)2) how much does a guy's self confidence have an affect when you are choosing guys to go out with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): Satin makes a good 1st paragraph. I'll say this: I was 'immature' and picked the bad boys when the good guys liked me. I couldn't 'handle' a vulnerable, Real relationship. If you have your heart set on a certain girl picking the 'wrong' guys, don't give up so easily. I mean, go ahead and live your life, date other woman, but if this 'immature' girl starts growing up, then you have a REAL GOOD chance she will 'wake up' and see you for the gem you are!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): i have been married to a GOOD GUY FOR YRS and yrs and yrs and yrs AND GUESS WHAT - I WOULD NOT TRADE HIM IN FOR ANYTHING IN THE WORLD. You just havn't found the right person yet, don't worry you will. It will take time BUT YOU WILL FIND HER..JUST BE PATIENT. It's worth the wait.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 This is a question that we often find in this site. I don't doubt you're a good guy, and you have received good answers but, for the sake of a different point of view, please check this link:
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml
It's women's opinions about why they won't date a nice guy. It really is an eye opener.
I have a question for you. If you always treat a girl like she deserves, how do you treat very, very, very mean girls?
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reader, JustPlainTired  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 1)is it my imagination or do you women choose the guys who are bad who you know will let you down but you can't help it. (do good guys come last when you are choosing who you want to go out with?) Its all about love. It can be very blinding at times.
2) how much does a guy's self confidence have an affect when you are choosing guys to go out with? A whole lot, If you dont have self confidence then you need to just give a rest.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 Depends if he's smart or dumb. I'm a good guy and if I want that girl ill go first leaving mr bad behind - I know how to treat a lady, protect her, nurture her. And if i see what i really want ill go for her - i have confidence in myself. plus i wont end up mentally beating her up - she will get better fun, love and sex.
Most bad guys I know end up chickening out on confronting her (especially when its a really hot babe) some bad boy mates i have, actually switched and are having the best relationships theve ever had. i've also done the bad boy thing before its all just a wast of time to me. but thats not to say ill have some fun ;)
And to be honest I wouldnt want to date a girl that wants to be treated badly. it shows alot of insecurities and low self esteem.
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