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41-50,
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writes:God i am so paranoid bout my boyfriend its driving me mad. My boyfriend has always been quite honest with me.but for some reason i always see the bad in him and never believes what he says.always think he has a motive for everything. Hes got a past womeniser is how id put it. Hes quite cocky and very confident bloke.and i seem to think that women are drawn to him and when im not around he flirts and maybe crosses the line with them but i dont have proof of any cheating its just things i pick up on. Hes always says im sexy. Gorgeous. He loves me so much. Hes never had what we have. And when were together were so lovin. He surprises me leave me little note everywhere telling how much he loves me. But when hes not with me i think he up to no good. If he gos out with his mates i just imagine him pulling women and chatting them up. He doesnt text me much when hes with them so when i dont hear from him i think thats it he dont care bout me. His mates mean more and hes probably eyeing up different women! Im so insecure and just think one day he will want someone else. We have spilt few times over this. And he always comes back telling me he misses me and no one compares to me. I do everything 4 him and worry he thinks im a soft touch or something! I feel that he always has to prove his love for me to feel happy! Does he love me i dont know!
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reader, Neoloverboy23  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 I would say that you and him should have a long talk about this alone somewhere in your area. I would say that he still loves you, but I feel that you should work out with your emotions and try your best to trust him. If he has any phone numbers other than yours, his family or friends, or if he has any photos of other girls that he has met while he's with you, then it's suspicious and he might be up to no good. Maybe this is just his own personality and maybe he does it with every other girl, but that doesn't necessarily mean that he's sleeping with someone. To me, I feel that something bad happened in your past that is making you insecure. You have to work on this a little more because if you smother him too much, then that only means you're too clingy. Learn to really trust him, but if he really is messing around with other women, then confront him about it. Let him know that it's not right for him to treat you this way and if he doesn't change, then leave him. You are a good woman, but try to remain calm and don't let this get to your head because it will make you not eat or sleep.
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