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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing my girlfriend for about two years now and I recently asked her to marry me. She's the same age as me (25) but she's still a virgin. She said that she has always wanted to wait for the right guy. I've been with her for two years and I love her so much that it isn't hard to respect her wishes as I want her for her. As long as she is with me I don't care. Now, she says she is ready to have sex with me. She wants us to have a special weekend this weekend. Thing is, I've never taken a girl virginity before. How can I make it a special night for her? I know that it will probably be uncomfortable for her the first time. Any ideas as to what I can do to make her relax?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): I agree with anonymous. You've waited this long. Why not wait until you're married. Your girlfriend seems like a sweet, old-fashioned girl, and I think she'd be impressed. You also sound like a great guy, and she's lucky to have you.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): To make it a really special night for her- tell her that you will wait and only have sex after marriage because you respect her and you want to save the best for your wedding night with her. If you can tell her that and if I am your girlfriend, I will be really impressed with you and assured that you really love me as you don't want to hurt me in any way. You can call me old fashion but I still think it is really cool if we can save our virginity for our spouse as not many people can do that now.
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reader, natasia +, writes (19 March 2009):
 the male reader is completely right. also, keep a sense of humour : )
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): Try to be romantic, girls will remember the first time for ever and they know that before they do it so they want it to be really special. Cook a really nice meal, massage her if she would like that, take a shower together maybe. Do anything you can and when you are getting intimate take it slowly and talk to her to make sure she is comfortable, other than that just play it by ear and be gentle.
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