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female
age
30-35,
*adie07
writes:Hi. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. I would really like to do something special and sexy for him in the bedroom (besides basic tipss.) But I am kind of insecure and chicken out. Plus, I don't know really what to do, and am shy when it comes to talking to my boyfriend about it. Any tips for the insecurity and what to do? Also, how would you bring it up to the boyfriend? Anything will help. Thanks!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): You know what sex is supposed to be a way to bond intimately and through sex connect on a deep emotional level. Sex is not only about performing special acts....just express yourself and be natural, and connect to your boyfriend and his mood and he will think it is the best sex ever.....relax it isn't a competition or a show stopping performance!
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (19 March 2009):
 Insecurities are rooted in doubt, as soon as you stop worrying about anything you want to try and go into it with an open mind and not worry about it. If you just sit there and worry the whole time you wouldn't enjoy it anyways.You could also just be worried that what you are thinking of doing is dirty or rude and are turned away by that and it makes it even harder. These sort of things are not, you both love each other and want to make each other happy to your best ability. So long as you are both worried about if what you are doing that might feel good is wrong your going to miss out on a lot of stuff, and never going to be completely happy. If its a worry about your body, stop, no ones perfect and that's what makes the world great. If everyone was an exact copy how interesting would the world be. Just relax and accept each other, and be open to new things that you both want to try. Everything will be fine, I promise.
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