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writes:I posted on here a few days ago about a girl that i thought liked me that i liked as well, but i was unsure if i was reading her right. Well its confirmed that she likes me. She talked to one of my best friends about me and basically confessed to him that she has a huge crush on me, he came tearing my door down afterward telling me. She sat there for nearly 40 minutes talking about me non stop and asking about me, and if i talked about her at all. He asked her if she would go to prom with me if i ever asked, and she got all excited. S few of her friends have the hots for me as well. Well now she is just waiting for me to make the first move because she is shy and its obvious. I'm planning on asking her to go to prom with me tomorrow which is in Mid May. This is the problem Ive never had a real girlfriend and have never had so much as my first kiss. Do i tell her, or do i keep it to myself until it just happens. I'm not nervous about asking but i am nervous about everything after that and the dates between now and prom. Were both almost equal in experience, she has dated 3 guys for short times , but the furthest they got was kissing, and only one got that far. All of them lasted only a 2 weeks or less because she went after jocks who expected her to put out fully after a short time. She didn't and it ended.Any tips for our first few dates, where to go on dates, our first kiss.PS: she has braces so keep that in mind, i don't also. She is also pretty feminine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): moviefan,
there is a song to keep in your head by the Smiths..very true - except the buck toothed luxemburger...worth listening to...
Shyness is nice and
Shyness can stop you
From doing all the things in life
You'd like to
Shyness is nice and
Shyness can stop you
From doing all the things in life
You'd like to
So, if there's something you'd like to try
If there's something you'd like to try
Ask me I wont say no, how could I?
Kindness is nice, and
Kindness can stop you
From saying all the things in
Life you'd like to
So, if there's something you'd like to try
If there's something you'd like to try
Ask me I wont say no, how could I?
Spending warm Summer days indoors
Writing frightening verse
To a buck-toothed girl in Luxembourg
Ask me, ask me, ask me
Ask me, ask me, ask me
Star.x.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (19 March 2009):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question we do what i would call most of the day dates we leave around 4 and stay out till at least 10 at the prom itself and then do whatever afterwords. And yeah I realize no one can do everything for me, its just i tend to panic and i need to have a rough idea to follow otherwise my shyness gets the best of me. I have a rough idea of what to do before hand before this but its just sort of nerve racking to deal with this for the first time. You guys helped fill in some gaps and gave me some more security thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): i think you should take a check list of 1000 things to do and tick them off as you through them ...Sigh...(be good star he is asking for help)
ok we cant tell you what to do - only give you some guides. one step at at time ask her out to prom, then because you cant wait that long ask her out to a movie or a coffee or to go dancing. then just play it by ear...
some thoughts...
1) you will get it wrong and that is part of the beauty of it.
2) when the time comes for kissing - it will happen and with luck she will kiss you first. :) then its easy.
3) maybe try holding hands.
4) have no idea about bases (its a US thing when i was growing up) but lets face it once you both are attracted its not normally long before you are both naked.
5) dont think, just do and enjoy. Really really enjoy.
Hugs star.x.
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