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writes:Hi,I'm 27,I was in a live-in relationship with a girl for over 3 years,my family knew about it and everyone welcomed her with open arms!I belong to a very priveldged family and with god's grace we have more that what we asked for! I loved this girl with all my heart and was going to ask her to marry me soon,but out of nowhere she dumped me for another guy who is rich and is popular in the social circuits!I was stunned..I broke down I would leave my house at 6am take my work clothes with me,and change right after workout and not come home cuz I dint want my family to see how broken I was!she traded me for a man who is richer!after this I met a girl thru a friend,we first started talking on facebook,then texting and finally calling!I started sharing with her a lot of things I was going thru and when I met her I actually dint have much to say neither did she,it was pretty 'boring' if I may add!she is the quite type doesn't really talk much,I'm not like that but I guess I never made an attempt either..I think she wanted me to say a lot of things,cuz she seemed upset at one point and she went to the other room and I dint follow her there,only when it was time for me to leave did I go to the room,to wear my shoes!when she dropped me off to the airport she held my hand and hugged I dint respond I was pretty cold to her but that's because I'm dead inside! I'm confused if I ever liked this girl I met thru a friend or was I just using her as a shrink?I feel bad,how can I make amends?
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (9 May 2013):
 You are still healing and cannot force yourself to feel something ou dont. Try a couple meetings and if there is still no chemistry, set her free.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2013): Give some time to urself.......
have some more meetings..... if u feel good and enjoy each others company.... and if she also feel the same.... propose and marry....
if u guys r not comfortable with each other.... please dont ruin ur life and also hers..... just be good friends.....
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