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*le71
writes:Dear Cupid,I'm in the worst situation I have ever been my whole entire life, so far.I cannot go by a day without thinking of this troubling situation. My story goes like this: When I was 13 I met a guy trough my brother( his friend)he was 3 years older than i was. When i met this guy the first time i saw him i fell completely in love with him, you might say " oh, you were 14 your were too young and what not" but thats not the case, I knew deep inside what I felt at such a young age, I fell in love with him at first glance, ever since that day everytime he would come around I would get this feeling and everytime he would talk to me or say hi and look me in the eyes he would give me this feeling no one else ever ever has given me. The relationship we both had was very amiable, we never had a conversation lasting more than 5 minutes but we would smile alot to each other. The years went by and we both went out separate ways. he was older than I was. I went out with his best friend a 2 years later of meeting him and they lived together so i would see him often and still he gave me this feeling. two years passed by and i i had broken up with my bf after 9 months and i moved on, I would see him around hanging out with my brother once in a while and I lost hopes to ever have something with him because i knew he would never love me. He eventually joined the navy and was gone for 2 years, I always though about him once in a while. So recently over the summer I met a guy and we had a very nice relationship and we became very good friend and we had a very spiritual relationship as well, many things weren't right though so we broke up after 8 months. AND HERES THE TWIST! the navy guy came back and i didnt know...I was with a couple of friends and my best friend asked me to come along and so i did and she said oh we're gonna hang out with the boys i think they are going to be hanging with one of their old friends and so i tagged along and when we get to the bus station i see him. i saw him again and the feeling came back, i looked at him in the eyes hi blue eyes and i started to remember how badly in love i was with him. and how the feeling he only gave me came back. a feeling i cant explain and so we stared at eachother for about 5 seconds and he smiled and i smiled back and he said hi..so we about out day and we talked, well he started talking to me and he ended up walking me home and when i was going to go in he asked me do you have my number? and i was like " no why would i" haha and so he gave me his number to see if we could hnag out sometime but i didnt but we did see each other and we started talking and he told me to wait for him, he told me he fell in love with me that night he saw me at the station and that he wants to beging something new with me but hes afraid that anything can happen. I guess now that im older and look better and more of a woman. I promised him i would wait. A month later my ex Bf left to the army, I still talk to him and he tells me to wait for him that he loves me and that he wants to come back to me and he writes me letter telling me how much he misses me and I dont know what to tell him, he knows about this other guy but he still has hopes that we can go back. Now its been months since they both left . one to the navy again and the other one to army. I miss my ex bf because we did have something very strong and intimate but at the same time I love the navy guy, i love him ever since i saw him I dont know what to do. I miss my ex but I love the other man and I long to be with him. Who should I wait for? army guy or navy guy? please help me!!!!!!
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reader, ale71 +, writes (14 April 2009):
ale71 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I made up my mind, navy guy
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (20 March 2009):
 Don't string them both along find a nice Air Force guy they spend less time away!
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