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writes:Well as many of you know I've been having issues with my so called boyfriend .. Well me and him aren't together any longer and I feel good but then again really lonely. I go out with family and friends to get my mind off things but today I saw him at the restaurant where I was eating and he looked happy to see me , his eyes got big and he smiled then once I passed him he turned to see me and he looked sad , I feel bad but then again I'm happy now! Just wanted to let you guys know what's been happening these days :) thanks for the past help!!! I appreciate it alot ! Reply to this Question
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reader, The hopeless girl +, writes (2 May 2013):
The hopeless girl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all :))
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 May 2013):
 Congrats on being strong. The loneliness and sadness will pass for both of you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 May 2013):
 Good for you!
He'll get over it eventually, so don't feel bad for him.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (2 May 2013):
 Be strong. You did the right thing breaking up with him. It's gonna be hard, but things will get better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2013): Just so aunts can have a bit of back story.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-my-boyfriend-to-gain-his.html
You're welcome OP and you're doing great.
That sadness and loneliness won't last too long, and every time you feel those things remind yourself of what you escaped from.
He was a horrifically selfish boyfriend to say the things he did, to put it all on you in the way he did.
Take your time OP, loneliness, the grieving process of a break up is one of the hardest things we ever have to deal with in life. But you will get past it and time will heal it.
Stay strong, be civil when you see him but keep all the lines of communication cut.
Do not even respond to a "just seeing how you are" message.
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